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How Do You Handle People's Jealousy?

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It's the little catty things: the looks, the veiled comments, the whispers, etc...you know what I mean - all forms of prejudgment that originate from the insecure among you. Often times, these are strangers. Other times, they are people you must work with or mingle with on a regular basis because of the life you live.

For those of you who are lucky enough (or cursed enough) to have people be jealous/envious of you, how do you deal with it on a day-to-day basis?
 
I don't care enough about people to be empathetic to petty ideals.
 
I try not to brag about certain things or qualities that I have that others don't. I myself hate it when people brag or talk constantly about themselves, as to appear like Gods. =/

If they happen to get jealous, then there's really no way for you to deal with it. You can't help it, so you can forget about it, unless they start acting like idiots towards you, which in that case you lose them (or they tend to leave you on their own).
 
I try not to brag about certain things or qualities that I have that others don't. I myself hate it when people brag or talk constantly about themselves, as to appear like Gods. =/

If they happen to get jealous, then there's really no way for you to deal with it. You can't help it, so you can forget about it, unless they start acting like idiots towards you, which in that case you lose them (or they tend to leave you on their own).

But what about if they're an unshakable and necessary part of your environment? You can't walk away from everyone.
 
I love you Navigaytion your the gift that keeps on giving. :kiss:

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But what about if they're an unshakable and necessary part of your environment? You can't walk away from everyone.

Well, you "lose them" in the sense of drifting apart. If they are your co-workers, then you merely stop talking to them as much.
 
I just look back and smile. It usually makes people more upset...they clearly are getting upset about something to do with me...so why not raise their blood pressure a little more?
 
Never had people get jealous with me, never imagined anyone would be jealous of me. lol
 
At least in a better way than some people here :rolleyes: that is, if the jealousy is there.

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I let it fester.

For instance, on this site, there are a couple of really sad avatars who are insanely jealous that a number of us really like one another and can't figure out how to get others to like them because they are artificial, narcissistic and infantile.

They complain about cliques and the 'club' and sometimes show themselves to be so sad and desperate that they try to make a grouping of their own.

Unless they start posting homophobic shit or are clearly just trolling for attention, we just ignore them for the most part, because they really do come off as being so pitiful.

Particularly the ones who want us to believe that they are smarter (which they consistently fail to prove), richer (which they can be, but who gives a shit) or better looking than the reat of us ( and we've seen their real pictures, either on this site or through research).
 
It's the little catty things: the looks, the veiled comments, the whispers, etc...you know what I mean - all forms of prejudgment that originate from the insecure among you. Often times, these are strangers. Other times, they are people you must work with or mingle with on a regular basis because of the life you live.

For those of you who are lucky enough (or cursed enough) to have people be jealous/envious of you, how do you deal with it on a day-to-day basis?

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i make a batch of fried chicken and then i dont give them any.....
 
It depends why the person is jealous. He may be just showing that he cares for me. On the other hand, he could be a controlling bitch.
 
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