How can you tell if someone's gay?

[StudboySeth]

The surest sign is tongue-kissing. Men will frequently fuck with other men - but unless he enjoys sucking face as well as sucking dick he's straight.

I concur. I have a friend that I kinda sleep with every so often (same latino guy as before), and he recently had gingival surgery, so I told him not to go down on anyone, to which he replied "oh man, you know I don't do that." Which I pointed out I knew was a lie as he had done it to me just 2 days before without me even asking him to. He loves to make out when we're in private...but then turns it off any gay tendencies while in the public, which is fine as I don't want a relationship with him.

 

[G-Lexington]

I have a fool-proof way of telling. If I'm thinking a guy might be gay, I fuck him in the ass. If he stays hard the whole time, he's gay.

Lex

 

[Ninja108]

You can't really tell(least I can't). Sometimes it's obvious (richard simmons anyone) but most of the time they look just liek straights.

 

[Blueyes]

I have a fool-proof way of telling. If I'm thinking a guy might be gay, I fuck him in the ass. If he stays hard the whole time, he's gay.

Lex

lol that rules out many porn stars from being gay......

 

[marstons123]

I don't believe that gaydar exists.

I think it does mine working well i feel

My best friend, listens to all sorts of music mostly pop has good fasion sense, does his hair alot, no answer on myspace orientation, friends with guys/girls spends shit loads of money on clothes, tried to fool around with me (when I was drunk and he wasn't) . But stands and holds himself like a straight guy but walks quite stiffly seems as if to me he's acting straight like trying to change his walk consciencly. But doesnt when friends are around him (relaxed, unconscience mind). but of course this is my gaydar readings which I have put into the thread. Thinking about it he doesnt have many Straight characteristics about him.

GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY

 

[sebastian-k]

easy one!!!

just ask.

 

[marstons123]

Thats a totally differnt story for another day.

It was good though

 

[VanHiscers]

I flash my homosexuality like a badge only in front of my trusted friends. Because I hate lying to make me sound straight all the time. For example, when we're close enough, they will probably ask me about my girlfriend, and I'll tell them that I never feel for females. The thing is there are a lot of guys out there who still won't share their sexuality even when I does so in front of them, which give me fause information that they're not gay.

 

[januaryguy]

I believe "it takes one to know anther"....

 

[Xpione]

The way they act tell alot. What they like(feminant stuff)? Though I must warn you, this are not always the case. Some Gay/Bisexual guys act pretty straight.

 

[sexaddict76]

Without stereotypes I can't tell. If he acts more like a girl than a girl, I assume he's gay and I'm not into that type. If I wanted a woman I'd get one.

The whole eye contact thing is tricky. I don't like making eye contact with anyone. Eye contact is a weird thing for me and I always seem to make uncomfortable eye contact, frequently, with girls I'm close too. When scoping guys, I don't want to be too obvious and catch a straight one, so it doesn't work for me.

 

[dirtyturtle]

Generally i can tell! sometimes its obvious and others its not till he does something noticable! but thats why i have my best friend! she has like the best gaydar i have ever seen! ITS WEIRD! in a crowd where she knows nobody she can pick them out easily! anyway back to topic....there are things that are noticable

 

[degavas]

My dad claims to have the unbeatable gaydar...
But seeing as how i'm still living under his roof, I doubt he knows.

I can usually tell by paying attention to their posture. I was at the bowling alley with a couple of friends and 2 guys and 2 girls next to us started to bowl... I could tell that they were gay just by watching them walk. When we were leaving a friend of mine pointed them out to me and when i turned I saw them kissing.

But then again, i was watching Cruel Intentions today and I thought that Reese Witherspoone's husband was gay in that movie

 

[chrisdobro]

about asking: don't ask if they are gay. Tell them you are. It's safer than asking. It gives them an open invitation then. Watch their reaction. Even if they are gay they may or may not tell you right away, but they surely will let you know by their actions.

 

[mabby7]

about asking: don't ask if they are gay. Tell them you are. It's safer than asking. It gives them an open invitation then. Watch their reaction. Even if they are gay they may or may not tell you right away, but they surely will let you know by their actions.

How about if you're in the closet? ... Maybe it's better to say that you are gay when you don't really know someone.

 

[Ninja108]

You can't most of the time because gays are like everyone else

 

[Treborf]

A. )One guy at school talks with a little lisp, has a hairdresser, and dresses really abercrombie and fitchy. HE also has a pierced lip, and kisses his girlfriend in public TOO much. Is he?

B. )Another guy smiles a lot, is quiet, but only likes to act crazy when it comes to wrestling other guys shirtless, shaving other guy's legs in the shower(With boxers), and being part of the skin fest-sausage fest at football games(the guys who have school letters on their bare chest's)

C. )One another guy is on the baseball team, really good-looking, but stares at me a lot(I'm not out). Especially when he thinks I'm not looking, his eyes are locked on me.

D. )Another guy has never had a girlfriend, touched me a lot in track bare arm/side to bare arm/side(We were always next to each other in races). Hesays he is totally against gays and that it is a choice. He turned red when the subject came up in English too(He has a very light complexion). No one else in the class turned red. I've also caught him glancing at a few guy's crotches. Today he was speaking to another friend, and the friend asked him why he didn't have a girlfriend, he responded "Girls, aren't for me. . .(Blank stare). . .no!, I me-I mean I don't have the money or time. . .". He's really subtle and has a deep voice(like me). A lot, and I ean A LOT of his friends are chicks.


What do you guys think about A?, B?, C?, D? (Remember, I'm not out yet, and I think I'm just Bi to be honest.)

a)Straight
b)Straight
c)Gay
d)Gay

Now what prize do I get if I'm right?

 

[amyleeisjesus]

Alcohol works really well. I mean if you can get someone intoxicated well enough then you can USUALLY get them to do anything they would be normally apprenshive to. Always ask first though.... Make sure you sign some consent form you have drawn up 'just incase'.

I can't believe anyone would actually have "consent forms" readily available beside the condoms in their wallet. Biggest buzzkill ever.

Sign here, here and here...

 

[chrisdobro]

How about if you're in the closet? ... Maybe it's better to say that you are gay when you don't really know someone.

then don't say you are gay. Just act it. I mean, what are you after ? If it's sex, ask for it by name It does work with some prep work. If it's just your desire to find out if someone is gay, first talk to them and steer the conversation towards a gay topic. See if they actively pick it up or not.

But I don't think it's the question whether they are gay or not. Usually it's a question: do they like me ? Will they be my boyfriend ? That is much easier to find out usually I mean you can do so without bringing up issue of homosexuality. Again it takes talking to them and seeing how they carry themselves around you. For example, ignoring you and talking to their other friend is a sign that they are not interested. Talking to you and not walking away, is a sign that they may like you.

 

[interesting]

I can't believe anyone would actually have "consent forms" readily available beside the condoms in their wallet. Biggest buzzkill ever.

Sign here, here and here...

That is so funny and wrong on oh so many levels.

I can't tell worthshit not unless he's flamboyant. And at this rate, I'm never going to get a bf if I can't bring myself to asking another guy.