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How does a curious, straight guy let a gay friend know he's interested in more?

moviesfan17 said:
I think I look as good as they do...I know they are all single.We usually just drink beers and bullshit about work..they have mentioned some gay porn at times they have all seen..
I may mention to them to bring one of those films over and we can all watch it together.
I usually wear tight jeans when we get together that show a nice bulge that at least two of the guys look at often...If we watch a porn movie together, I have a loose,baggy pair of shorts that definitely show my cock and balls when i have my legs separated...I might wear them!
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sounds all good!

If you are hesitant and don't want to be too directly, just tell one of your gay friends that although you are straight you recently are pretty curious exploring some things...
you could also put one hand on your bulge while you talk to him and try to look into his eyes... chances should be quite high that he'll offer you a blow job :wink:

or you ask him: "I wonder if the rumor is true that most gay guys suck better than girls... somehow it would be interesting to explore... and I'm quite horny right now after this hot video..."

If he is a good friend and gay and single, I would put the odds that he will lend you his hand and/or mouth defintely above 80%, probably close to 90% :wink:

In the unlikely case that he reacts embarrassed you can still say a minute later "Sorry I was just fantasizing a bit too much after the beers" or "just joking"

Good luck, have fun and enjoy yourself :-)
 
I'm late to this party.

If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

Whatever happens, please report back to us:)
 
enjoyit said:
sounds all good!

If you are hesitant and don't want to be too directly, just tell one of your gay friends that although you are straight you recently are pretty curious exploring some things...
you could also put one hand on your bulge while you talk to him and try to look into his eyes... chances should be quite high that he'll offer you a blow job :wink:

or you ask him: "I wonder if the rumor is true that most gay guys suck better than girls... somehow it would be interesting to explore... and I'm quite horny right now after this hot video..."

If he is a good friend and gay and single, I would put the odds that he will lend you his hand and/or mouth defintely above 80%, probably close to 90% :wink:

In the unlikely case that he reacts embarrassed you can still say a minute later "Sorry I was just fantasizing a bit too much after the beers" or "just joking"

Good luck, have fun and enjoy yourself :-)
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Thats helpful advice...just got to have or get the balls to be so direct!
 
Suburbanite said:
I'm late to this party.

If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

Whatever happens, please report back to us:)
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I'm not looking to just get great head from a guy..I want to have a good friendship that would include great sex. (that's what my brain is telling me but my cock tells me a different story at times!)
Thanks for your opinion and good advice.
 
The next time you're talking, you could say a guy hit on you online, and for the first time, you actually considered it. That will tell your friend that you are open to the advances of another man. See how he reacts. If he starts asking questions, you could say that you decided you wanted your first time to be with someone you already knew and felt connected/close to. That's a hint that's hard to misunderstand.

Frankly, sometimes we don't consider the balancing act of how to approach a friend for sex (which isn't even close to the same thing as true intimacy) without harming a highly-valued relationship. And if the friendship matters to you - and it sounds like it does - the above approach leaves a lot of "wiggle room" in case they're not cool about having that type of connection with you.

Just because he might be "as good looking as they are" doesn't mean he's their type and that they're foaming at the mouth to go to bed with him. (Jesus. Men!!!). And not every "friend" is going to want to have sex with you no matter how good-looking you are. Some people actually have boundaries, y'know.
Try using a little finesse, guys.
 
mcbrion said:
The next time you're talking, you could say a guy hit on you online, and for the first time, you actually considered it. That will tell your friend that you are open to the advances of another man. See how he reacts. If he starts asking questions, you could say that you decided you wanted your first time to be with someone you already knew and felt connected/close to. That's a hint that's hard to misunderstand.

Frankly, sometimes we don't consider the balancing act of how to approach a friend for sex (which isn't even close to the same thing as true intimacy) without harming a highly-valued relationship. And if the friendship matters to you - and it sounds like it does - the above approach leaves a lot of "wiggle room" in case they're not cool about having that type of connection with you.

Just because he might be "as good looking as they are" doesn't mean he's their type and that they're foaming at the mouth to go to bed with him. (Jesus. Men!!!). And not every "friend" is going to want to have sex with you no matter how good-looking you are. Some people actually have boundaries, y'know.
Try using a little finesse, guys.
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Good stuff..thanks for sharing..I need to go slow and make good sound decisions!
 
Suburbanite said:
I'm late to this party.

If I had a straight friend I found attractive (and I find most of my straight friends attractive), I would probably suck his dick if he asked. The only time I wouldn't would be if he was drunk. I wouldn't want to risk someone feeling like they'd done something they wouldn't have done sober, especially since I don't drink myself and couldn't use booze as an excuse for my actions.

If I were in one of your gay friend's shoes, I'd probably figure that any weirdness bridge was crossed when you asked for the blowjob, so I might as well go all in and have the pleasure of sucking some hot straight dick. The thing is: I have a lot of friends. While I'd miss any one of my straight male buddies, I wouldn't be devastated if they asked me to suck their dick, I did it, and then they were weird afterwards. Most of them are friends from recent years. If you would really feel the loss of any of these guys' friendships, then I would just line up a blowjob on Craig's List or some hookup site. There are tons of guys on all of those begging to blow straight guys, and you could probably be pretty choosy.

If you're willing to take a chance on the friendship, then by all means ask. I say keep it casual. Gay porn fantasies are gay porn fantasies for a reason. I'd be turned on if a guy just casually lowered his voice and said, "So they say guys give better head...any chance....?"

Whatever happens, please report back to us:)
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Honestly, I love the idea of another guy wanting to rim my ass and suck on my cock but I don't want somebody on Craigslist...I would rather have a good friendship with someone that leads to getting naked with him.
 
moviesfan17 said:
Honestly, I love the idea of another guy wanting to rim my ass and suck on my cock but I don't want somebody on Craigslist...I would rather have a good friendship with someone that leads to getting naked with him.
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I see. So things are more complicated. Again, I say, as long as you won't be devastated if the friendship goes weird, go ahead and pitch it to one of them. You're proposing some fooling around, not marriage. Be prepared that your other friends might find out - whether the answer is no or whether you achieve your objective. But that's not the end of the world, and it will tell them that you're open to experimenting. Maybe then one of them will make a move.
 
Suburbanite said:
I see. So things are more complicated. Again, I say, as long as you won't be devastated if the friendship goes weird, go ahead and pitch it to one of them. You're proposing some fooling around, not marriage. Be prepared that your other friends might find out - whether the answer is no or whether you achieve your objective. But that's not the end of the world, and it will tell them that you're open to experimenting. Maybe then one of them will make a move.
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Good advice..thanks!
 
If your straight and have a gay friend and want more. My advice is have a few drinks and after a bit, say to him “a friend of mine told me that you gave him a BJ?” if he says NO, just laugh and say “hay bro, just kidding!”

If he admits it, just tell him what you want to do! Either ask him to suck you cock or ask if you can suck his cock! If he is like me he will probably say OK and you’ll both hve a great time!….
 
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