How do you keep your mouth shut. . .

[TickTockMan]

From telling a really cute guy that you find him cute?



In this case he is my physical therapist, but I really want to tell him.

 

[Aron9000]

Oh man that is tough!!! Especially if he's touching you all the time. Have you ever gotten wood in one of your sessions????

Here is the thing man, is he really helping you live a better life, are you seeing real results(even just very minor victories) after visiting him 1 or 2 times? If he is genuinely helping you, keep your fucking mouth shut and your dick in control.

I'd say if he notices your wood, then bring up the whole gay thing, that you find him hot. Tell him you want to keep the relationship strictly professional, discuss if he feels comfortable with this. If not, find somebody else to be your physical therapy guy.


I've been working with a professional trainer for the past 18 months or so. He's about 6' tall, kind of skinny, but one of those incredibly in shape guys who isn't a body builder. He loves mixed martial arts, has a crooked nose to prove it, beautiful blonde hair, blue eyes, but somehow I cannot picture that man sexually. Just in that context, he is married, I kind of see him as a sparring partner, somebody who I can get a hook on, somebody I can land a nice forward kick to the lower abs, somebody I can fucking take out with my jab. The man is my sparring partner, even though he is a fucking perfect specimine of a man, I just do not view him in a sexual way, try to compartmentalize that part of your life as NON-SEXUAL. When I first saw that guy, that is how I compartmentalized him, and I've had no problems since then.

 

[SaskGuy]

At worst, I'd get my face kicked in.

At best, he'd be very uncomfortable and avoid me.

In porn, he'd say "ooh me too!" and before you could say "I WISH!!!!", we'd be fucking on the floor to some monotonous techno music.

What kind of fantasy world do people live in where they can just walk up to a guy they think is hot, and tell them so? Do you realize what the majority of guys would do if a gay guy came up to them and told them they wanted to fuck them? It's actually one of the biggest reasons why guys are homophobic; they think any gay guy they meet will fondle them or something.

 

[Aron9000]

At worst, I'd get my face kicked in.

At best, he'd be very uncomfortable and avoid me.

In porn, he'd say "ooh me too!" and before you could say "I WISH!!!!", we'd be fucking on the floor to some monotonous techno music.

What kind of fantasy world do people live in where they can just walk up to a guy they think is hot, and tell them so? Do you realize what the majority of guys would do if a gay guy came up to them and told them they wanted to fuck them? It's actually one of the biggest reasons why guys are homophobic; they think any gay guy they meet will fondle them or something.

That trainer I have, after I had a few sessions, I told him about my boyfriend, he was cool, since he could see I was totally NOT INTERESTED in him. We have a mutual understanding, despite being a gay and straight male, he is really into helping me increase my flexiblilty, sometimes he does touch me, as in pushing on my knee, shoulder, and helping me stretch myself out.

 

[Paws]

"You're really cute, no homo"

 

[NotHardUp1]

Be indirect. In making conversation, mention "you good-looking guys . . . "

 

[Pianist]

Given my physical appearance and age, I have NO trouble saying absolutely nothing to any guy I may find attractive. I'm acutely aware of being perceived as the creepy old guy assumed to be hitting on them. Ergo, it is VERY easy for me to say nothing and ignore them.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

just say it!!!!!!!!!!!!

_no be wike millions a dunks slime awound teys owns cultures crap figa wot nose snot pick_

tinku

 

[rareboy]

Just keep your mouth shut.

It is simple.

 

[Vannie]

Tell him something like this...


I want you to know that I find you physically repulsive,and by no means would I ever even consider stripping you naked, drizzling you with orange blossom honey,and licking every drop off with my tongue.

 

[sixthson]

Unless it's a personal relationship and not a professional one, you should say nothing. It would be inappropriate in that case.
Does he know you are gay?

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Unless it's a personal relationship and not a professional one, you should say nothing. It would be inappropriate in that case.
Does he know you are gay?

apees human stills fly off space stations stuff ?
_dust teys cross legs ins space?__
check manuals nasa
"hooeystons a q?"
try china or india fa wet wipes
*okay boss*

tinku

 

[seioussuction69]

Don't tell him he's cute yet. Don't ask him if he's gay. Don't assume he is single or interested in you. Get to know him, and if he's interested you'll find out. I had spinal surgery and required 6 months of physical therapy. It's inevitable that I would be talking to my very hunky therapist, and he was very friendly. The best way to go about it is wait until your last appointment, and if you two really click, then ask him if he would like to go out sometime. That way he won't have to see you again if he doesn't want to. And if he is interested, you can forget the therapy part & just get physical.

 

[Cormac135]

You don't need to open your mouth, well not until later.

Just look into his eye's while gentle rubbing your crotch, the more bolder can rub his crotch.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

^ha
_so murch fa 21centruy_
twitchin shadows a dunks no gon nowhere-

tiniku

 

[TickTockMan]

Oh man that is tough!!! Especially if he's touching you all the time. Have you ever gotten wood in one of your sessions????

Here is the thing man, is he really helping you live a better life, are you seeing real results(even just very minor victories) after visiting him 1 or 2 times? If he is genuinely helping you, keep your fucking mouth shut and your dick in control.

I am not really into sex anymore and rarely get erections. I tend to be in too much pain. Anyways I have only seen him once so far, but he is picking up where my last PT left off. Trying to strengthen my back and to be able to control my left foot again. My back is slow going, but my foot is doing great.

Be indirect. In making conversation, mention "you good-looking guys . . . "

Great idea.

Given my physical appearance and age, I have NO trouble saying absolutely nothing to any guy I may find attractive. I'm acutely aware of being perceived as the creepy old guy assumed to be hitting on them. Ergo, it is VERY easy for me to say nothing and ignore them.

That is kind of my problem as well. Even if he does like guys, I know I am not that great looking. I know it would go nowhere, but it is fun to think about. He likes Disney and Vegas. He is the perfect guy!

Unless it's a personal relationship and not a professional one, you should say nothing. It would be inappropriate in that case.
Does he know you are gay?

I know it is inappropriate. I doubt I will do anything, but if I do it will be very subtle. As for if he knows; he might have figured it out. He noticed my tattoo on my leg. It is of Beast from Beauty and the Beast on Broadway. I doubt many straight guys get Disney or theatre tats.

 

[TickTockMan]

What kind of fantasy world do people live in where they can just walk up to a guy they think is hot, and tell them so? Do you realize what the majority of guys would do if a gay guy came up to them and told them they wanted to fuck them? It's actually one of the biggest reasons why guys are homophobic; they think any gay guy they meet will fondle them or something.

I’m not looking for just sex. I’m also fairly good at judging people. And even if I am wrong I don’t go for “dangerous” guys. Also if I never take a leap, I’ll never know. I can’t live like that.