How many gay men actually do actually hit on straigt men ?

[wonderwort]

Lots and lots of gay guys are absolutely enthralled and obsessed with straight guys.

Many straight men like to talk to and are very friendly with women that they like to fuck.

Gay men are no different.

I wonder how many gay men cross the line and hit on straight men like asking to suck their dicks etc.

I wonder how many gay men do cross the line and grab straight men butts or dicks.


I actually do think that there are many gay men who have crossed that line unfortunately.

I actually came close to asking a straight friend if he would let me suck his dick.

My straight friend was jokingly saying that he would show me a video of him and his wife fucking if I paid him.

I never paid and didn't see the video.

 

[wonderwort]

Also, there have been times where straight friends "seem like" their sending cryptic sexual messages when they actually aren't.

I had to tell some of straight male friends ,who know that I'm attracted to them, that they shouldn't say things like that or I would think that they are sending me cryptic sexual signals.

I'm sure straight men do and say things that a gay man may misinterpret quite often.

Then, you have a big ole jackpot.

 

[wonderwort]

Once, I had this happen to me with a straight friend who knows that I'm attracted him.

He was sitting on a chair across from me over a 2 foot by 2 foot table.

He was sitting far enough away from the table so I could see his whole body.

Then he proceeded to scratch his balls a few times in front of me while he was in the man spread sitting position.

To me, it looked he was playing with cock in front of me but in actuality he was just scratching his balls.

I had to tell him that he shouldn't scratch his balls in front of me because I might get the wrong idea.

He apologized and said he didn't realize he was doing that.

 

[IrishBuflo]

I did once and that was before I was curious but I definitely was flattered.

I wish it would happen again because I'm sure I'd be interested.

 

[IceColdLover]

I kind of hit on my straight friend Sam, who has a huge ass and who I've crushed on for over a decade. Told him he has a nice butt and he appreciated the compliment. Sam then sent me a pic of himself in his underwear. Made me horny.

 

[mcbrion]

Isn't this exactly the kind of thing women are angry about? Men saying "they sent me a signal" and then the man acts on his own (not so subconscious) desires? Men scratch their balls in front of their straight friends. What gives us gays the right to tell them not to do it in front of us? Just because you want them doesn't mean they should change their behavior any more than they would in front of their straight guy friends. If you're going to be friends with a straight guy, accept them as they are - just as they accept you. If I scratch my balls in front of my gay friends, I sure don't expect them to tell me I'm giving them ideas. What's the difference here?!?

 

[ballcaphair]

^ I honestly don't think there is a difference; it is exactly the same. As a mostly closeted bi, I'm a gym rat in a small community and have been very up front without actually coming out. My gym mates know I appreciate a male physique so I'm comfortable about just looking because there is just such beauty. A couple of guys thought I was creepy, but in a small community usually things get chill. Do not objective your friend, he deserves more from you. Let him scratch. Smile and enjoy the view.

 

[poikolim]

I do it all the time
https://www.lieuxdedrague.fr/fr/profil/poikolim

 

[flscribe]

I've been hit on a few times by gay men, and, truth be told, I'm always flattered. I could, however, see why it would be uncomfortable if it happened frequently. It gives me a better perspective about what women go through.

My favorite time was when I was in a Barnes & Noble and a guy sidled up to me at the magazine rack and started flirting subtly. Then he saw my wedding ring and started to apologize.

He told me I looked like a former boyfriend and he was hoping I was gay and single. I told him there was no need for apologies, and that I was flattered and slightly aroused (I have a mild bi side, which I didn't bring up), but not able to pursue anything further. (He wasn't my type.)

For a different side of the question, one of my dearest friends is a very attractive lesbian. Guys won't stop hitting on her, and she isn't quite ready to say she's systemically not interested. She confides in me, thinking I representative my entire heterosexual gender. I just apologize on behalf of men everywhere and change the subject.

I have told her I would be very interested in her if she were at all into men. She didn't seem bothered by that, even though it's almost directly parallel to a straight guy getting hit on by a gay guy.

 

[hjsimp_992]

Im subtle about it, strangers, some folks I work with. Worked out a couple times.

 

[USEDCAR]

I do all the time and most of the time i end up hooking up with them.


I never flirt with guys at the gym i'm usually in and out at the gym.

 

[Jacquemar]

I've hit on straight men.

This topic recently came up in the "Hot Pro Wrestling Thread." I've hit on a lot of straight guys, but in a very "nonthreatening" way. Comments about their abs, their cute faces, and their unparalleled ability to satisfy a woman, have gotten me something in return, including shirtless flexing... which is about all that I want.

It's fun. And the guys I've flirted with seem to think of my flirtation as a badge of honor... after all, gay guys only hit on the hottest of guys.

 

[gayvga]

Very good question.
It´s about time to review some attitudes of your community.
Gay men are also attractive, charming and intelligent.

 

[snakeeater1]

I’ve sucked off a lot of random men in various places and I never asked them if they were straight or gay, and I didn’t really care! If they wanted a blow job, then I was their man! I very seldom asked a man if he wanted a blow job, they usually asked me to suck their cock! .. And I did!…