How did you learn about masturbation ?

[dpnice]

Scout camp.

I shared a tent with 3 older scouts and they started talking about it.

I asked if I could do it to them and they all refused; was I disappointed, that would have been fun.

 

[bankside]

School classes. The official curriculum. Don't health classes cover sexuality these days?

I had touched my dick before then, and knew it felt good to squeeze it, but health class explained what i was shooting for. (HAH!)

 

[JohnnyAnger]

Just by chance - I think all boys play with their cocks from the second they are born, it just builds up to full blown wanking.

School classes. The official curriculum. Don't health classes cover sexuality these days?

I had touched my dick before then, and knew it felt good to squeeze it, but health class explained what i was shooting for. (HAH!)

Good god no! Although I was educated under Section 28, so maybe it was removed in the early 90s. We got basic discussion on what sex was, and a teacher put a condom on a cucumber to show us how.

 

[peeonme]

As I have mention more than a few times, I was in an all boys school from the time I was 13 until just before I was 15.
I had masturbated at the age of 12 jus 1 time and was terrified that I broke something.
At the boys school we had no privacy, so I learned quickly from the talk and from watching that all guys jacked off.

One time the guys from the cottage I was in were called into the office of the man who started the school, he had heard that there was
"sex play" as he put it going on at night between the boys. He admonished us not to have sex with each other, he said that if we did this it could turn us in to homosexuals.

He also said that 9 out of 10 men would admit that they had masturbated... and the 10th man was a liar.
I felt better about masturbation and his warning didn't stop some of us from messing around with each other.

 

[IceColdLover]

Well, this might sound weird, but humping the floor was my way of getting off when I was young before other forms of masturbation. Can't believe I had those feelings at that age. I also think my dad's girlfriend's son at the time when I was 10 taught me all the dirty stuff (he's straight). He was somewhat of a sex addict and has a big dick. Wish I could have sucked on it.

 

[sixthson]

You didn´t respond the question, though

Oh, my bad

I don't remember not masturbating, but before puberty I don't know what I would have called it. I just rubbed on things, anything, and usually fully clothed. I knew even then that I felt my orgasm through my whole body, still do.
At puberty, my method of cumming got messy, so I kept doing it the same way only naked whenever I could, but not using my hand.
In middle school, some of the boys in shop classed talked about jacking off and even made the universal gesture for it. I asked the kid who sat in the desk next to me about it. He asked me if I knew how to make sperm. I told him yes and how I did it. He said he never tried it that way, but he explained the mechanics of it. I went home from school that day to try it. We had this old bunkhouse on our property and I went there, got naked and tried it just how he said. I did it so long but just couldn't make it work. I could feel how close I was, but had to stop because my penis got so sore and swollen, that it worried me. I gave up. The next day I tried it again. This time, it worked, and shot clear across the room, hitting the wall. I felt like such a man. I must have been 13 or 14.

 

[tarallucci]

I discovered masturbation by myself around the age of 10. I was watching those late night shows with girls stripping on television. I was feeling good but I couldn't yet realize that the pleasure was increasing if I touched my little pistol. So after a few nights like that, falling asleep with the tv on and with dad telling me off in the morning because I was watching porn (more like for the power bill actually ), my hands instinctively went inside my briefs and I began to rub my foreskin using the palm of my hand with a circular motion xD. What the hell was that?! 60% pleasant and 40% painful... I had to stop after a while because my skin was about to catch fire

Days later I figured out that I had to take the head out, going up and down. I was in the bathroom and I jerked off against the wall a bit. I said to myself "ah... that's how you do it, I need to repeat that as much as possible! Now to clean the wall though"
From there I also learned about the refractory period, as I could not go past 5 handjobs in a row

 

[nyctopgam]

He also said that 9 out of 10 men would admit that they had masturbated... and the 10th man was a liar.

Ha. Our sex ed teacher said the same thing. I don't remember him telling us not to do it though. Probably knew it was pointless.

 

[thewiz]

My best friend in 6th grade, Joe, and I discovered hard-ons about the same time and how good it felt to rub on each other -- especially between our legs. I was rubbing on him one night when my dick suddenly felt like it had never felt before. I remember the feeling was all consuming and whispered to him "don't move." He did. All of a sudden it felt like a pump was going off and when it stopped, I remember there was this white fluid on the end of my dick (and on his thighs). He told me I must have peed on him! lol!

A month or so later, my brother-in-law's nephew, Pat, and I were watching a bull breed one of the dairy cows. Pat asked if I "liked to play bull." I told him I did and he said to come to his bedroom that night. My sister/brother-in-law's farmhouse had two bedrooms upstairs that were only used when company stayed overnight (which I did often). After we went to bed, I tip-toed over to Pat's room and we got naked. He was two years older than I was (I must have been about 11 and he 13). He already had pubic hair which intrigued me a great deal. I remember he was the first one to suck on me and at first I was repulsed and then I quite enjoyed it; returning the favor to him. We rubbed out like I had Joe but Pat was much quicker at cumming than I!

During his next visit to my sister's -- a few months later -- and we were sucking when he started rubbing on his cock. I remember copying what he was doing and all of a sudden that great feeling again appeared and we came almost at the same time! I now knew how to jack off although I also loved rubbing one out on my fuzzy blanket on my bed or on a pillow covered by a towel! lol!

 

[chrisrobin]

From Masturbation for Dummies.

Unfortunately, as a recovering Catholic, I found about it in religion class - AKA "self-abuse." I was so racked with guilt that I confessed - just in case I might be going to Hell. The priest asked me how I learned about it.

 

[unloadonme]

... I was educated under Section 28 ...

Section 28 was supposed to prevent schools presenting homosexuality in a positive way. I don't think any government has ever tried to legislate against wanking.

 

[CharlieMars]

From being bored and playing with myself.

 

[JohnnyAnger]

Section 28 was supposed to prevent schools presenting homosexuality in a positive way. I don't think any government has ever tried to legislate against wanking.

It pretty much meant, at least at my school, they didn't teach any sex education of any sort beyond the science of heterosexual sex and how to put a condom on a cucumber. Nothing more. We pretty much went as far as it would ever go at age 8 when they taught us the basics. I think it bred enough fear into the system, as to essentially kill it all. Or perhaps it was that and wider policy to refuse sex education.

 

[Kahaih]

Did you learned out masturbation accidentally all by yourself or did you learn from an outside source.

I learned about masturbation by accident by myself .

I was probably 13 at the time.

How about you?

Somewhat young, as I recall.

On camping trips, Elroy's dad, Mr. Auto, would always to read to us from a Pop-up Wanker's Manual that he always held in his lap.

 

[LeicsDom]

It pretty much meant, at least at my school, they didn't teach any sex education of any sort beyond the science of heterosexual sex and how to put a condom on a cucumber.

We didn't even get that. Our RE teacher once showed us a film about breeding rabbits and that was that

 

[LeicsDom]

My mother was both hedonistic and progressive though, and she provided us straight porn in print when were were between maybe 5 and 7. We stared at it without being sexual at the time, just curious about naked bodies and sex. I still am not comfortable with that and think it jumped the gun.

We were never ever sat down and told anything but there was one of those old fashioned medical books around that explained everything, VD, foreskins, masterbation alongside various othe rmedical things like lung cancer etc

 

[bankside]

It pretty much meant, at least at my school, they didn't teach any sex education of any sort beyond the science of heterosexual sex and how to put a condom on a cucumber. Nothing more. We pretty much went as far as it would ever go at age 8 when they taught us the basics. I think it bred enough fear into the system, as to essentially kill it all. Or perhaps it was that and wider policy to refuse sex education.

Nobody wants to get impregnated by a cucumber. What a horror! All the little Cukinders...ugh...

 

[Mitchymo]

By myself when i was aged 6 or 7.

It wasn't until i was around 13 that i discovered the traditional way of doing it lol. The way that involves an erection.

The way i started cannot be done with a hardon, but any guy with erectile dysfunction may be interested to know that if you lay down on your stomach, raise your hips slightly to fit your hands in between your legs, then hold your penis inside your hands, and then simulate a 'washing hands' motion repeatedly, eventually you can orgasm.

This was the method that i stumbled across, and was the way i was masturbating the first time i ejaculated. Erections eventually got in the way of that method, but fortunately the timing was just as i entered high school and learned from classmates the word masturbator for the first time, and the 'jerk off' hand gesture.

Ah the memories.

 

[ravenstar]

Found a playgirl magazine when I was 10 or 11. Figured it out pretty quickly on my own from there.

 

[Georgiadude]

I was around ten my older brothers friend Kyle stopped by the house. we were just hanging out talking and he said "hey wanna see what this guy showed me last night?" I didn't have a clue what he was going to do but he said "we have to go to the bathroom and I'll show you." we went into the bathroom and he pulled out his penis and started rubbing it. I laughed a little and said what are you doing? he said to just keep watching. soon he was hard and started to jo. it didn't take long and he started breathing heavy and bending his knees. he aimed his dick into the sink and shot a huge load. he said it felt really good and I should try it. Kyle was fifteen and had a really hot body. his hair was white and he had white pubes. I didn't have any pubes yet. he kept rubbing his penis and told me to do it. I was already hard from watching him so I started to follow his lead. pretty soon I had this amazingly strange feeling and I felt my dick throbbing. I was disappointed because nothing came out like Kyle's did. he shot another load in the sink and he told me it would happen when I got a little older and I'd get hair by my penis like he had. I couldn't wait. I jo almost every day after that. I turned twelve and was jo one evening. I started getting that awesome feeling again and all of the sudden the same stuff Kyle had shot came flying out of my dick. I was so excited I called him and told him what happened. he laughed and said that was cool. after that I was a jo machine lol. any chance I got I did it. I know it's not a lot compared to some but my record was seven times in one day. Kyle graduated high school and moved to California and got married. a few years later his wife talked her brother and his friend into killing him. they beat him to death. still bummed about that. he was a really good guy.

Steven