How do you get a guy to sleep with you?

[MisterMajestic]

There's this guy who I've had a love/hate relationship with for years now, and long story short, we had a three-way once with his then boyfriend. Now I find myself thinking about him WAY too often and it's annoying as fuck. And I have sex dreams about him fairly regularly .

I'm thinking it might stop if I could just sleep with him and get it over with, so how can I make this happen, JUBbers? I need tips and advice on how to get him into bed because this needs to happen YESTERDAY!

I wanna make sure I'm understanding what you're telling us...

1. You had a 3-way Fuck Session with this dude a while back(maybe months or a year ago).

2. You don't see him regularly. When you did see him in the past the two of you didnt really like each other.

3. You stopped talking a while back in person and via Cell. So there's no Love-loss at all.


Dude.....There's a TON of young Guys out there for you to have fun with...You will have a better chance @ getting some Ass from one of your current Fuck-Buddies VS waiting on a reply from this other guy...

There's a reason why the 2 of you cut each other off completely. Out of curiosity would his Opinion of you be Good or bad?
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[asu1117]

Well for starters you need to get back into contact with him and start hanging out with him again. Then you'll have to judge the situation and how it's going, if it feels right make a move.

 

[ixthrock]

Ooh! I know this one!! I got someone to sleep with me just last year!

What is "flirting," Alex?

 

[Ninja108]

I'd work on your relationship with him first..but that's just me.

 

[WillMc88]

There's a lot more to the story that I left out because I didn't really want to get into it. But there's no way I could just bring it up to him. I also don't want a friendship with him to be honest. I'll probably just try to ignore it...

 

[bw92116]

Well if you don't want a friendship with him, it can be pretty a pretty simple proposition, something like "Hey, want to get together again?" and he will know what you are talking about. He'll probably respond with a yes or a no, so just take the response at face value. If he says, "no," then that's the end of it. And so what. As pointed out, there are millions of other guys. At least you will have an answer, and that's better than just sitting and dwelling on it endlessly. There's maybe a chance of the response being "yes" but not knowing him, you or any other details it's impossible to predict or give odds. Because you're not interested in a friendship, I would just ask him, and take whatever answer comes back. That way you can get this wondering thing out of your mind.

 

[ixthrock]

There's a lot more to the story that I left out because I didn't really want to get into it. But there's no way I could just bring it up to him. I also don't want a friendship with him to be honest. I'll probably just try to ignore it...

Yeah - too many details and I'd probably know who it is - or who YOU are. Such a small burg we live in, innit? You should come to bowling tonight @ Capital Lanes @ 7pm. It's a fun crowd. I'll be in my blue collar kit, 'cos I gotta close tonight.

 

[mygaybuffet]

LOL... do you really think we would all be typing away on Jub if we were pruveyors of such fine information? Pullllleease.

If your interested and talk to him regularly then ask him some time when your just chillin you and him...

Isn't that the age old question of humanity?!

 

[jasoncrew03]

"I wanna have sex with you." usually worked for me.