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How do you move forward after a major crisis?

palbert said:
JQ, the Threads in the other fora continue but this one languishes. Will you be updating this soon with specifics?
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Palbert,

I don't know what is going on with you to make you chase me all over JUB. This thread was/ is helpful to me but I will update it as new developments occur. If I'm not mistaken, I thought the purpose of this forum is to have a "safe space" where items of a personal nature can be discussed without fear that it will be spread all over JUB.

I noticed at least on two occasions you have tried to confront me in other forums on JUB about personal issues I have shared in this thread. You also questioned why I didn't start a thread in "Hot topics" about the RMS Titanic, after I previously said that I was thinking about starting such a thread. That leads me to believe that you coming after me in the past week or so is not really about some kind of deep concern for me, but more because you have some kind of ax to grind with me.

Yes, I am going through a difficult time in my life, and I would like to keep that discussion limited to this thread & section of JUB only. I also fail to understand why my difficulties in life should prevent me from participating in any other forums or topics on JUB.
 
I can't speak for others, but my own frustration - which, as a side note, got me banned from JUB for a week - comes from the fact that you never show signs of doing anything about your problems, other than asking people for advice. You realize that advice is only useful if it leads to some form of action, right? If this topic was only meant to be venting, I'm sorry that I misunderstood it as a cry for help. The tag "help!" must have confused me :/
 
Once again folks, a member can post anything they'd like within our guidelines. The rest of us can respond or not. No one has to take advice and if we are frustrated we can just stop responding.

Please stop the sidebar stuff with JayQueer in particular and everyone else in general. I'd rather not go on a deletion frenzy.
 
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