how do you know if ur gay or straight? POLL

[eyesforu]

how do you if your gay or straight? is it who you get hard watching, or that doesn't matter?

 

[Telstra]

if u are attracted to guys, u are gay.

simple.

 

[runner]

who you get hard with would be a good clue, but who do you want to have sex with is even better.

 

[sixthson]

I wouldn't trust your dick to define who you are. Sometimes that little guy is just fickle.

Being gay, like being straight, is about who you love.
Your heart will tell you.

When I was a teenager, every thing made me hard. But I just felt (for some unknown reason) that I could never completely give my heart to a girl. While my dick responded to girls, my heart didn't. I was created differently. I didn't know why, but I found out. When I met the right person, a guy, I had no problem giving him my heart. My body fully agreed.

 

[RedRedKroovy]

hey eyesforu

apparently dude this is really bothering you a lot

my suggestion would be to talk to someone you really really trust that you can be open with

and yes this is very funny that I'm saying this I'm the most closed mouthed person in the world

but I do have one person I can talk to and do often

I've seen some pretty weird ADVICE on this site so I'd take alot of it with a grain of salt

hahaha including mine I guess

 

[grady26]

I think a good indicator would be your jo fantasies? Are they about guys, gals, both?

If just guys, think your brain and boner are saying you are into those guys.

Nothing wrong with that. Your wiring says gay.

 

[burnoboi]

I don't think you should let it worry you too much after all they're just words, if you call yourself gay doesn't mean you only have to fancy guys just like straight guys don't only have to fancy girls. I think it varies from day-to-day, sometimes I'll fantasise about tits sometimes cocks I don't let it bother me as long as I'm enjoying myself

 

[jo_addict]

I dont know. I am turned on by many women, but certain M-M situations also turn me on. I am different in that butt- sex and asses do nothing for me, but cocks, cum and twinks are a turn on. I cant grasp the idea of fucking a dude up the ass and he does not even have a boner during the act. If I am turned on and horny I have a massive 'hard-on', that usually leaks pre. So how is bare-backing a 'turn on"?

So i guess there are different kinds of "gays", I think, we still have to categorise them/us!

 

[CGHJ]

I'll fantasise about tits sometimes cocks I don't let it bother me as long as I'm enjoying myself

The kids are alright

 

[rainbow-monkey]

in my opinion its not a choice you can make. for me it was simply a realisation from looking at myself. you either are or you're not, there's no 'maybe' and no 'just a little'. who you get off to is as a good a place to start as any but not where you should end, heck i've blown off one or two to girls but by no way in hell am i straight or bi. like people have already said, your dick is unreliable at the best of times.

unfortunatly you may have to do alot of thinking before you get that realisation, there are cases when guys dont realise they're gay untill they're middle aged, married and have 2.4 kids. i think i had it pretty easy, knew since i was 13!

 

[Rex]

Do you like dick?

Then you're gay.

 

[Twisly]

Do you like dick?

Then you're gay.

OMG! I'm gay.

 

[maxibutt]

Do you like dick?

Then you're gay.

I'm glad it's so clear. I love dick - but I also love big bottomed girls and hips and boobs. But I also love cock and - ok, so maybe I like it all and I'm just wacky... bi?

 

[Storybook_Man]

I dont really remember how I figured out I was bi.

Well I already knew I loved women sexually.

But with guys, I think it was because I wanted to give it a try. Porn movies helped me along to do this, but they were all straight porn. I learned how to give oral from straight porn movies, and well everything else just sort of fell into place.. So I tried it with a guy, and I really liked it. I guess it was because it was my first real sexual act and I was in my teen years at the time.. So thats when I started calling myself bi....

 

[petereater]

How do you know your sexuality? It comes to you and you know. Your family, your religion, your taught morals, your siblings and your friends can influence your ability to see the truth. But ultimately, if you are you know it. And this isn't just saying "you are gay, just get on with it." Find yourself, block out the noise and find yourself.

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

Why worry about whether you're str8 or gay? Life is a lot easier when you get past the labels and do whatever makes you feel good and what you enjoy. If you meet a guy and fall in love with him, then go with it...Or, if you meet a woman and fall in love with her, stick with it. You'll be much happier in life with someone that you truly love than you will be passing up on a love because the person's gender didn't fit with the profile you created for yourself.

I wish you the best in trying to figure this out, but I think it's really not that important, as long as you are happy...

 

[BBman123]

If you can get turned on by girls and guys then you're bi...but it's all just labels....but if you like dicks, you're not straight.