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How do you know if it's a date???

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1208Rob

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So there's this guy that I'm interested in. We've been texting eachother everyday since like December...we hang out all the time, I drive him everywhere...we usually hang out in a smaller group of people...but next week a group of our friends are going to be gone for spring break so him and I are going to hang out on our own....I asked him if he would see "Shutter" with me cuz it just came out in theatres today...we both love scary movies...so is it a date??? I just don't know...

I mean I get mixed signals from this guy. I know that there is something there, but I just don't know how it's gonna get there though...I think he's a little confused...I dunno...

he's sort of touchy feely with me and he's not like that to anyone else...he tells me things that nobody knows....sometimes we sort of open up about sexual things and like we have literally EVERYTHING in common....we always laugh because we both find out that we love the same type of stuff...

anyways, yeah so like I was gonna invite him over for a movie marathon and dinner....and then he told me he would "totally" see Shutter with me...

we haven't kissed or anything yet, but everytime I drop him off we always hug...and for a long time too...

and it's weird...last night I dropped him off and his parents were sitting in the living room, so like we could see them through the window...and i pulled over and reached out to hug him...and he had the door open, but then he was like wait...pull up further....and so he made me like pull up so we were out of view...but it was weird he sort of just leaned into me really fast and then left...

but yeah so like i said its mixed signals, but i know we have something going on and I know deep down that something special is going to happen between us, I just don't know when or how!!!

So how do I know if it's a date???

I don't want to be like...well it's a date then! and have him freak out...
 
Communication!!! If I'm unsure of where I stand, I ask. Just find the right time, and ask. The "guessing" game can only be fun for a little while.
 
So how do I know if it's a date???

If you talk about everything like you say you do, then it only seems logical that you can talk about this.

The question is whether the two of you want to remain just close friends or whether you want to move it to another level. That's something that you will only be able to know if the two of you have a talk about it (or one of you makes the first move).
 
It's a date if that's what you want to call it.

I know that's not much of an answer, but in all honestly, that's the truth.

Lex
 
it sounds like two close friends going out to the movies.
 
well first of all, he's gay. but i just don't know if i'm ready to talk to him about it yet. i always drop hints and same with him...but i don't want to fuck things up if he thinks it's only a close friendship. i dunno. i guess i have to wait a little longer. like i said i get mixed signals...when we're with a small group of people he always pays all of his attention to me...he always asks me to help him with school projects...he even asked me to make him a dvd of my gay porn collection...and hes ALWAYS really touchy feely with me...like we were at a party once and he was pretending to be drunk and he like pretended to pass out and he like laid on top of me...and like i dunno...i feel like we both head in the direction of the conversation about what we are exactly, but then i pull back and so does he...i have made mistakes in the past by moving too fast and stuff, so i dont want to ruin anything. and our relationship is far different than close friend relationships we both have...but sometimes he acts as though we're just friends...which, we are at the moment...but i want to be more than friends...we're a perfect match and everyone thinks that he likes me and that we make a really cute couple. i think i'm just going to be patient and let things take their course...
 
oh and one other point to make...he and i saw cloverfield with two other friends and like the whole time he was like leaning into me and grabbing me and me him...like i dont do that with close friends who are guys...and like he goes to a diff school than me but my best friend goes to school with him and he always talks about things we do and stuff....so i dunno....
 
i'm gay, i have gay friends, we don't touch or do any of that stuff you're talking about. we're platonic friends. so. you have a gay friend he knows you're gay and you're all touchy feely. looks like he is into you. make the move bud
 
youngnihilist said:
i'm gay, i have gay friends, we don't touch or do any of that stuff you're talking about. we're platonic friends. so. you have a gay friend he knows you're gay and you're all touchy feely. looks like he is into you. make the move bud
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I'm bi and I have straight, gay and bi friends. We do touch each other and there's no interest on either side.
 
Ask him if you can kiss goodbye the next time you're out. The size of the tent in his pants will tell you whether it is platonic.
 
rareboy said:
Ask him if you can kiss goodbye the next time you're out. The size of the tent in his pants will tell you whether it is platonic.
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I don't know if I'm ready to make that step yet though....I'm pretty sure he has feelings for me, but I don't want to risk it just yet. I dunno I think like I said I'm just gonna let things happen the way theyre supposed to.
 
I'm kind of in the same kind of boat too :lol:

I've gone out with a couple guys the last couple weeks. Both of them mentioned the get-together as a "date." Was it a date? I guess so? I just considered it hanging out. If they consider it a date I guess that's okay by me. It's not like I'm going to correct them and say "No, this isn't a date." Because what would be a date for me? I don't know myself lol.

One of the guys has even mentioned me in the context of a "boyfriend." That made me squeemish (I haven't even kissed the guy or told him I like him) but he's European so maybe he meant it under a different context.
 
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