How many Gay guys let a woman blow them?

[jackry]

Great question.
I would, it's never come up though. Heel I've used the "a mouths a mouth" line. It would be wrong if i didn't fallow my own advice.
Dose this mean I'm not gay ?

 

[cityboi]

Never would I get naked, intimate or whatever with a woman. A woman is as much of a turn on as a concrete floor.

 

[Rex]

It happens about as often as straight guys using gay guys for relief, which in case you don't know is not very often.

 

[ELAINE]

I don't think it would mean you're not gay if you let a woman blow you. It's just friends making each other feel good.

 

[alley]

Cause it's so hard to find a willing guy, right?

 

[Eternaldarkness]

Honestly, I don't think any gay guys like that idea.

Unless their bi...

I've known gay men who cringe and cry at the sight of a nude women.

 

[Gussss]

Not this one.

Although I don't cringe or cry at the sight of a naked woman, I do believe they would have a very difficult time trying to get me erect enough to blow.

 

[Corny]

Cause it's so hard to find a willing guy, right?

that was what i thought. why should i let a woman blow me? if i am that desperate - there are enough mediocre and even good looking guys willing to give out blowjobs.
(just mentioning looks here, because if the question is whether a gay guy wants some woman, it's obviously just about getting off and nothing deeper)

 

[LoveIsNow]

Eww, do you know how gross that sounds? I'm gay because I don't want to have sex with a woman. I wouldn't ever do that.

Besides, I've seen straight porn and I scream at the screen for how wrong they're doing it. They even look like they're scared of the cock sometimes.

 

[Lube]

Ah, the irony of the OP's post is lost on so many people. LOL.

 

[MissouriFreakBoi]

My ex-gf, now ironically my bestest girl friend and I have messed around a few times when we would hang out - just cause we were board and the both of us were horny Hasn't happened in a long time now that she's married. Keep trying to talk her into getting her husband, her and I to do something together but I some how think it will NEVER happen LOL

 

[Lube]

Oh God!! Thank you! Thank you!! Finally, someone understands me. As Willy the janitor said to his wife in an immortal line from The Simpson's: "Lube me up woman, I'm going in!" Lube, me up for more of you.

Kisses,

Kaleilde

Yeah, it's amazing how many gay guys will be like, "A Girl?? Sucking my cock? Ewwwwww!!". And yet somehow they think str8 guys would love to have a gay guy suck theirs. Well, guess what? A truly str8 guy will be like, "A Guy?? Sucking my cock? Ewwwww!!" just the same.

So give up on the fantasy.

Any guy's cock that you're sucking is gay or bi. Not str8.

And as for Kaleilde's ass? Sounds pretty gay to me. Lube that baby up, Lube's cummin' in.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

I can't say i've ever thought about it actually.

 

[wanderer]

i have in the past, it was fun. she was my good friend, and we were both naked in the hot tub, and the conversation came around to he mentioning that "all guys cocks are different, you know, like some have this thing on it and some dont and stuff?" and i laughed and actually had to tell her it is called a circumcision, and that it is the result of a surgery! and she had no idea it was like that up until them. then i stood up and showed her my cock, and what it was to be cut, and i happened to be hard of course too. so the next thing is she asking me "oh you have a nice one, can i kiss it?" so i allowed her to, and the next thing i know, im getting a blow job. thats how this one happened. i can say though that guys give way way way better head.

i do like the topic of this thead though. society seems to automatically label those that do anything with a guy as gay, and somehow once gay, always gay. so when the gay guy does something with a girl, is he now all of a sudden straight and always straight? all based on the rules assumed previously? perhaps one can (by society's rules) be gay in June, and then Straight through the holidays, then gay in february, and back to straight through april, and just change their sexual affiliation at will with a simple blow job... (this is all just ridiculous nonsense to proove the point)

 

[boxerdudeuk]

finally. a thread that'll make the "ALL STR8 GUYS WANNA SECRETLY BE WITH ANOTHER DUDE" crowd STFU.

 

[Conflicted]

Wow, this thread helps me realize how foolish I was to stress over the fact that I might be gay.

I can't believe some guys would find a women giving them a blowjob to be repulsive. I'm of course not saying you're weird, not at all. But it's a sentiment that I can't relate to at all.

To have an almost aversion to a girl's touch, I can't believe. I am (due to just lack of social skill and never came from a touchy feely family) I do get nervous and shy, kind of timid. But if a girl is willing and ready, no way could I hold back from jumping on her. Might have to warm up a bit first, but if she wants it, she's going to get it. I only refused sex with a women twice and it was only because I didn't want them to become a part of my life in the long run. Sexually attracted to them yes and I kick myself for refusing the first one, cause she was a slutty little piece of ass, but I was a teen and a virgin and nervous and I didn't wan her to cling on me...cause she wasn't too cool and I had my sights set on more quality girls (who where too high mantance for me, but anyway). I was a nicer guy in those days I guess.

I got a blowjob from a guy. However, even though I knew it was a guy, there was a wall between us and I couldn't see him. I just shut my brain off and got lost in the moment. When I think back on it, I feel a bit uncomfortable and I doubt in real life I could ever look a man in the eyes and let him suck my dick...

Thing is, I think. The whole thing just feel like a fantasy, due to the setting and the fact my mind was in a haze. It was a bit like psychosis......I was thinking more about where I was and the fact that a total stranger was taking my dick into their mouth within five minutes, without any words or interest in who I was. This override the fact it was a guy, so I didn't think too much of it. I just let that add to the kink, taboo factor. The whole think was so bizarre, it just didn't feel like reality, just a realistic fantasy due to the easiness and secretiveness of it. The anonymous factor I guess . But of course afterwards I was like....what.....the....fuck....did....I....just...do.

Women look better with dicks in their mouths.


So I understand, in a way.

 

[ELAINE]

What's the point of making words if we can change the meaning whenever we feel like it?

I could sleep with only men my entire life and say "Oh I'm not gay, I'm just enjoying the company of men."

If you can achieve sexual satisfaction from men and women, you're bisexual. Being gay implies that you're not sexually interested in women. I'm just going by the definitions though. One thing I learned in 2008 is that words mean nothing.

It's just that not every gay guy feels the same, some throw up at the thought of having a woman touch them, and some don't. One gay guy might be willing to mess around a few times with a certain girl they know, while others will not here of it. But they are both still gay.

 

[Conflicted]

What's the point of making words if we can change the meaning whenever we feel like it?

To fit people into boxes. We didn't make up the words, but that's exactly what they are. They are made up words and not every fits nice and neatly into any of them either. Regardless of one's behavior, one might not identify with gay because it just doesn't fit him. It's not who he is.

Gay to me is an identity, a lifestyle, a political statement and the affirmation of a homosexual orientation.

The gay community to me, was always about fighting oppression and countering conformity, so it boggles my mind to think they are the biggest sticklers when it comes to the labels.

Not everyone is cut from the same cloth and it's foolish to think many people don't engage in sexual behavior that doesn't align with their innate orientation.

To say a man is gay/bi because of sexual behavior alone, is a contradiction to what gays have been saying in response to those who think it's JUST sexual behavior alone. Like the christians who think gays are just sodomites and are just gay because they like to stick it up men's bums.

You can sit there and say BUT "if they are/do" they must be attracted to guys, or desire guys or not be into woman is bullshit, because you have no idea what's going on in their heads.

Not every man is the same.

Also...people use the fact that many gay men aren't going around nailing chicks as proof that anyone who engages in sexual behavior with the same sex is either gay or bi.

My opinion, is that a gay man doesn't have to. If a gay guy is really horny, he can post on craigslist, troll an adultbook store or hang around "Cruise" spots...or go to a gay club, where...let's be real. Although I never been to one, I know based on what I've heard that there is more sex going on there than in a straight club. The gay world is a male population and we all know men are far more horny than women are.

Straight men don't have cruise spots where we get a strange woman to blow us, nor do we have "squirt.com". If we did, it would be loaded with hookers and escorts who want us to pay $500 for gay guys are getting for free without even a hand shake.

A straight man needs social skill, money, good looks and so on and so on. All of the w4w posts are craigslists are fakes (usually MEN haha trying to collect pics) or they are cyber sex bots. Seldomly for the straight man (unless highly confident, good looking and/or rich) is free sex available to him. When a man lacks these things, is it any wonder he ends up resorting to a gay man blowing him through a glory hole? ....men unlike most women, are driven physically and can act out mechanically.

Don't give me "if you get hard with a guy" you must be gay or bi. Victims of molestation were aroused and reached orgasm during the abuse, even though they DREADED the experience. Proof that they body operates mechanically.

IT HAPPENS!

 

[AngelFromAbove]

To say a man is gay/bi because of sexual behavior alone, is a contradiction to what gays have been saying in response to those who think it's JUST sexual behavior alone. Like the christians who think gays are just sodomites and are just gay because they like to stick it up men's bums.

Sexual behavior is a huge indicator. Conversely, just because one does not engage in certain behaviors does not mean that they do not possess certain fetishes, attractions, fantasies, etc. You've studied nothing on human sexuality, and it becomes more and more apparent the more you write. Everyone does not possess the same sort of sexual abilities and capabilities; in other words, just because someone chooses not to date someone of the same sex for whatever reasons or use a certain concept for identification purposes does not mean that he or she does not carry certain traits

All you ever give are opinions, personal opinions, which stem from how you feel as an individual concerning your psychological issues which have not been completely resolved from what it seems. I'm definitely not someone who is obsessed with labels; however, if the shoe fits...

You can sit there and say BUT "if they are/do" they must be attracted to guys, or desire guys or not be into woman is bullshit, because you have no idea what's going on in their heads.

Are you trying to defend them or are you trying to defend yourself? In many of your statements, you always talk about all these ideas and issues that men have, but these are ideas and issues that you have. As I said in the other thread, a heterosexual man is not going to seek out sex with another man, not when women are available.

As a preemptive statement, please do not revert back to explaining how difficult it is to obtain a woman. It is not that difficult, not even for a quick romp. They may not express it as openly, due to societal influence, but plenty will get down in the sack.

Also...people use the fact that many gay men aren't going around nailing chicks as proof that anyone who engages in sexual behavior with the same sex is either gay or bi.

Usually, well, uh, they are.

All of the w4w posts are craigslists are fakes (usually MEN haha trying to collect pics) or they are cyber sex bots.

How do you know this?

Seldomly for the straight man (unless highly confident, good looking and/or rich) is free sex available to him. When a man lacks these things, is it any wonder he ends up resorting to a gay man blowing him through a glory hole? ....men unlike most women, are driven physically and can act out mechanically.

Oh please, the fact of the matter is most people are some degree of bisexual. Throughout all cultures across all time, people have been having sex with the same sex. Socialization may influence how much or how many people engage in the behavior, but it has been a constant. A heterosexual man is not going to "turn" to men when other women are available.

Women, I repeat, women are not scarce and they are not an impossible feat.[/quote]

I'm calling bullshit. It's becoming more apparent that you obviously have some issues with your own sexuality that need to be resolved. You constantly repeat how difficult it is for men to get with women; from personal experience alone, I can easily discredit that argument. Whether it is for dating and relationships, or a quickie. Even if it were difficult, it would be like anything else in life, if one searches enough, he or she will find it eventually. Speaking of which, have you been searching for women lately or are you still searching for men? After all, you are straight.

 

[tweetymp]

I'm ready now, send he over!