How do you have a bi experience that no one regrets?

[bananagoof]

Okay...

Here's the million dollar question. You're a bi/gay curious guy, you want to have one of those "it just happened, we messed around a bit and it was fun, no issues afterwards" jerk-off/exploration experiences that all guys seem to have in their earlier years...only your in your twenties.

Can that stuff still happen? I would assume so....so, if you find someone you might like to try it with, what are the steps to follow to get there and make it not seem like you were setting the whole thing up? What are the warning signs to look out for, that the person you're thinking of might really be a blabber-mouth douchebag and spread it all around town?

Advice? Tips? Thanks!

 

[JNewYork]

Find somebody online and hook up that way. But if you want to mess around with another guy do it gradually. First be friends with him and if you feel a friend connection then let him notice that you were looking at his pants by his dick. Don't drool or be creepy. Just let him notice you looking down there for a second.

Is he still friendly towards you in the coming days, week? Then let him catch you one more time. He'll know.

Then see his reaction. Is he still friendly? If not, don't pursue. If he is then there's a good chance you can score.

Hang out with him alone outside and knocking back some beers. Take a piss in his presence. Let him see your dick.

He'll then feel safe to show his dick in your presence. When you are pissing, notice if he's looking at you. When he is pissing definitely let him see you checking him out.

Then when you're hanging out inside, watch a movie, talk girls and sex. Say something like "Shit, I'm getting a major hard-on." Maybe joke around and say something like, "Damn, I gotta pull my meat. This shit is hurtin."

The idea is to take steps forward by hinting and letting him see you checking him out and if there's not a very cold reaction on his part then it's a sign that he wants it and it'll happen.

 

[conrad]

My best guess is that this is always more likely to happen if you find yourself having sex with someone you truly love. Friends do become more than just friends and two persons in that mood are ready for expressing their affection through sex.

In my experience such sex is fantastic because it comes about naturally and seems so right. I confirms the bond of love that already exists and strengthens it.

I last had sex with my teen partner more than 65 years ago. We have no regrets for the two years of learning by doing we had together. Yes, we are that old, but the love that prompted the sex then still remains strong.

 

[Nostalgic1]

I agree. Never had a one night stand with a guy, who I thought of as a cock. I have cared-for, or loved each one...but one. That one was a huge mistake, but I learned from it. I'm 70 and have only been with 9 guys since my first one in my teens. All but that one mentioned above was a LTR.

 

[jasoncrew03]

Okay...

Here's the million dollar question. You're a bi/gay curious guy, you want to have one of those "it just happened, we messed around a bit and it was fun, no issues afterwards" jerk-off/exploration experiences that all guys seem to have in their earlier years...only your in your twenties.

Can that stuff still happen? I would assume so....so, if you find someone you might like to try it with, what are the steps to follow to get there and make it not seem like you were setting the whole thing up? What are the warning signs to look out for, that the person you're thinking of might really be a blabber-mouth douchebag and spread it all around town?

Advice? Tips? Thanks!

You mean like a one night stand? Just go to a club and get somebody.

 

[bananagoof]

I wasn't so much thinking of a "one night stand"...instead more of a mutual jerk off session...you know - the kind younger dudes seem to have in their teens, when they can just write it off as "curiosity". I'm not talking full-on sex...I'm talking about, just an encounter with someone I've gotten to know a bit.

I'm not the type to go to craigslist for that kind of thing. I need to feel comfortable with whoever I'm having "fun" with, otherwise I think I'd just feel cheap afterwards...

I think JNewYork's advice probably most applies. Thanks for that...and it's also good to hear that gay guys can be/have been picky about their partners all their lives, and still haven't ended up alone...

 

[mbamike]

Yes, these kinds of encounters happen all the time. They are called NSA sex for no-strings-attached sex. I have them too.

I use Adam4Adam and Manhunt to find guys for sex. There are all ages on there with all body types with all types of interest. Guys who want sex looking for other guys who want sex. Sounds pretty simple to me.

There is group play if that is your thing too. Just pick and choose what you are looking for.

Play safe and use some commons sense. I always get a face picture and a cell phone number before I agree to hook up with a guy. I also ask some questions to make sure I feel comfortable with him too.

This is a whole lot easier than trying to pick up a guy at a bar or some strip club!

 

[Sammey90]

pretty simple to me.

There is group play if that is your thing too. Just pick and choose what you are looking for.

Play safe and use some commons sense. I always get a face picture and a cell phone number before I agree to hook up with a guy. I also ask some questions to make sure I feel comfortable with him too.

This is a whole lot easier than trying to pick up a guy at a bar or some strip club!

What kind of questions do you ask and I'm assuming you meet in public first?