Don’t worry about learning. You will know instinctively how to pleasure the guy. Your technique will improve over time but trust me - you will do just fine.
I have to laugh at your response. Apparently you didn't read any of my other posts in this thread such as the one below in bolded type.. I have been giving BJs to men for a very very long time, I was curious about what other guys early BJ experiences were like not on how I could learn to suck cock.
It came naturally to me as well. The first time I gave a man a BJ I just did what I liked having done to me and that seemed to work very well because he came in my mouth and I swallowed all of his cum. I knew immediately that I really liked sucking cock and swallowing cum and that I would want to do this with other men. I did learn a lot from having my gay friend, Terry (I have mentioned him in many of my posts), give me a blowjob after I had given my first BJ to a man and then several months later, received my first BJ from a man. The best BJs I have ever received from any man were from him over the ten years or so that we hooked up whenever I had the urge to have M/M sex.
I think I am very good at giving BJs because of the way I worship a man's cock and balls I have always wanted to be really really good at it and I believe that I have succeeded in doing that
This is the story of the first time I gave a man a BJ.
The first time I let a man cum in my mouth was the first time I ever sucked another man's cock. I was 26 at the time. It was in SF at a gay bathhouse. I was bi-curious and had already let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porno theater when I was 22 (this was in 1976). I knew I liked having my cock touched by a man but I wanted to see what it was like to touch another man's cock, take it into my mouth and find out if I liked sucking cock or not. I was living in LA and was very concerned about someone I knew seeing me so I decided to go to SF and visit a bathhouse there to have my first experience giving a BJ.
It was a weekday morning and I entered the bathhouse, paid my money and was given a towel and a key to a private room. I went to the room, took off my clothes and headed out to explore the bathhouse and hopefully hook up with a suitable man. I went past the shower area and came across the sauna. I decided to go in and found it empty. I sat for a while by myself and after about 15 minutes or so I was pretty hot and sweaty so I decided to go back to the showers and get cleaned up. After a quick shower I decided to head back to the sauna.
This time the sauna was not empty. There were two men in it. One at the far end of the sauna and one sitting on a bench just inside the door. I decided to sit down next to the man sitting on the bench just inside the door. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that he was touching his cock. The man at the other end of the sauna could see this and decided to leave. I wanted to let the man sitting next to me to know that I was interested in him so I put my hand down to my pubic hair and moved my hand back and forth, careful not to touch my cock. As soon as I did that the man put his hand on my back. That was all the encouragement I needed. I got up from the bench and moved in between his legs. His cock was semi hard and sticking out. I reached out with my left hand and started to gently stroke his cock. It was very large, thick and cut. It felt amazing to actually be touching another man's cock for the first time and feeling his cock get harder and longer in my hand As much as I enjoyed touching his cock I knew I wanted to take him in my mouth so I moved in closer, closed my eyes and took his cock into my mouth. I began to move back and forth on his cock, gently sucking him and paying special attention to the very large head since that was what I enjoyed most when a woman would give me a BJ.. I knew immediately that I could do this, that I didn't hate it and that I actually really liked having him in my mouth. I could feel his cock getting bigger and harder as I sucked him. The idea that someone could come into the sauna and see me giving this man a BJ crossed my mind but I was so into what I was doing I decided I didn't care if someone came into the sauna and saw me sucking this man's cock.
This went on for about five minutes and then the man said we should go to his room. He had become fully erect by then and his cock was about eight or nine inches long and very thick. I said OK and told him I was only interested in giving him a hand job or a blowjob. I wanted him to know I was not at all interested in him fucking me. He said that was fine and off we went to his room.
When we got to his room he laid down on the small cot that was provided. I knelt at the side and leaned over his waist, reached for his cock and resumed sucking him.. After a short time he asked me to lick and suck his balls and he spread his legs so I could move in between them and have access to his balls. Like his cock, his balls were big.. I licked and gently sucked on them for several minutes, slowly stroking his cock as it leaked precum while I was exploring his balls with my tongue and mouth. His cock and balls had a very strong musky masculine smell that oddly really excited me.
I wanted his cock back in my mouth so I started licking and sucking his cock again. I decided after about 15 minutes of this that I wanted to make him cum so I stared sucking his cock with a faster rhythm, paying extra attention to the large mushroom head with my tongue while sucking him. I had one hand on his cock and I cupped and gently rubbed his balls with the other hand. He was breathing harder now and his cock was leaking a constant stream of pre-cum into my mouth. Tasting his pre-cum got me even hotter because I knew he was getting closer to climaxing.
All of a sudden he took both his hands and put them on the back of my head. I sensed that this meant he was about to cum and that he intended to cum in my mouth. I wanted to see what it was like to have a man cum in my mouth so I kept on with my sucking. I felt his cock getting even harder and a few seconds later I. felt his cock spasm and I could feel the pumping motion of his cock ejaculating his cum into my mouth. There were about four or five really good spurts. It was a big load, very thick and very very tasty. I continued sucking until he stopped cumming and swirled the cum around in my mouth before finally swallowing it down. I quickly realized that having him cum in my mouth was something I really liked and that I would want to do this again with other men. The man took his hands off of my head. He thanked me and told me I gave a very good BJ and i left..I could taste and smell his cum for hours afterwards and was glad that I did because it was a great reminder of what I had just done for the rest of the day.
Little did he know that he was my very first BJ and cum swallow.
