"How hot is he?"

[Danugh]

This is so embarrassing. So I was working with this girl somewhere and this guy dressed to perfection with a body and face to match walked pass the girl and me. He was hella sexy.

So anyways right as the he past us, the girl instantly turned to me and said, “How hot is he?”

You can imagine my shock and embarrassment.

Yes the guy was hot (although I wouldn’t have his baby) but for a girl to be asking me a man, “How hot is he?” obviously she must think I’m gay.

What a bitch.

 

[gmoney]

Not necessarily true. Lots of straight guys will admit if another guy is goodlooking to a girl. I've seen it happen many times. It doesn't mean he wants him. Just that he can see what the girl would find sexy.

 

[kotosal]

It could have been a rhetoric question, no answer was needed.

 

[ixthrock]

ah, you make me foam at the mouth.

 

[Danugh]

ah, you make me foam at the mouth.

Make sure you get a raybees shot.

 

[gerrit]

Now if you'd said "how hot is he" first...

OR... In the event you speak and act like you write (sound) and you don't want people to think you are gay, you gotta 'macho' it up a bit.
Get it?

 

[dolphwasser]

This is so embarrassing. So I was working with this girl somewhere and this guy dressed to perfection with a body and face to match walked pass the girl and me. He was hella sexy.

So anyways right as the he past us, the girl instantly turned to me and said, “How hot is he?”

You can imagine my shock and embarrassment.

Yes the guy was hot (although I wouldn’t have his baby) but for a girl to be asking me a man, “How hot is he?” obviously she must think I’m gay.

What a bitch.

Well are you? Gay, I mean?

You're either reading too much into this (because the girl probably lost it all and just melted - physically and mentally - and said the first thing that came to her) or she thinks (knows?) you're gay and just wanted to share a (hopefully) common feeling. Cool down, tiger.

 

[justsimon]

Sigh......

 

[GL]

All of a sudden I wish I had a "Whatever!" post icon. Moving on...

 

[GoodbyeSobriety]

Next time I walk by you I'll try not to look so sexy.

But seriously, why is that embarassing even if she did think you were gay? Grow some balls and be proud of who you are. Sorry to be blunt.

 

[Danugh]

All of a sudden I wish I had a "Whatever!" post icon. Moving on...

Excuse me but you have a problem with everything i post so why dont you just put me on your ignore list, other jubbers said they have done that , so do that ok i dont need your comments in my threads. Ignoring me is alot easier than creating a whatever icon .

 

[Swellegant]

Oh, come now, newboy12... don't get your knickers in a twist. Even when we're blunt or even mean, we're just trying to help. Those of us who've come out already always try to help those still in to come out as well, because we've discovered that it's a lot nicer out here than it was in there. The freedom to be who you are in public is a heady thrill, and we want to share it with you!

Re the girl in question, either she has very finely-tuned gaydar and can spot a Friend of Dorothy at a hundred paces (lots of girls are like this), or else you weren't being as discreet in checking the guy out as you thought you were (a certain fixity to your stare, a sudden cessation of conversation, a string of drool depending from your slack mouthm, any of these might have given you away).

Either way, don't worry about it. Unless she said this in a mean-spirited way, or loudly in front of a crowd of onlookers, your "secret" is most likely safe with her. Not all girls are heinous bitches, you know.

 

[sb]

Yes the guy was hot (although I wouldn’t have his baby) but for a girl to be asking me a man, “How hot is he?” obviously she must think I’m gay.

You know you can't have a baby right?

What is wrong with someone thinking something about you that is true?

Why don't we have a whatever icon?

 

[Danugh]

Well call me stupid but i don't get this thread....

newboy are you gay? if yes where is the problem. Did i get move in the straight section?

Shocks its more to do with me thinking or deluding myself that i am masculine and undetecable. The fact that she asked me "How hot is he" means that there is a kink in my "straight man" armour and that i am indeed detectable, i mean surely she wouldnt ask, (i am trying to think of a masculine celebrity,) Arnold lol or Denzel Washington if he thought a guy was hot.

The problem here is not gay or straight its how the world percieves me thats what i took issue with. Now it means that i have to regroup and get straighter so that other girls dont think i am one of the girls they can talk to about hot guys.

In the society i live in one has to put on a fasade in public and discreetly carryout their affairs.

 

[ryankeith]

In the society i live in one has to put on a fasade in public and discreetly carryout their affairs.

No, one does not have to do anything but be themselves. That line used to be valid at one point years and years ago, but in this day and age, there are places you can live, probably close to you, where you can actually be happy and be yourself.

 

[FREDDIE187]

Newboy, I've read the whole thread and spesifically your comments. I can't believe you are totally serious. Maybe you are doing this toung in cheeck.

Really, surely you just agree with her, or not and forget about it. Are you really such a closet case? Don't do it to youself, just relax be yourself and enjoy life.

Please tell me you are indeed joking or that you are going to make an effort to relax.

 

[herenthere]

Maybe when you tried to trip him, and beat him to the ground, she got her first clue!! lol