How gay men see breasts

[Kulindahr]

Breasts in porn: No thank you.
However, I posted this in the straight & bi forum some time ago:

I like that vid! I want to go somewhere where a guy in a suit will wade through a pool to bring me a drink!

People are trying too hard to be misogynistic these days, and it bores the fuck out of me.

What's misogynistic about this thread???

 

[Iudicium86]

I don't really get it myself. When a friend brings up breasts, tits, or boobs in a sexual or arousing manner, I reply "Mammaries are only for feeding infant young!" >:\

 

[geloge]

... hipnotic

 

[Dduder]

Sometimes I question if I'm bi or actually gay

I am almost 100% sure that you are gay.

 

[metta]

It is one of the reasons why, on average, women have a higher body fat content than men.

 

[RaKroma]

Oh and I love women with freakishly large areolae. Love it. Don't see that on guys much.

Large areolae has always been such a turn off for me both in men and women. I don't know why that is. Tiny ones are "hot" for me.
Large breasts look iffy; I like Jay Lo's size breasts. And I like how they feel too.

 

[Phlash]

They're beautiful. Perfect... for women. I just don't get hard for them. Same with long hair. Beautiful, just doesn't turn me on.

 

[LilBit]

Li'l Bit doesn't really care for tits.

 

[metta]

Li'l Bit doesn't really care for tits.

say it ain't so....

 

[Asenath]

I have no idea how they see them, but when I worked at the bar (it was originally a gay bar but when the goth club closed, the freak demographic kind of made itself right at home), the boys could not stop jiggling and fiddling with them. And talking about them.

So. You know. Your mileage may vary, but my boobies made more public appearances than Paris Hilton in 2001-2002.

 

[LilBit]

say it ain't so....

Li'l Bit also doesn't like chocolate, books, or nekkid men.

 

[bankside]

They don't really enter into my understanding of women as human beings...they just don't really register apart from some sort of functional child rearing devices.

However when I consider breasts on their own, as kind of a disembodied depersonalized conceptual abstraction, I suppose I approve of them when they evince the maximum amount of breastliness.

I despise subtlety; no less so in anatomy. So bring on the giant watermellons with the areolæ the size of pancakes. I dunno what I'd do with them, but æsthetically I say make 'em big!

 

[Kulindahr]

Li'l Bit doesn't really care for tits.

What about barbecued?

 

[Kulindahr]

I have no idea how they see them, but when I worked at the bar (it was originally a gay bar but when the goth club closed, the freak demographic kind of made itself right at home), the boys could not stop jiggling and fiddling with them. And talking about them.

So. You know. Your mileage may vary, but my boobies made more public appearances than Paris Hilton in 2001-2002.

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[Kulindahr]

NOO!!!

That statement was like nightmare to me, I'm 100% GAYYY!!!

You see?

That is exceptionally superb.

Or maybe absurd.








Frak -- both.

 

[freefall]

Li'l Bit doesn't really care for tits.

Li'l Bit also doesn't like chocolate, books, or nekkid men.

This is an insult to the plastic surgery! I demand you take those chocolate-filled silicon implants off now!

 

[Rex]

I am almost 100% sure that you are gay.

For a while I thought I could be and I'd be fine with it if I was but then I still have desires to pursue a girl if I like her and they still turn me on.

There is this particular girl I know who works at my clinic. She is a gorgeous petite little thing and she's half Panamanian and Half Native American (I think). I constantly think about her and whenever I get the chance to talk to her (which isn't that often), it's exciting to me. When I finally got the chance to have a conversation with her, she was even more attractive.

If I could get the chance to see her out of her military uniform, I'm almost positive I'd be drooling over her (you can't really see much skin when you're in uniform).


If I was gay, why would I be having all these feelings and thinking about her so often? I don't think I'm TRYING to be bi just because it's more "acceptable" than being full on gay. I just think I am bi for some unexplainable reason. I am really past the whole internalized homophobia nonsense. I've already come out to a handful of people I know in the military and I'm pretty happy with myself.

Sometimes I think being bi is awesome because it's the best of both worlds but when it comes down to actually settling down with someone in a long term relationship, it's really hard because I think I'm always going to have feelings for both genders. I don't know how I could just completely give one up my entire life.




Anyway, if I was 100% gay, I think I'd be ok with it at this point, but I really don't think I am. You on the other hand... how are you still considered "Curious" ? To me, that is something you are for a temporary amount of time. You've been on JUB for how many years now and your still "curious"? Do you know what you are?

 

[Dduder]

For a while I thought I could be and I'd be fine with it if I was but then I still have desires to pursue a girl if I like her and they still turn me on.

There is this particular girl I know who works at my clinic. She is a gorgeous petite little thing and she's half Panamanian and Half Native American (I think). I constantly think about her and whenever I get the chance to talk to her (which isn't that often), it's exciting to me. When I finally got the chance to have a conversation with her, she was even more attractive.

If I could get the chance to see her out of her military uniform, I'm almost positive I'd be drooling over her (you can't really see much skin when you're in uniform).


If I was gay, why would I be having all these feelings and thinking about her so often? I don't think I'm TRYING to be bi just because it's more "acceptable" than being full on gay. I just think I am bi for some unexplainable reason. I am really past the whole internalized homophobia nonsense. I've already come out to a handful of people I know in the military and I'm pretty happy with myself.

Sometimes I think being bi is awesome because it's the best of both worlds but when it comes down to actually settling down with someone in a long term relationship, it's really hard because I think I'm always going to have feelings for both genders. I don't know how I could just completely give one up my entire life.




Anyway, if I was 100% gay, I think I'd be ok with it at this point, but I really don't think I am. You on the other hand... how are you still considered "Curious" ? To me, that is something you are for a temporary amount of time. You've been on JUB for how many years now and your still "curious"? Do you know what you are?

The reason why I think you are gay is because you are not attracted to feminine boys. True bisexuals are attracted to both masculinity and femininity. It is usually queens who want only masculine men. Even the woman you are attracted to wears a military uniform, something associated with men and masculinity.

I have this theory about attraction. The basis of sexual/emotional attraction is that opposites attract. Aristotle touched on this describing two opposites halves that come together to form a complete whole. People who are psychologically feminine want masculine people to complete them, and vice versa. Gays tend to be feminine and thus are attracted to masculine men just like women, who are also feminine. Masculine people, like straight men, are attracted to feminine physical and emotional characteristics. The same physical characteristics that are a turn off to gay men, such as long hair, soft voice and delicate facial features are attractive to straight men. Likewise, the psychological characteristics of femininity that are a huge turn-off to gays, such as being passive, gentle, coy, demour, nurturing, etc, are the psychological traits that make straight men fall in love with girls. There is genuine homosexuality where a masculine man falls in love with another masculine man, the classic example being Alexander the Great and Hephaistion, but this is very rare. The so-called "masculine" gay men who only want other masculine gay men are not truly masculine. They are usually sissies who want a big strong man, and they pretend to the masculine because they think this is what other masculine gay men want. But they don't. It is an act. The genuinelly masculine men are straight and want women or ocasionally delicate boys. Ask yourself this question: How masculine are you really if you want a big strong man to protect and pamper you? Not very masculine. A true bisexual is attracted to both things and the gender doesen't matter. A bisexual finds both the manly men and the delicate boys attractive because they are attracted to both masculine and feminine characteristics. A heterosexual finds only women or males who look a lot like women attractive, and the homosexual finds only masculine men attractive. Now, you might defend yourself claiming that you are bisexual because you are attracted to women. But you are not. It is a farse. You want a man to dominate you. Even the women you are attracted to have masculine characteristics. You want a man. Face it.

As for me, I am heterosexual because I am only attracted to feminine people. I am pretty much only attracted to women or boys who are very delicate and pretty with gentle personalities. I love boys with long hair, make-up, who are skinny and subbmit to me. The thought of having sex with a hairy man with a square jaw and facial hair is repulsive to me. Huge turnoff. So yes, I am "curious". If I got into a relationship with a cute boy, he would definitely be my girlfriend if you understand what I mean.

 

[Kulindahr]

The reason why I think you are gay is because you are not attracted to feminine boys. True bisexuals are attracted to both masculinity and femininity. It is usually queens who want only masculine men. Even the woman you are attracted to wears a military uniform, something associated with men and masculinity.

I have this theory about attraction. The basis of sexual/emotional attraction is that opposites attract. Aristotle touched on this describing two opposites halves that come together to form a complete whole. People who are psychologically feminine want masculine people to complete them, and vice versa. Gays tend to be feminine and thus are attracted to masculine men just like women, who are also feminine. Masculine people, like straight men, are attracted to feminine physical and emotional characteristics. The same physical characteristics that are a turn off to gay men, such as long hair, soft voice and delicate facial features are attractive to straight men. Likewise, the psychological characteristics of femininity that are a huge turn-off to gays, such as being passive, gentle, coy, demour, nurturing, etc, are the psychological traits that make straight men fall in love with girls. There is genuine homosexuality where a masculine man falls in love with another masculine man, the classic example being Alexander the Great and Hephaistion, but this is very rare. The so-called "masculine" gay men who only want other masculine gay men are not truly masculine. They are usually sissies who want a big strong man, and they pretend to the masculine because they think this is what other masculine gay men want. But they don't. It is an act. The genuinelly masculine men are straight and want women or ocasionally delicate boys. Ask yourself this question: How masculine are you really if you want a big strong man to protect and pamper you? Not very masculine. A true bisexual is attracted to both things and the gender doesen't matter. A bisexual finds both the manly men and the delicate boys attractive because they are attracted to both masculine and feminine characteristics. A heterosexual finds only women or males who look a lot like women attractive, and the homosexual finds only masculine men attractive. Now, you might defend yourself claiming that you are bisexual because you are attracted to women. But you are not. It is a farse. You want a man to dominate you. Even the women you are attracted to have masculine characteristics. You want a man. Face it.

As for me, I am heterosexual because I am only attracted to feminine people. I am pretty much only attracted to women or boys who are very delicate and pretty with gentle personalities. I love boys with long hair, make-up, who are skinny and subbmit to me. The thought of having sex with a hairy man with a square jaw and facial hair is repulsive to me. Huge turnoff. So yes, I am "curious". If I got into a relationship with a cute boy, he would definitely be my girlfriend if you understand what I mean.

This is ridiculous. Everyone has different types they're attracted to -- I know rednecks who love chubby girls and can't stand skinny ones, and other rednecks who love the skinny ones but are revolted by chubby ones. I know many of the latter who are really into "boyish" gals, but that doesn't make them gay -- it makes them straight guys with a certain kind of attraction.

If you love girls of any sort, you're at least bisexual -- and if you love boys of any sort, you're at least bisexual. To claim otherwise is feeding yourself a ludicrous lie.

 

[Kulindahr]

Absolute bullshit.

For those of you who wonder why I have such trouble with labels, read no more. This guy is trying to illustrate rules of being bisexual.

For the record, it's possible for a bisexual to be attracted to masculine men and feminine women, as some have a preference for "gender norms" even though they are attracted to both sexes.

And it's possible for a bi guy to be attracted to masculine women and feminine women, or to masculine women and feminine men, or... to be unpredictable.

Dduder, I'm proof that your thesis is absolute rubbish: my attraction changes with the season. I'm more attracted to gals in the summer, almost not at all in the winter; I'm attracted to guys all year round, but to muscular, masculine guys almost only in the summer. And my attraction to gals is variable by my mood (in the medical sense) -- sometimes athletic gals, sometimes 'twinky' gals, sometimes boyish gals...