How did u reply ??

[Telstra]

I know there is a threat somewhere but not much response.

How did u reply when someone asked u are u married, do u have a girl?
I always replied NO and moved to the next topic. (i know i'm a coward).

How did u guys reply when u are/were single and people did not know u are/were gay?


Thanks.

 

[G-Lexington]

I said, "No."

Once I had a boyfriend, I said, "No, I've got a boyfriend."

Lex

 

[Ohiospeedo]

Say - Nope not married. I am an old-fashioned romantic and am still looking for my soul mate.

OR

Depends on young you are, say - I am not ready to give up my partying ways and settle down.

 

[Shepherd 2]

telsltra
For me the fact is that I did not know myself that I was gay until I was forty-nine. Man was I surprised. That was about 18 years ago. I was a married man for 24 years and raised three children.

Now I am a "man's man" in that other sense. I have my hands on his cock almost as much as on my own. He is a keeper, and I am not all that different from you. You will read this and think, "That fucker must be as dumb as a stone." But the closet was deep and bolted tightly years ago, and going out was a scary thing then for a certainty. I know it is now too, but many of us struggled for years with out identity. Now I work to help people in their teens which is the time of identity issues in development and I try to guide them. It is a lot different, but there are still difficult issues for your group coming along. Is that helpful, if not PM me with personal questions.
Shep+

 

[justjw]

"So is that your girlfriend?" nodding at the lady-friend I'm with
"Nope, that's a friend of mine"
"Oh, so dó you have a girlfriend?"
"Nope"
"A boyfriend then?"
"Nope"
"Ah, okay"

End of story, if they're smart they'll figure it out.
If they're not there's no use in making them any the wiser.

 

[robbieadam]

I pretty much just say, "I'm gay".

And I always get the same response: "Oh...erm...yeah...OK".

 

[winterknight]

I just say "No".

I don't see the point in elaborating further, and to be honest, no-one has ever cared enough to want to ask why not.

 

[Telstra]

I pretty much just say, "I'm gay".

And I always get the same response: "Oh...erm...yeah...OK".

After u said "i'm gay" what were the conversations ?

 

[RationalLunacy]

I always ask: "Who wants to know?"

 

[Telstra]

telsltra
For me the fact is that I did not know myself that I was gay until I was forty-nine. Man was I surprised. That was about 18 years ago. I was a married man for 24 years and raised three children.

Now I am a "man's man" in that other sense. I have my hands on his cock almost as much as on my own. He is a keeper, and I am not all that different from you. You will read this and think, "That fucker must be as dumb as a stone." But the closet was deep and bolted tightly years ago, and going out was a scary thing then for a certainty. I know it is now too, but many of us struggled for years with out identity. Now I work to help people in their teens which is the time of identity issues in development and I try to guide them. It is a lot different, but there are still difficult issues for your group coming along. Is that helpful, if not PM me with personal questions.
Shep+

You must have an incredible live story to tell.

 

[Telstra]

I always ask: "Who wants to know?"

and then how did they reply to u?

 

[walkabout]

till 2 weeks ago I used to say yes [b/c I had one] no one has asked me yet so I dont know...maybe I will just say no and leave it there because 99% of the people who are going to ask that are not going to be important if they dont even know that much about my life...if and when they become close friends I would elaborate it .

 

[FPNY]

When I was on the police department I always said no, now I say I'm married and this is my husband!

 

[screwnutty]

I just say "No".

I don't see the point in elaborating further, and to be honest, no-one has ever cared enough to want to ask why not.

Same here Winterknight. Same here.

 

[AlinCanada]

For me it is always are you married 'yes' the next question usually is along the lines of what's she like or whats her name to which point I make them aware that he does not like being cast a a woman.