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How do you know if he's gay, straight, or bi?

He's def hot for you, question is is he just horny and looking for a quickie, or can you get him to go out to the clubs? Can't wait to hear the rest. Must be a fun gym is all I can say, I'd be there all the damn time.
 
I've been going through this too with a co worker and it's working out to be very positive. The guy is 40 years old and I know that he is not naive or stupid but I had several incidents where I hugged him and said I loved him and last weekend, I kissed him on the forehead. I still don't know if he is bi or gay.

But here's where I'm freaking out, we are going to New York together for the weekend. I don't know what will happen on our first night but he'll have to initiate the first move.
 
i saw his porn DVD online......im thinking of buying it but that would be too stalkerish of me.....but he's so damn hott in it.......i saw the preview and he's lookin mighty fine in it......=)
 
I think you should tell him you saw his pics and liked em!
 
Hmmm that and interesting one. On the one hand most porn stars love to be looked at...if you thought his vid was hot he's almost certain to appreciate that. But so many people want to be with porn stars JUST to be with a porn star, that it might make him more standoffish as far as actually hooking up.

However it's not like he's a star yet, he just has a vid or two, right? He's likely to still be in an "aw shucks, beinga porn star rocks, I'm getting my cock licked" stage.

Does he know you're gay? Not suspect, know? Because if he thinks you might be straight he may just be covering, if he keeps checking you out I'm sure he wants something to happen. He's probably horny as hell for you.

Thinking back on it, what has always worked well for me in this situation is just paying him a straight up compliment. Compliment him on his muscles, his eyes, anything. Tell him he's hot. I used to have great luck with straight guys by simply saying, "Excuise me, I don't mean to be weird, but you're without question the hottest guy here." If there was any interest at all, any, that's all that was required. And if straight guys go for that, I absolutely gurantee he'll take the compliment from you, so go for it and let us know how it goes.
 
Also what might work is if you just said, "Dude, I have to be honest, I saw your video and I thought it was amazing...I'd love to take you outside and blow you right now." At the worst he'll say no, and if that's what he's looking for you can just cut right to the chase ;)
 
If your dick is in his mouth, he is probably gay or bi. If his dick is in your mouth you are probably gay or bi.

Either way he might also just be experimenting.
 
I agree he's hot for you.

In passing, I might mention that you've seen his photo shoots.... if(when) he asks you about them... whether they are single (beefcake)... or the other kind (cock sucking!!).. you can say that they were really hot!! and then ask him... what was it like?? were you nervous? DID YOU LIKE IT!! was it fun?? I'd thought about doing something (or someone) like that.............and then your in (as far as the conversation goes.....) the rest is up to you... and HIM!!!

I'm interested in the turn out!!
 
i have his number cause he gave me his card a while back.....im thinking of just calling him on the phone instead of asking him at the gym cause he's always with customers......im gonna invite him to go drinking for my birthday, but im scared he's gonna ask "can i bring my girlfriend along?"........cause i really don't like her.......so what should i do.......im planning to call him tonight......so gimme some advice......=)
 
If yu phone him.... and he wants to bring is GF... you just say... "Well, dude, its just going to be guys! Sorry. Do YOU want to come?" If he says "Ya, I like to come...." ask him..."I'll pick you up...." that way... if/when he gets drunk!!! to can take him home and take advantage of the unfortunate siuation... and late you can talk about the porn movie... and tell him youre were think about doing that... and ask him for / to show some tips (especially HIS!!)
 
or maybe i can ask him to pick me up and tell him that "im too drunk to go home" and ask if i can stay at his house for a while.....=)
 
That might work also....but its too easy for him to get out of it..... you claiming that ur drunk....he just takes to ur place..and drops you off....or has one of your friends do it!! If you drive... he is dependent ON YOU ..and since he won't know anyone else at the party... he'll probablly drink too much (since your driving).... I think you'd have a better chance

(I did this...) I drove... he got drunk.. I took him home (his place) and I helped him into bed (sans clothes!...totally) ..and I remained there for him to "relax' rubbing (massaging) his body....to which he got hard...and even when he said... 'what are you doing'....I ignored him and said..."just relax..." ..and he did.... and eventaully I was helping him out (off) and he began to do the same... and "nature jest took its course"...
 
I think if he gave you his card, and is checking you out, the message is clear. And for god sake the downside is zero, in the very very worst case he'll smile and say no thanks. I can't wait to hear how this comes out!
 
hey... not that I'm questining you.... but it says in the profile... your B-day was on Febr 28...is that just a 'date'' you put down.. or is that the actual date... if so, how can you ask him to go out drinking 'on your b-day'' hasn't it past!??...... ?? ...if that's just a date you put down... when is the ''weekend'' you're planning on asking him to go out??

From what you've told us, ...there's somnething going on there...and it sure not just casual interest!! ...have you evaluated all the advice given to you???... have you done anything with it???...some of us are waiting with baited breath!!!....what's happened??
 
sorry i haven't posted anything yet......but, i haven't asked him yet......i still feel a little weird......i forgot to tell u guys that he works at the gym, so if he says no im gonna be seeing him around everytime i work out there......LoL.......so i dunno if i wanna risk that......
 
eric62665 said:
did he bottom in the porn that he was in?? it looks pretty hot..
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nope, but he sure did go on his knees and suck some dick.......but other than that, he was a top the whole time.......
 
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