How do you find other in the closet bi guys to have sex with??

[vistathug]

ive come to the realization that im bi, but i just wanna have sex with men and have only be known by me and him, so i dont think gay bar and clubs would be a good choice to keep thing secret, how do you guys go about doin this??

 

[vidarr]

I would suggest signing up for online dating sites. They seem to be the most popular way for people to meet and you can decide how much information you want to give..

 

[PATMAN]

ive come to the realization that im bi, but i just wanna have sex with men

Ummmmm.... what?

 

[Krakenbwool]

Ummmmm.... what?

I think he means that he only wants sex with men and not romantic relationships.

 

[mbamike]

I don't look for bi guys. I just look of guys who wants to have sex with other guys. They can be bi, gay, in denial, curious, etc, it doesn't matter to me. The hook up sites are great for this.

 

[NW007]

Any of the social gay sites would work. Does it really matter if they are bi only? I would think not but that is certainly your choice to make.

Send me a pvt msg if you want more specific ideas

 

[stevexxx]

i would think that there is not a easy way of finding bi closeted men to have sex with. wouldn't you think if they are bi closeted guys don't you think they would not show that they have interest in men?
come on don't waste your time trying to find a bi closeted guy to have sex with. Go ask some gay dude. it's not like some random gay guy is going to know your inner circle of friends and family and that he would go to the media and tell them "hey i had sex with this undercover bi guy"
come on, use common sense

 

[Bi Married Male]

Spend a day at a local hotel or resort with a pool, gym, golf course where the members share the same facility with the guests...Usually married members. Look for the steam or dry sauna.(thats the target)...wear your wedding band it show that your straight. Hang out in the saunas...take a break and shower, then go back...You would be surprised how many straight married men start to play with themselves in the sauna...Nobody talks...guys wearing wedding bands will start to touch their cock if it is only 2 or 3 guys...if a guy has a full blown erection in there...I am sure it Ok to feel it...or just start doing the same thing he is and wait for him to grab your cock...next thing you know he is sucking your cock...This goes on a lot and nobody talks about it.

 

[Peterdragin]

daddyhunt.com

 

[aberro21]

Spend a day at a local hotel or resort with a pool, gym, golf course where the members share the same facility with the guests...Usually married members. Look for the steam or dry sauna.(thats the target)...wear your wedding band it show that your straight. Hang out in the saunas...take a break and shower, then go back...You would be surprised how many straight married men start to play with themselves in the sauna...Nobody talks...guys wearing wedding bands will start to touch their cock if it is only 2 or 3 guys...if a guy has a full blown erection in there...I am sure it Ok to feel it...or just start doing the same thing he is and wait for him to grab your cock...next thing you know he is sucking your cock...This goes on a lot and nobody talks about it.

sounds like a scene in a porno.

 

[Bi Married Male]

This thread needs a picture...helps the imagination.

 

[jmadaf]

Spend a day at a local hotel or resort with a pool, gym, golf course where the members share the same facility with the guests...Usually married members. Look for the steam or dry sauna.(thats the target)...wear your wedding band it show that your straight. Hang out in the saunas...take a break and shower, then go back...You would be surprised how many straight married men start to play with themselves in the sauna...Nobody talks...guys wearing wedding bands will start to touch their cock if it is only 2 or 3 guys...if a guy has a full blown erection in there...I am sure it Ok to feel it...or just start doing the same thing he is and wait for him to grab your cock...next thing you know he is sucking your cock...This goes on a lot and nobody talks about it.

Your right I scored like this, but remember see a guy with a hard-on make eye contact first and smile like you want to see with a little head movement.

 

[jmadaf]

i would think that there is not a easy way of finding bi closeted men to have sex with. wouldn't you think if they are bi closeted guys don't you think they would not show that they have interest in men?
come on don't waste your time trying to find a bi closeted guy to have sex with. Go ask some gay dude. it's not like some random gay guy is going to know your inner circle of friends and family and that he would go to the media and tell them "hey i had sex with this undercover bi guy"
come on, use common sense

This one is good, you'd be surprised how many gay guys want to fuck or be fucked by men who are in the closet married. And believe me they are more experienced which is what you want. Through them you might find out about other bi marriedmen in the closet.

 

[self inflicted]

Well... I actually do it a lot. Ok, I have my reservations on the "closeted bi guys" category as well as in any category as none end up being any useful for me to talk about how I sexually relate with people. What I'm meaning to say is that I just get to have sex with men that would not define themselves as bi or gay. That's probably my favourite sex. A couple of weeks ago i met a guy at a party and on first physical contact I just knew something could be going on and somehow he did too. We paired up at showing off by drinking lots of whiskey from a funnel and ended up kissing and jacking each other off in the bathroom. Even sharing the secrecy about it's for me an act of intimacy. Probably I won't have any kind of sex with him ever again but the bond is already there. I don't really need any more.

With many of my longtime friends I have had sex more or less regularly. None of them ever defined as "bi" or "gay" (Althought one of them surprised a couple of weeks ago me with a "fuck labels" kind of speech!) but we know what we have done and there's something like an unspoken agreement on it. With one of them I have actually never spoken a word about it, just as it had never happened, but we both know what's going to happen when it's going to happen.

 

[blackbeltninja]

This thread needs a picture...helps the imagination.

No, no it doesn't.

At least, not that picture.

-d-

 

[MisterMajestic]

Always the best place to meet people: church.

The Church has a high percentage of Gay & Bi Men...Most people think it's a "Myth" ONLY becuase they don't go to Church...Straight Couples, Gay couples & Secret lovers have met right there in the Church since FOREVER...

There's so many functions and events just for Men & Women that you're bound to strike up a friendship witrh someone...

To answer the OP's question..You can meet Bi-guys @ work, Parties, Straight Clubs/bars, anywhere and even on sites like A4A, Craigs List and a few other sites mentioned....Those sites are Filled with Bi-Men looking for the same thing you are...If you're looking for a certain "Type" of Guy your search might take a little longer....Some "requirements" you might half to mark off the List when you're on those sites...

 

[Curiosity69]

bi guys are everywhere. I even suspect some of my best friends are bi guys. I think we are as common as the average bi girl