How Daring Have You Been With A Straight Guy?

[SuperDodgy]

Pretty much cool stories on here ... I feel like such a wooze! haha

 

[Kyanimal]

So going by your logic, you would want to have sex with women, since "guys are out for sex because they're guys". Get over yourself, sport. Straight men don't want to have sex with other men, in the same way that you don't want to have sex with women.



Great. The only problem is that they weren't really straight. Why? Because real straight boys don't have sex with men. Period.



You mean their non-heterosexual tendencies, correct?



Agreed. A bunch of gay and bisexual men pretending to be something that they are not: heterosexual. The trust part comes that they need to trust that you won't tell the World that they're not heterosexual.



I won't make any personal comments here, because it would result in me getting banned, but let's just say that what you're suggesting is rape. Getting a person drunk and then having sex with them is rape. Someone who's drunk cannot make rational decisions.



I hope not. I seriously hope he has a Human soul and doesen't rape a poor, innocent boy.



The irony of this...

THA

Hey, "THA"!

I do appreciate your comments, and can completely understand your perspective! I was your age, once upon a time, too. But, I've also been on this planet, observing, interacting with, and learning from, my fellow Humans, twice as long as you have ... plus 15!

And I do not mean that as a "put down". Far from it! (I only wish I could be your age, again!) But I've learned that things are not as neat, black and white, as they may appear to you at this point. There are SO Many shades of gray! Relying on Lables only serves to restrict your own experiences.

I am by NO means a "Predator"! I would NEVER consider Forcing ANYONE to do ANYTHING they didn't want to do! My comments about the effects of alcohol were not intended to presume anyone was reduced to incapacity! In most cases, however, it was a "convenient excuse", offering a certain degree of "Deniablility", to ALL involved. "Yeah! We did that. But, it wasn't "really" Us!" Catch my drift?

And, yes, I've had more than my "fair share" of intimate, personal, experiences with Females! But, once I met "My" Kev, in 1982, that was the end of that!

I have learned that most Guys are "Sexual Beings", and, given the "right opportunities", with the knowledge of Trust and Confidentiality, will express their core sexuality with other Guys, eventhough they "Identify" as being Str8! This is NOT a "Theory"! I've learned this from being able to drop my own social defenses, and granting them the possibility to do the same, in Socially, and Physically, Safe ways.

As "GUYS", we are, the World over, "trained" to conduct ourselves as something other than the emotional, passionate, sexual beings that we naturally are! But, given the "right" circumstances, most of "Us" will gladly, and freely, almost jump at the chance to relax, and, for the moment, drop our defenses to realize, and appreciate, almost revel in, our mutual, physical, "Brotherhood"! WE are ALL more alike than we're "supposed" to admit!

Keep smilin'!! (And I do mean that!)
Chaz

 

[Kyanimal]

Hey KY,

I think the good Doctor Alfred Charles Kinsey would agree with your analysis my friend!

Hey, Rob!

You KNOW I already YOU! (And, Eric!) Right? ("Just" one Passionate, Vulnerable, Emotional, Guy to Another!)

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Danugh]

If i was invisible, i'd walk up to hot straight guys and grab their dicks.

I am just so curious about other guys dicks. Everytime i see a hot guy i want to know what he has.

I have kissed sleeping straight men before and grabbed their dicks while they were sleeping. Sometimes they would wake up.

I have started fist fights with straight guys just so i could grab their dicks without seeming gay. Anything goes in war

While driving if i see a hot guy next o me in traffic i have blown kisses at them before speeding off.

Once at camp this guy was sleeping in his boxers alone and i walked over to his bed looking at him while jerking off to his hot ripped body. He woke up and caught me.

I have flat out asked straight guys if i could kiss them or feel up their dicks or see their dicks, or give them a BJ.

I have a lesbian friend. We used to baitbus guys.

She would pick them up from clubs carry them to my place. I'd hide in the closet, she would blind fold them and i would come out and suck their dick and kiss them. Sometimes right as they are about to cum i would take of the blindfold.

 

[mabby7]

If i was invisible, i'd walk up to hot straight guys and grab their dicks.

I am just so curious about other guys dicks. Everytime i see a hot guy i want to know what he has.

I have kissed sleeping straight men before and grabbed their dicks while they were sleeping. Sometimes they would wake up.

I have started fist fights with straight guys just so i could grab their dicks without seeming gay. Anything goes in war

While driving if i see a hot guy next o me in traffic i have blown kisses at them before speeding off.

Once at camp this guy was sleeping in his boxers alone and i walked over to his bed looking at him while jerking off to his hot ripped body. He woke up and caught me.

I have flat out asked straight guys if i could kiss them or feel up their dicks or see their dicks, or give them a BJ.

I have a lesbian friend. We used to baitbus guys.

She would pick them up from clubs carry them to my place. I'd hide in the closet, she would blind fold them and i would come out and suck their dick and kiss them. Sometimes right as they are about to cum i would take of the blindfold.

Wow! Hot stories!!! Nasty

 

[timmyd2121]

This thead lost it's buzz...

 

[Kyanimal]

My apologies to everyone else who WAS enjoying this Thread, but, I've just got to give this one more shot ...

"THA" ...

I do hold a bit of admiration for your intensity, conviction in your own (current) beliefs, and your willingness to put your thoughts "Out There"!

But ... I've also gotta tell You ... being completely honest, and truly concerned for your own wellfare ... Dude! It's quite obvious You DO NOT HAVE A CLUE!!

Granted, there are some valid considerations in what you have been presenting as your point of view. However, given the general impressions I've been getting of you, I have to wonder just what it is that You are afraid of? Why is this topic such a serious matter with you? And, if your culture, and experiences, so farly exceed mine, why are you insisting, so vehemently, to restricting your thoughts to such narrowly defined limitations?

Man! You're young, you're bold, you're highly opinionated, and you're missing out on so many possibilities because of the constraints you're, obviously, placing upon your range of thought!

For the rest of your years, I sincerely hope that you shall find a way to Relax, overcome your self-induced restraints, expand your views concerning LIFE, in general, on this Planet, and realize some modicum of Enjoyment in everything that is before You!

And ... for everyone else ... a bit of "Wisdom" that has taken me years to learn ... Our biggest regrets, usually, are the results of what we DIDN'T DO!

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Kyanimal]

Guys ... try this thread!

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=158897

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[edgeattraction]

The most daring I have been is while wrestling...

My friends parents weren't home so we got into a playful fight and I had him pinned when I felt his erection. I rubbed him with that spot between my penis and butt and he smiled. He then threw me over and did the exact same to me but a little more in a erotic way...but then his parents drove into the driveway so we jumped up and focused on getting our erections down.

But it was hot.

 

[TygreBryte]

When I was in college, i was totally in the closet. Well, I tried to be, but I know that by the time i graduated, I was "leaking" all around the corners. My sr. year I asked a freshman friend if I could suck him. He told me no; he had tried something like that once when he was 12 or so and found it disturbing. He's not the only 'straight' guy I've ever talked with who talked about childhood homosexual experimentation that just didn't do it for him, or even left them uncomfortable or worse. Before I asked him, I knew that he was very sexually active with women/girls and had been for a while. But I was just so damned horny, and crushed out on him.

About that same time, I was "kidnapped" in a college-type prank, and this one guy was holding me from behind, and I didn't at all try to get away. I think this particular guy figured out that it felt good to me in a sexual way, and he sort of backed off. I think that changed our relationship in a negative way.

I went through a whole long period in my 20's when i got repeatedly crushed out on straight guys. I somehow managed to end up having good, lasting friendships with several of these guys, and never had sex with any of them, and actually never tried to initiate sex with any of them. A couple of these guys are among the ones who told me they'd had sexual experiences with guys when they were younger and just weren't interested in that any more. One guy, I still think maybe someday we might end up fooling around, but i'm not sure it'd be a good idea, he lives a long way away, we're both really busy, and why the hell complicate things?

I have this one friend -- he's not one of my best friends but we've known each other for a long time and treat each other well -- he's probably six years younger than me. I have for years watched him "tease" with other friends in just exactly the way that "waitandsee1688" described. He'll do stuff like sing a little song that ends up with "and I want to have sex with *youuuuu,*" pointing to one of our other guys friends. I sort of think it makes him nervous to do it in front of me, since they all know I'm gay, but he does it anyway. I feel pretty certain that he doesn't actually want to have sex with any of those guys, but teasing like that is a part of their being close. That being said, there was a long period of time in my life where I found that kind of stuff kind of threatening, because I didn't know how much guys "meant" it.

I think of myself as very gay, but not a "kinsey 0." No denial there, that's just how I feel about it. I *know* "Kinsey 0s". I can imagine certain situations where I might be

I don't know that we have very good numbers about just how exactly "rare" bisexuality is, what is "true" straight, "true" gay, etc. I can't remember where I read it, but someone somewhere suggested that guys who like to look at porn that's not just chicks masturbating themselves enjoy looking at cock. That makes a certain amount of sense to me. what about "pulling a train"? I know that hetero gang-bangs happen, and the phrase "sloppy seconds" didn't just come in the mail, but I can certainly see that there are guys who have enjoyed all fucking one female, in a group. Now, is that exactly "straight"? But are those guys "gay"? Mostly, I think not.

Now, all that being said, I know I have missed plenty of opportunities to have fune with attractive guys because I wasn't tuned in. Oh well, things are good for me now!

 

[latinoguy19]

Well, I wrote a song to this guy i was crushing on for 2 years straight. i recorded it and burned to a cd with a note.

we havent spoken in a year.

but ive moved on. a guy in one of my classes (same name as me) had his leg on my desk and i told him to "get his hard-ass leg off my desk" and he's like "hard, more like your crotch!". the girl in front of me turned and said, "how would you know?" and hes tells her, "cuz i made it that way"....he knows i am gay, but not that i like him. everyone started ragging on him and calling him gay...etc. we've been flirting like crazy...he'll stop at my locker and pinch me or squeeze my shoulder, and i sprained my ankle on tues and he'll come find me in the morning at school and ask me how i am doing. we ended seeing each other after school today, and damn, i realized i really wanted him, and he might feel the same. just gotta take another step...

 

[Apollux]

Hmmm.. i guess is time for me to come cleam. Actually 2 experiences to tell.

1. In the puberty me and my cousing would always be "experimenting" on each other... actually it was more like me experimenting on him. Things started playing medical doctor... they progressed over the months into me sucking his meat trough the denin of his pants. Never actually sucked him bareskin, but handled and manipulated his dick many times... One night we shared one bed, but with the head toward oposite sides... none of us got any sleep that night molesting each other croch with our feets. Time went on, we left the experimentation phase behind... I´m openly gay, he is straight married and with 3 childs.. Never spoke about those times again.

2. This is quite recent. Have/had (still unclear) this huge crush with a straight friend of mine. He is tall, blond, green eyes and a totally sucessful with the ladies. Have been friends for about 3 years now.

The crush progressed from him been jerkoff material to him been on my thoughs 24/7. So I had to take some action. First step was comming out of the closet to him.. he was very cool about it and even confided about certain other common friend of us been gay as well (realised right there he isn't very discrete, but I guess it was a unconcious reaction.... like for demostrating that he was really cool about it).

Second step was starting to flirt with him, in a kinda inocent way. Usually I would comment on his looks (he really looks like he just came out of a GQ photoshoot, and he happends to be a photographer as well).

Third, when my total crush for him was obvious to every single one of my friends, except to him I had to tell him, otherwise I would loose my sanity. So one night a group of friends where hanging out in my house until very late in the night, I texted him that I need to talk with him in private. Eventually we called it a day and everybody took off, including him. 2 minutes after everybody has left he pulled into my garage again ... it was now or never.

So now that the house was empty I sat down with him and totally came clean about my feelings for him... he was shocked but cool about it. He said he was positively straight and didn't feel the same way for me, but as long as I respect him everything would be like always.. and it was true. Only difference is than when flirting with him, now I say "man, you look damm hot on that shirt" instead of "he, that shirt goes well with you".

We keep been close friends (sometimes too close for my own sake) and eventually time came when we started to share little secret things from our past that we hadn't tell other people before.. it was how I learned that his actions are not so angelic as his looks, and comming to that realization somehow made my crush start to fade. I still feel a stir down there everytime we see each other and specially when we hug (yes, he is the touchy-feeling type), but the crush isn't what it used to be (thanks God for that).

 

[trigger22]

My best friend used to spend the night at my house all the time. Since I didn't have another bed he would just share mine. He would always insist on having his own covers and he would sleep way on the other side of the bed. I am no where near out or even sure if I am "in" but I have always fantasized about guys. But fear of rejection from my family, friends and religion has always kept me pretty quiet.

Anyway after my friend staying over a few times I would get really horney at night and I started rubbing on his crotch if he stirred too much I would stop and try to go back to sleep. Sometimes I even went as far as putting my hands down his pants.
This would go on for hours before I realized it it would be almost morning. One day He asked me why was I touching him at night. I was terrified so I made some stupid excuse and changed the subject. I thought that our friendship would be over. However the next week he asked if he could come back over to spend the night, and he slept right in the bed even though I offered him the living room couch.

We eventually started jerking off together at first he would turn away from me so that I wouldn't see him but eventually he got comfortable doing it in front of me. This type of relationship went on for awhile, until one night I just couldn't help myself I was feeling depressed and horney (bad combination) and I couldn't keep my hands off him. I would rub him then feel guilty and go out the room hoping the feelings would go away but when I came back a few minutes later I started right back. I went farther than I had ever been before. I placed my mouth against his short fronts I went into his shorts I couldn't not stop. Eventually I decided to stop and tried to go to sleep when I heard my friend say my name. I was scared shitless. He told me he had been awake the whole time and that I could suck him off if i wanted to. I couldn't stop apologizing I really wanted to cry. He told me that it would be ok and he started taking his shorts down. I told him that I didn't want our friendship to end but he assured me that it wouldn't. I so badly wanted to go back to sleep and have him forget what had happened but instead I sucked him off.

The next day he assured me that it was cool and that he wouldn't tell anyone and that nothing would change between us. And it didn't. He didn't want me to do it again for a long time. But recently he would ask me if he could come over my house to watch porno and we would jerk off. I practically begged him if I could suck him off again and eventually he let me.

I would love to have a relationship with him but I know that would never happen. He is straight and he just had a baby. He loves women and loves straight porno. I know it sounds stupid but I am really appreciate him letting me do what I did, but I still feel guilty. When he comes over to watch porn I always tell myself that I'm not going to ask him to do anything but I always do. and he always says no but eventually he caves in. He said that nothing would change between us but some how I think it has. It's pretty strange. He's the only one who knows my secret and he's the main person I would love to keep it from. I'm really afraid that I may mess his life up. I don't even want these feelings and I would hate to pass them on to him. I know that you can't pass these feelings on to anyone else but

 

[starlight70]

Let's see. There's this guy, who's Mexican, with whom I work. I asked him for keys one day, and he said, "kiss?" in a joking manner. After that, he puckered up his lips.

Well, I ended up getting the keys from someone else; I brought the keys back to him and said, "Where do I put the keys?". Once again, he said "kiss?" in a joking manner and puckered his lips. I gave him a quick peck on the lips and walked off.

Kiss? *Hint*Hint*

 

[Singularity]

I'm str8 & curious a bit, that stuff never happens to me. lol

And you're waiting for what...? There's a thousand gay guys waiting for an opportunity you could offer, so get out there and make a fellow gay happy.

 

[PhoenixRandall]

I've slept with several and love doing it. As i said in a post on a different thread, there just doesnt seem to be as much bullshit when dealing with a bi or straight guy...no gay drama. I have never slept with a bi/straight guy that freaked out afterwards either...they knew what they wanted before they did it. I can see this happening, but I have been lucky enough not to expereince it firsthand.

I have found that there is no good way to pick up a straight guy either. They have always approached me. The only trends I have noticed are that we are usually (not always) sitting in a bar having drinks and I am discussing being gay in an open and confident way. They always seem to be interested in what goes on, why someone is gay,etc, when it is discussed without a lot of stereotypical "gay speak." Works for me anyway, but I wouldnt call it a "pick up" routine.

 

[squiggle]

I've slept with several and love doing it. As i said in a post on a different thread, there just doesnt seem to be as much bullshit when dealing with a bi or straight guy...no gay drama. I have never slept with a bi/straight guy that freaked out afterwards either...they knew what they wanted before they did it. I can see this happening, but I have been lucky enough not to expereince it firsthand.

I have found that there is no good way to pick up a straight guy either. They have always approached me. The only trends I have noticed are that we are usually (not always) sitting in a bar having drinks and I am discussing being gay in an open and confident way. They always seem to be interested in what goes on, why someone is gay,etc, when it is discussed without a lot of stereotypical "gay speak." Works for me anyway, but I wouldnt call it a "pick up" routine.

How many times does it have to be said. These 'straight' guys aren't straight, they're closeted. I don't like the internalised homophoia speak of 'gay drama' either. Please, a gay man will love you or f*ck you and leave just like you're so-called 'straight' guys.

 

[Kyanimal]

How many times does it have to be said. These 'straight' guys aren't straight, they're closeted. I don't like the internalised homophoia speak of 'gay drama' either. Please, a gay man will love you or f*ck you and leave just like you're so-called 'straight' guys.

O.K. Y'all would think by now that I've learned to keep my mouth shut! But, here we go with the whole "Label" thing ... again.

Yes, there are TRUE Str8 Guys that would consider being sexually intimate, with another Guy, entirely disgusting, and absolutely revolting! And, they would never, ever, do it.

But ... I am convinced there are Far more many "Str8" Guys, not truly "Bi", or "closeted", who are merely "curious", and willing to try different things, given the right circumstances, just for the sake of the experience. They may find they do not like it, or might discover that, yeah!, it's "O.K.", but not for a regular "diet", so to speak.

These are the Guys that will let you play with them, but only on a restricted basis. And once that happens, may never want to see you again! Or, might want a little more, but within Limits!

To put that into a little more of a perspective: Just because you might drive a Toyota, it doesn't make you Japanese!

Catch my drift?

And, yeah!, there are also Gay Guys that will "Play", and then ditch you like yesterday's laundry!

Guys, ALL Guys, are, still, basically Guys! Just like You! Just like Me! Only ... some more than others!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Caution]

This guy I knew when I was in middle school ( I had left that city and move to honolulu) and I met each other again when I came back to visit. I use to hate him because he was not only homophobic but a total jerk. This time he was really nice and really understanding but I still couldn't find anyreason to be close to him.

One day I followed my friends to his house for a party and we all had fun, girls and guys. Nobody know I am bisexual. After getting a little drunk we decided that since his parents were gone for a week, we would trash the place.

After that, someone suggested playing hide and seek. I know, very childish but it was fun! Anyway, we started out with the whole house and all the lights turned off. Our game was slightly different because nobody was allowed to use any light, even the person being IT! If nobody finds you, you can continue to hide until the person IT finds you, or else you can stay forever.

I was in his bedroom under his bed hiding for a very long time and nobody can find me. Suddenly someone crawled under with me and made a small whisper to stay quiet. It was him.

It was tight and hot underneath the bed and we had stayed for a long time. Neither of us wanted to go out so we stayed there face to face. I could feel his breath on my face as our face was very closed and we were touching arms, legs, and body.

Suddenly another person from the group decided to go under the bed and pushed me even closer to him. I felt his face pushed onto mines, our lips touching slightly and my mind went crazy. I thought he was totally straight and was thinking he would totally yell and crawl out away from me. Instead he stayed there. Eventually the third person crawled out and me and him was still in the same position.

I decided to save further awkwardness, to move away from him when he grabbed my face and kissed me. We ended up jerking each other the whole time hiding. I didn't get a chance to blow him because the person IT came in and found us hiding, luckily we had stopped doing anything!

That night everyone was drunk and the girls all slep together in one bedroom. the two other guys went to basement to sleep in seperate bedroom because it was cooler down there.

I had my own room and he did too. He came in later that night and talked to me. Telling me he was straight but never did anything like that before and how all of a sudden he feels very different. He said he is very open minded and accept what happened. He doesn't know if he is bisexual or not but he felt a sudden urge of comfort and liking toward me.

Anyway, we'd end up doing nothing because unexpectedly his parent came back home from their trip at 5 am that morning. All of us was running out like crazy teenagers because his father was threatening to get a knife and chop us all to pieces because we had totally trashed the place.

That was 2 years ago. I haven't gone back to visit since. He now has a gf and she talks to me all the time. She still tells me that he is bisexual and I would ask her how she know and she said he told her he'd experiment but refuse to tell whom.

Since she is my best friend, I didn't want to call him to talk to him at all. Once in a while I'll call her and he picks up, our conversation would be very boring and simple.

Recently they got into a big argument and she called me to cry about it. So i text him a message asking why he'd hurt her. He text back saying this:

"A girlfriend is a girlfriend, and a friend is a friend, but a true partner is a lover who doesn't understand"

I didn't reply to him at all because I don't know what to say.

very hot!

 

[waitandsee1688]

Yup, so I just officially found out I was correct. He does want to play around. I don't know how far he's wanting to go... but I'm sure as hell gonna find out!