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how long do you usually wait before calling for a second date?

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This afternoon is NONE too soon!!! ..|

I'm glad you had a great time -- and hope it works out well for you... :D

Thinking back, IF I had a great time on a date with a guy -- I usually set up the SECOND date BEFORE the FIRST date was over!!! :lol:

Let us know how it goes...

:):):)
 
I would tell him your free for..lun/din/brkfst........... on x day and wanted to know if he could join you. That you really enjoyed the other day.

That way it leaves it kinda open for options.

Text him hope you have a nice day with that message.

good luck..
 
if you are into him, don't play the "hard to get game". talk about him about your day and what is planned during the next days. after hearing his plans, ask if he might join you for dinner/movie/party/whatever on a free day.
 
It's good you sent that text right away to let him know you had made it home ok. I would say wait two days after that first date, that's if you don't hear from him by then. Hopefully you guys arrange a second date! ...And then a third! Lol That would be awesome!

Good luck! ;)
 
swerve said:
Thinking back, IF I had a great time on a date with a guy -- I usually set up the SECOND date BEFORE the FIRST date was over!!! :lol:
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^Ditto.

And if you say you're going to call, then call.
 
loki81 said:
^ agreed

we actually joked about that on the date and agreed that we'd rather the only guy be abrasive and just be like "sorry, there wasn't really a connection" than promise to call and not.
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The only guy or the other guy?
 
loki -- I can tell that you have a good head on your shoulders...

And unlike some PREVIOUS advice -- DON'T play games...

I think the guy is LUCKY to have met you...

:):):)
 
Don't play games!

If you like someone let them know.

I think during the first date is fine - I did so, stayed the weekend and 6 years later we are still together.

I would much rather know if someone isn't in to me.
 
As much as I hate to admit it, dating is a game.

Play it cool. Give it a few days. With my experiences, i'd more than likely wait for him to get in touch with me. Hope it works out.
 
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