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Interesting, I've heard that argument many times before.
That it's harder for bi-sexuals to be monogamous because they like both sexes.
If you commit yourself to a partner, a person, does it really matter what else you like?
What if a man likes both black and white women? Is it OK for him to marry a black woman and also sleep with white women because he likes them too?
Of course he can still fantasize about them or watch porn with white models but monogamy works the same for everyone: you give up all the other potential sex partners.
I know a couple bisexuals like that. And we have argued about it and they tell me that I'm wrong...that they need both. What they tell me is that they marry women and then have sex with guys on the side. I tell them that if they are going to do that that they have to let the women know and they tell me that women will never go for that so they have to lie. And if what they say is true, I'm so thankful that I'm not bi-sexual.

