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How do I come out as bi

"I've been dating a new guy recently - I really like him."

Leave out the part where he made you bleed.

Lex
 
im trying to figure out the bi thing too. I think for me I'm not goina bother trying to explain it to my family unless Im seriously with a guy. Then I would just tell them if it came up and not hide it.
 
I missed this.

I think though that you have to say 'I have three boyfriends I'm seeing as well as a woman.' BTW, I have a child.
 
Not to discourage you, but why do you want to tell your parents?
 
TrailRider86 said:
im trying to figure out the bi thing too. I think for me I'm not goina bother trying to explain it to my family unless Im seriously with a guy. Then I would just tell them if it came up and not hide it.
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Where r u from trail rider86 I am in Leeds if u are in the uk*|*
 
I'm not sure if there's a good way to come out as bi. In my mind, a person who wants to date both men and women is probably the kind of person who doesn't give a shit what others think and just focuses on the person he's interested in. Because quite frankly, on hearing that you're bi, most people will either assume you're confused or lying.
 
Mattyneedsu said:
How do I come out as bi to my family?:help:
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Easy question..Easy answer.....Don't come out to them...Do you still Live with your parents? If you Live on your own then who you date is your business...When my mother was single she didnt introduce me to the Guy she dated until she felt like it...They a eloped a month after I met him...

I Love my mother and she Loves me but we're both Adults and we don't need each others approval on who we date and why...
 
When I told my sister, we were alone at her house, and we ended up talking about relationships. So I said to her, "Well, one thing I've been struggling with...is that I'm bisexual." And that led to more conversation, and she was grateful I told her. We've been a lot closer ever since. I haven't told my parents yet. But then again, I don't live with them anymore.

If your livelihood may be in danger if you tell them, wait until it's safer for you, then do it. I read that in a book on coming out, and I think it's good advice. If you think you'll get kicked out or something, maybe wait until you have something else lined up, or make sure you can stay with a friend or something if anything like that may happen.

But you may be surprised at how your parents react. There's a documentary called "Anyone and Everyone" that focuses on the parents of children who have come out to them. It's really good. I bought it and I'm going to bring it with when I tell my parents, just in case.

I'm sure you'll get some better advice on this forum besides mine, but I thought I'd just chime in with my experience. Hopefully it's a tad bit helpful.
 
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