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How do I get over this?

genthree said:
I think you have to back off a bit, I think your dramatic side frightens the guy. I, (like all the rest of us) have been in this situation - sometimes from both sides.
I think if I met a guy like you,I think would be cooling my heels. I go cold on drama and you seem just a bit too emotional.
He, like you, is probably in his own quiet way, trying to work out what a relationship with you would entail.
Not being nasty, just reading between the lines, good luck !
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Nah that's fine man, I understand what you're saying. I generally hate a drama, but the last few months have been nothing but that and yeah, it's all coming from me... but I've got some issues that I don't really know how to get over and it's stuff I don't feel I can handle on my own anymore.

As for the relationship with this guy... it's back to square one. I've really tried my best to stop being emotional all the time, to stop feeling depressed, to stop coming on too strong... it just ain't happening.

I'm not sure of the best way forward now tbh, I'm pretty much gonna continue to feel like shit for the foreseeable future.
 
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