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How do people manage to move every few years?

Sucks that you can easily pay $50K in rent in 5 years with nothing to show for it.

No kidding. I see it as another form of unearned income for the landlord.

I met a guy living out in the forest once. He came to the same realization and decided to do something about it: he was living rent free for five years, but putting away the money he would have spent on rent into an investment account.
 
we're contemplating a move in the next year or two and I'm already at my wits end trying to figure out how to downsize from a good sized three bedroom house into something smaller. I'm thinking of selling everything except things that are valuable to us. We have a Steinway grand piano that we'd like to stay in the family and some other art work that I would never give up. We also have a basement storage area and a garage filled with shit we've accumulated over the years.

I'm looking forward to the adventure of moving to a new climate but not the actual work that it is going to take to get there. I will say this, I'm hiring movers. I'm too old to be lugging shit to a truck!
 
No kidding. I see it as another form of unearned income for the landlord.

I met a guy living out in the forest once. He came to the same realization and decided to do something about it: he was living rent free for five years, but putting away the money he would have spent on rent into an investment account.

"Roughing it" in the forest with no electric, water, food, internet, TV, Cable, shower,... doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me, not to mention, where are there forests now days where one can just go "live" without someone having you arrested for trespassing/littering/loitering... ???
 
Yep and that may be the reason I will move next year unless this place is fantastic! It adds up and steals from your retirement....

it really depends on where you live.

in the NYC area, for example, the price to own is so astronomically high that in many cases, it's a better financial decision to rent and invest the money your saving (not having to pay property taxes, equipment repairs, upkeep expenses, etc) into your retirement accounts.

what my parents pay in property taxes alone is about what I pay in rent for a 2-bedroom apartment.
 
I have usually lived in houses I owned for about 10 years; moving was always a pain in the butt. When I came out eight years ago and moved to DC, all I took from the divorce fit into a nice U-Haul (and never again will I rent those junkers but that's another chapter in the book). I lived in an apartment in DC for about three years, purchasing new furniture and such. I didn't realize how much crap I had accumulated until moving into our condo we have now. Our kids were out for Christmas and I put them to work so we could be in the condo by New Years. We moved a U-Haul with the beds and furniture and I figured I could put the closet stuff and storage unit in my car. About 10 trips later, I was done but had thrown out a ton of stuff (like the Christmas Tree that had broken when I set it up).

When we merged houses we went through all of our stuff and gave bags of clothes and household goods to the Salvation Army. Each year we try to go through the closets (I got rid of the last of my "fat" clothes this year). But if we ever move, I will make sure it is for a job that includes professional moving services because I'd hate to think how much we have in the two bedroom condo and storage unit! Plus the Sebring is now a Mini Cooper so it'll be much smaller! We want to eventually move to San Diego so I think we'd likely try to buy a lot new.

I have a good priest friend who has a rule that whatever won't fit into his car (he has a Ford Taurus wagon)...it goes. He likes to move light and is pretty frugal.
 
I hate moving! Always stressful. Tons of books, magazines, DVDs to pack. Not useless "crap" that I want to dispose of or could ever replace. I procrastinate and I hate imposing on my friends so I end up overdoing (ending up with a bad back to prove it), then paying movers to do the rest. Good luck! You have my sympathy.

I do know a few people who move every few years to make sure they don't become too fond of their possessions. They don't have dogs and they don't read books. I couldn't live without either.
 
Well, the junk guys hauled away all my junk today, and I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. It wasn't that much stuff, but it was still nice to get rid of it all. People have been picking through it all day too, and taking things. Unfortunately, someone also ripped open the bags. All over the yard and the street, I found bits of a journal I was keeping in my teens. There was extremely private, personal information in there, and I'm so glad I shredded it before throwing it away. I am still humiliated though.
Oh well, I threw away my old guitar because it was so cheap... the body was cracked, and the bridge was coming off... someone knocked on the door and asked if they could have it. I thought it was nice of them to ask, and I'm glad it went to a home. It was my first guitar after all. Someone also took a painting... I really liked it, but it was so ratty, and I didn't want to keep it. I placed it in front of the pile facing the street, and I'm glad someone will be enjoying it.
I am pretty much done packing; my stereo equipment will be going in the car, and whatever I have left unpacked will fit in a duffle bag. All in all, I'm happy to move.

we're contemplating a move in the next year or two and I'm already at my wits end trying to figure out how to downsize from a good sized three bedroom house into something smaller. I'm thinking of selling everything except things that are valuable to us. We have a Steinway grand piano that we'd like to stay in the family and some other art work that I would never give up. We also have a basement storage area and a garage filled with shit we've accumulated over the years.

I'm looking forward to the adventure of moving to a new climate but not the actual work that it is going to take to get there. I will say this, I'm hiring movers. I'm too old to be lugging shit to a truck!

Yea, it's a real pain when you have a lot of stuff. You have a lot of valuable things you need to sell eh? Once it's all said and done, you'll feel less burdened, and you'll have a good chunk of cash in your pocket!

"Roughing it" in the forest with no electric, water, food, internet, TV, Cable, shower,... doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me, not to mention, where are there forests now days where one can just go "live" without someone having you arrested for trespassing/littering/loitering... ???

You know, I wouldn't mind living like that, at least for a little while. Maybe not in the woods, but on the open prairie, just like the early settlers of Saskatchewan. That was an extremely tough life though, and maybe I'm not cut out for that type of thing, but I still think it would be an interesting experience.
 
As a college student I moved a couple times every year for 6 years. It's definately not easy and I didn'nt eve have the max amount of stuff.
 
I have moved several times in the past and I know exactly how you feel. I despise the whole process, it’s stressful and traumatic, and as a consequence, I have now adopted a minimalist lifestyle; I try not to accumulate anything I don’t need, that way, when it comes to moving again, I won’t have a lot of stuff to pack up and take with me.
 
"Roughing it" in the forest with no electric, water, food, internet, TV, Cable, shower,... doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me, not to mention, where are there forests now days where one can just go "live" without someone having you arrested for trespassing/littering/loitering... ???
You'd be surprised. I roughed it for a few years beneath some lovely redwoods, shaved in a creek and all that. Part of me still misses it.
 
"Roughing it" in the forest with no electric, water, food, internet, TV, Cable, shower,... doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me, not to mention, where are there forests now days where one can just go "live" without someone having you arrested for trespassing/littering/loitering... ???

He had some electricity, in the form of auto batteries charged by friends. Water was no problem; he wasn't far from a nice stream.

As for where -- just about any national forest allows camping; the only trouble is some have time limits for how long one may occupy a particular place.
 
I've moved 4 times in this past year. It helps that they were all within a 50 mile radius and that my parent's home is within that distance too.

I put a bunch of stuff in a storage locker and now it is all out and in my own place. The only hard part about moving is the furniture. All the ancillary stuff is easy.
 
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