How Does One Get Rid Of A One Night Stand ?

[me203]

Possibly the solution would be to hold the event in a cheap motel room. That way, each person can leave at his convenience.

 

[ClubLevelVegan]

But you miss out on the spooning.

Some of you guys come across pretty cold.

To be fair, a lot of the guys I met up with with did not want that. Then the one that did do that is the one I have been with for a few years now. lol.

 

[USEDCAR]

I never had that issue they usually leave when we are done we make small talk plan for next time and they leave. If i picked them up i always say "Alright i am taking you back home"

If i am over someone house i leave right after unless they want me to stay.

 

[nycguydowntown]

it is possible to meet someone you really enjoyed both chemically and emotionally --and they really turn you on---and actually want them to stay over.

 

[ninja]

I have rarely hosted, and only with people I knew had something on the next morning and who would likely leave of their own volition. Generally I prefer to go to his, and then leave after an appropriate amount of time has passed. I don't often camp out.

 

[Nealm1]

Possibly the solution would be to hold the event in a cheap motel room. That way, each person can leave at his convenience.

Then of course you have to leave by check out time

If in your own home, offer to buy them breakfast. After an energetic night, no stud will turn down an opportunity for breakfast

 

[cabinfever]

How about morning after sex?

Some of the best sex happens the next morning assuming the sexual chemistry was there.

I remember when that happens they leave faster all on their own - and with a smile.

 

[rareboy]

Then of course you have to leave by check out time

If in your own home, offer to buy them breakfast. After an energetic night, no stud will turn down an opportunity for breakfast

This. If you let them stay the night but don't want them to hang around.

But I agree with the morning sex thing too. Sometimes another fuck before they leave is just the ticket.

If you really don't want them to hang out after sex at all, then don't use the bedroom. And ask them if they'd like an Uber or cab.

 

[Nealm1]

MMMMMORNING sex YESSSSS - then make them breakfast

 

[me203]

Possibly the solution would be to hold the event in a cheap motel room. That way, each person can leave at his convenience.

I'd forgotten something when I posted this the other day. I remember one motel that supposedly had hourly rates. Get just one hour, and there won't be any lingering...

 

[Alistair]

Or how about tell them they're not staying before they even come to your house?

 

[ShadowCat]

Maybe you got that good dick and they want more!!!

 

[Zeno Lorea]

If you keep pigs it's really easy to dispose of your one-night stands. Pigs love to eat human flesh.

 

[Nealm1]

A tad extreme Zeno considering Cormac said its a small pool and he may want to meet his man again in case of future need

 

[mydrew1]

Be clear beforehand that they can't stay the night, etc. I guess you could say you 'need to get up early for work tomorrow morning...….'

 

[Zeno Lorea]

Be clear beforehand that they can't stay the night, etc. I guess you could say you 'need to get up early for work tomorrow morning...….'

You call that "being clear"?

It's likely to trigger a "Oh great than you can drop me off at the airport" response.

 

[Nealm1]

Extreme but set the fire/burglar alarm to go off early. Then when you "can't switch it off" (hopefully the stud can't help), may be the stud will make excuses and depart. Meanwhile you annoyed the neighbours - so may be not? Just thinking out loud

 

[me203]

Really off topic, but I was noticing this thread's title again. It illustrates the importance a single word can have. Omit one or the other of two words, and this becomes a furniture question. Like: "How does one get rid of a night stand?" Or if one has limited space by the bed, one could ask: "How does one get rid of one night stand?"

 

[ShadowCat]

Double beds with an eject button like something out of a Roadrunner Cartoon?!