How do you know if a guy is in the closet?

[hotguy22]

How can you tell if a man is hding in the closet?

 

[Bigal]

He goes 'Boo' when you open the door

 

[Ramindra]

You knock on the door. If he opens the door a centimetre or two and says, "Come in!" then you know he is in the closet.

 

[psychobandit]

When he knows who got what WAY before Christmas

 

[hotguy22]

You knock on the door. If he opens the door a centimetre or two and says, "Come in!" then you know he is in the closet.

really serious here guys..i wanna know if my friends gay..

 

[Eternaldarkness]

use your gaydar.

If you certainly think he is hiding... then it mean he isn't 100% straight. Maybe not gay...but somehow we can alway tell if a man is truly straight or not.

 

[screwnutty]

I going to say there very quiet when it come to subject matter regarding the opposite sex or they don't give you straight answers to yes or no questions like "Do you find her hot?" they usually pause and think about it. They also tend to be shy too.

 

[mabby7]

Or also they can sometimes go WAY out of their way and talk about how EVERY single woman that they see is HOT to them and how they want her and go overboard to the point where you know that they're doing it to appear heterosexual when most real hetero guys will comment on women but not to the point where it's like that.

I'm not sure if that really makes sense, it's something you have to see and I've noticed closeted guys say this about women who aren't hot/sexy/beautiful and you can tell that they're doing it on purpose.

You may have a point there.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I going to say there very quiet when it come to subject matter regarding the opposite sex or they don't give you straight answers to yes or no questions like "Do you find her hot?" they usually pause and think about it. They also tend to be shy too.

What does being shy have to do with having an attraction to men?

 

[Diodorus]

If he's in denile, how do you feel about traveling to Egypt? (don't pay any attention to me I'm just whoring around to get to my 500th post.)

 

[mabby7]

You may have a point there.

I said that BeardedWoof because I admit to doing that too. I dunno, but sometimes guys can sound "fake". Like they may like something, but you just know that there's something odd about what they're saying. Like what you said, it sounds exaggerated or on purpose.

 

[screwnutty]

What does being shy have to do with having an attraction to men?

Nothing Just the ones I've came across were very shy and usually act goofy around a guy they like.

 

[depressedma]

Or also they can sometimes go WAY out of their way and talk about how EVERY single woman that they see is HOT to them and how they want her and go overboard to the point where you know that they're doing it to appear heterosexual when most real hetero guys will comment on women but not to the point where it's like that.

I'm not sure if that really makes sense, it's something you have to see and I've noticed closeted guys say this about women who aren't hot/sexy/beautiful and you can tell that they're doing it on purpose.

hahah i totally noticed all that w/ my friend. i always thought that he was gay ... and always hoped for somethign else too. nice to know i wasen't going crazy when i was thinking that. cool stuff!

 

[mabby7]

Nothing Just the ones I've came across were very shy and usually act goofy around a guy they like.

I act this way too. I always clam up whenever I have to talk to someone I like.

 

[kayman23]

I've seen a few closeted guys do what I wrote about.

They'll talk about how bad they want women on TV that they'll never have or like the one friend was talking about some Brazilian women's volleyball team that was playing on TV and how bad he wanted a lot of them or how hot they were, and I just though OK that's overkill you're doing it on purpose, and it's not like you can actually have sex with them.

The other guy he would talk about like ALL the women that he saw on the street stuff like "OMG did you see her!!!!"

When he's talking about a woman who wouldn't be classified as HOT or even beautiful and she looked well, rather homely and didn't have a pretty face and this guy's wife would be classified as HOT, sexy, and beautiful.

I know that they're closeted because they've both admitted to me that they do have some attraction to men even if all it is, is just sexual attraction. They'll flirt with me and get drunk and hit on me and the one guy with the wife, he and I were partying once and he started crying and then kissed me and I just said something like 'Ummmm you're married I don't want to do anything with you...." and I left.

That is the truth. I always at some guys extra behavior. I just let them continue to live in denial until they grow the balls to admit they are not straight.