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it's not that difficult...if this gets you hot, you're gay....
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if this gets you hot, you're straight...
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if they both get you hot, you're bi...
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but if this gets you hot, get help quick!
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College...were you REALLY born in 1987?? Geez! You just made me feel...really old. That's the year I graduated high school. Anyway, I would seriously suggest that you DO NOT migrate to the "hook up boards" like gay.com, et al. At your age, you will just get bombarded by a bunch of old pervs after some young "meat". However, you need to know how fortunate you are to be growing up in this "day and age". Whether you realize it or not, it is much easier now to deal with sexuality issues (even though it won't always seem that way). I don't know where you are, and some places are easier than others. If you are somewhere where you can find a "gay friendly" establishment or pub, that would be a good place to start. Being with like-minded people tends to make dealing with anything much easier. However, this site has loads of guys that have been through every experience out there, so just take in what fits and disregard the rest....you'll make it. Best of luck!
PS, you said how do you know if you're gay....well, all of my buddies are straight, and I can assure you none of them have ever heard of JUB. The fact that you're here should answer that question for you.
 
Hotlilass25 said:
Hey where'd you get that Nick Lemons pic (tattooed hunk)? is it new?

So am I bi? Because Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt totally do it for me :)
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i know i'm bi cause i wanna marry them both...and service them both.

i don't know who the guy is...just some random hot guy with no penis...seriously hot but i just looked at his package and i think he's a woman. who's nick lemons?
 
How do you know???
Just ask your cock. It knows what it wants...

How to experiment and stay in the closet???
Go on vacation. ALONE. Bring lots of condoms and lube. Enjoy yourself.
 
You don't have to have sex to determine if you are gay. If your physically attracted to men then you are gay or bisexual. Once you figure that out....then consider going the next step....what ever that may be for you....maybe meeting other gay people.
 
I strongly recommend that you post your question in this forum here at Jub:

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=70

It is the 'Comming Out' forum and you are more apt to get the serious answers and help you seek. You will meet a lot of people in the same situation as you, and you will talk to a lot of people who went through the same thing as you.
 
Hotlilass25 said:
"And I'm sorry but its BS that its "ok" to be gay now-a-days....homophobia isn't dead and depending on where this guy is it could be v. dangerous for him to be "the only gay in the village"
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No actually its not BS, it IS easier being gay nowadays, being gay/bi is way more accepted now than it was 20 and 30 years ago..and with the internet, so much information is at the fingertips of someone who is coming out, but needs answers, all we had was the library the local bar rags, and thank god the gay and lesbian hotline.
there is nothing wrong with someone who is coming out and going to a online sex forum, thats how you meet people-- is every single person on gay.com there for strictly sex? nope-- there are actually some there to meet and form relationships.

nobody said that homophobia is dead, the comment was made that it is easier to deal with sexual issues nowdays, and it is very true.
 
Having sex with guys can help you determine your sexuality but does not define it!

You need to sit back, and do lots of soul searching to get to know yourself better. Only then will you start to accept yourself which is a prerequisite if you ever wanted others to accept you.

Take your time, it may take weeks, months or even years (as it has been in my case). Good luck!
 
If your college has a gay association, then my advice is to visit them and join in with some of their activities. This way you will meet some real people who are gay and others, who like you, are struggling with their identities. If not in the college, then maybe there is a gay youth resource in your community.

You don't actually have to be gay to pass through their doors and there's no admission test. Their reason for being is in fact to help guys like you, so check them out.
 
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