How do you know if your bi?

[FrEaKyFrEaK]

Ok, so I just finished junior year, and I've come out to most of my friends as being gay. But the other night I had the most sexual dream about a woman. And during semi-formal this year, I was dancing with a girl and kinda...popped one. Thinking about that, I watched straight porn for the first time in a LONG time, and lets just say it did the trick.
I know that I'm attracted to guys, but I don't really know if I like girls. Any way to tell? Should I just jump in bed with a random chick and see if it feels good?
I HAVE NO FRICKEN IDEA!

 

[hairyboy89]

Hey there, I think I'm in the same position as you are. I'm definitely attracted to men and watch gay porn majority of the time. However, I did and still do find myself with female crushes. If I had to choose, I would say that I am gay, even though I would have sex with a woman. Is this correct?

 

[FootballMuscle]

hey freakyfreak.

For most guys, simply rubbing up against someone else will give you an erection. And yeah, if you had a girl jerk you off, you'd probably be able to cum. I've had sex with at least 4 girls, and the sex was pretty decent. But when I started having sex with guys, the sex was amazing.

Are you bi? It's possible, but unlikely.

 

[954dude]

I find myself attracted to, staring at, having crushes, and having feelings for both sexes.

 

[tragiklyironic]

Trust me you will know. I am 28 and haven't had sex with a chick since high school before I really knew I was into guys. Then a few years ago when I lived in jersey I met this chick, who was bi, and we messed around and all but never actually had intercourse sex. Then I moved to florida, and met this other chick, short blond big tits and there was something about her, the was she hugged me, the way she jumped on me and flirted and always wanted to see my body and stuff and how she would always try to touch me when we would go swimming together, I just knew I had to try it with her. So one night I texted her to come over and we just did it, and for the first time in about 10 years I stuck my cock in a chick and it was fuckin hot and I banged her for about 2 1/2 hours. We both had a great time. SO trust me, if you want to , you will know

 

[954dude]

I often feel the same way. Although I stopped giving it too much thought.

Did you know that philantropists say that the majority of people are attracted to not one single gender? They add that many people will not talk about it or acknowledge it themselves because of social "rules."

Google it.

That's true. I found out this truth, because once I became open about being bisexual, some friends of mine had no problem telling me about their same sex experiences, fantasies, and crushes. Took me by surprise at first, but any same sex feelings are still taboo somewhat in America, and especially in migrant communities.

 

[FrEaKyFrEaK]

Thanks for all the input guys. I'm actually going out with a chick who's ok with m liking guys. Maybe I'll see where it goes.
Too bad I can't really compare. not for a while at least. The only guys I know who are out are the kind that have tiny poofy dogs in purses and are in love with greys anatomy. Just got to hold it out until college....

 

[thadiusone23]

you'll know when you have sex with every female and male and like it. hehe.

 

[thadiusone23]

oops wrong section

 

[crazy_4_cock]

Well I came out as bi about 3 weeks ago. I personally always dated women but would always think about men and watch gay porn long story short I had sex with a man and loved it so I knew I loved sex with men and women. So my answer to your question is to have sex with a woman if you like it then you are bi my friend.