how do i know if I am

[idunoo]

How do i know if i'm gay O_O lol when did i turn gay O_O why i dont remember lol

 

[G-Lexington]

You'll know you're gay if you find men attractive.
You'll know you're gay if, when masturbating, your mind naturally moves towards thoughts of men.
You'll know you're gay when you fall in love with a guy.

If you ARE gay, you turned gay sometime back in the womb.
If you ARE gay, you have always been gay.
And you don't remember because you were really friggin' little.

Good luck.

Lex

 

[luminum]

Read above, repeat, absorb.

 

[JayHew]

I'll agree with Lex, read it over and know it, then accept it.

 

[idunoo]

You'll know you're gay if you find men attractive.
You'll know you're gay if, when masturbating, your mind naturally moves towards thoughts of men.
You'll know you're gay when you fall in love with a guy.

If you ARE gay, you turned gay sometime back in the womb.
If you ARE gay, you have always been gay.
And you don't remember because you were really friggin' little.

Good luck.

Lex

um, thanks, sorry i'm not trying to be retarded or anything but, sometime I think i am gay at other time i think i'm not, sometime i find guys attractive sometime i completely don't. So what am I? Am I really gay?

 

[BrandonSBCA]

Possibly bisexual then.

 

[G-Lexington]

Then you'll have to figure it out. Dan Savage has (I think) the best technique: wait, date, masturbate.

Keep your options open. Don't feel you have to announce your sexuality at any given time. Nothing wrong with saying, "I'm still trying to figure it out" if someone wants to know.

Go out with people. Get to know them. You don't have to sleep with them if you'd rather not go that route yet, but get to know them better.

When jerking off, again, keep your options open. Let your mind flow to whatever it wants. Don't push away thoughts of musclebound men, or overweight women, or tied up couples if that's what's getting you excited.

Eventually, you'll figure it out. Good luck.

Lex

 

[S60Turbo]

Could the times you don't find men attractive times when you are having trouble accepting and your guilt is pushing it away.
if that makes any sense.

 

[hummer7979]

Being gay is essentially this: the people whom you're both physically and romantically attracted to are exclusively your same sex. If this is not the case, then you are either bisexual or heterosexual.

 

[tpeezy101]

um, thanks, sorry i'm not trying to be retarded or anything but, sometime I think i am gay at other time i think i'm not, sometime i find guys attractive sometime i completely don't. So what am I? Am I really gay?

Well, you wont find every guy attractive. Everyone has different tastes. Do you fin girls attractive on a sexual level?

 

[idunoo]

thanks lex and the rest. and i foind guys attractive and soemtiem i find the same guy not attractive. andi also find girl attractive sometime on the sexual level and the same to guys soemtiem i find them nto attractive at all. but i think i find guys more attractive sometime ..actualy alot of time and more time. and yeah sometiem i try to deny my sexuality of being gay, but i told few of my friends i mgiht be and htey are fine with it and support me so now i really abit comfortable with it and when masturbate soemtiem i try to push some though away. Most of the time thought of buff guys come into my mind which turn me on but i push it away sometime, so i'm pretty much tilt to beign gay btu i just dunno why soemtiem i found hot mens not attractive. and i dotn completely sure yet, i really dont know if i like men at all O_O

 

[rareboy]

Well aren't you just caught on the horns of a dilemma. Maybe make a chart and keep track of the days you find men attractive versus finding women attractive and see if there is a pattern.