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how many of you have a crush on other jub members?

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GL247 said:
^ oh honey i know. i'm just pulling his leg. ;)
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I'd get in line to pull his leg. :)


And his crush, now that I think of it. lol
 
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I'm pretty sure I would be filed into the "has a crush" category.
 
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huntneo said:
Sadly, I think a lot of us have a crush on the same damn person. #-o
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LOL And he's probably the type who is totally oblivious to what makes him really special.
 
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Here's what I don't understand.

Why do you guys let it grow into crushes. If you like someone on here then you should just forget about liking them as in a crush way and just be friends with them and not ever hope of meeting them.

Becuase the chances are you will never meet them. So what's the point in getting these crushes over the internet or having these internet relationships. They hardly work. Hell sometimes if someone is in your state it still won't even work. Nothing wrong with friendship though.
 
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gdude30 said:
Here's what I don't understand.

Why do you guys let it grow into crushes. If you like someone on here then you should just forget about liking them as in a crush way and just be friends with them and not ever hope of meeting them.

Becuase the chances are you will never meet them. So what's the point in getting these crushes over the internet or having these internet relationships. They hardly work. Hell sometimes if someone is in your state it still won't even work. Nothing wrong with friendship though.
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i think you're mistaking a 'school girl crush' over 'obsessing over' another member.

i won't deny that there are a number of members here who i find compelling that i just enjoy chatting with them and flirting all over the boards. but at no point do i think it will be anything more than the friendly banter it is.

and btw i've actually met a number of my crushes in real life. jub meets rock let me tell you. ;)
 
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Don't you wish it?

Flirting and all that shit is fun for a while. But at the end of the day you are at night alone just listening to music and looking at your empty bed.

I actually have considered that. But here is the thing. What if you fall in love with someone at the meet. You talk to them alot on JUB and enjoy being their friend. But then at a meet you realize, "...I love this man. I want to be with him."

We all lead our own lives. It's not like you can just drop everything and move in or have him move in with you.

...Especially if your going to college. And also with the way the economy is keeping a job is like keeping the ball and not letting go of it. Once you drop the ball and it breaks it's gone. The way things are going once you lose your job that's it. The economy is just so fucking up and this summer barely any place is hiring becuase of how shitty the economy is getting. The illegal immigrants aren't helping either. And fuck no one checks ID anymore or a person's background. I almost think an ID is pointless but I know it's just a "guideline"

Anyways the point is you meet someone at a JUB meet and then you will never see them again. I imagine that would be painful. It's always painful to say goodbye to someone and realizing you won't see them go away. Especially when you feel like there is nothing you can say to get them to stay becasue there really isn't. It's not easy to just drop everything and make it work out with someone who lives far away.

At least..that's what I think. I'm young so I don't know shit. I might be wrong and people go "LOLZ NO PROBLEM LETS LIVE TOGETHER. I'LL QUIT MY JOB, MOVE IN WITH YOU, AND FIND A NEW JOB AND WE LIVE TOGETHER HAPPY FOREVER :)"

But I somehow doubt that.

I almost think it's best not to go to one of these meets becuase you will never see that person agian.

..Sometimes someone in your own state is someone you may never meet either.

But that's almost saying like it's not better to love then to not love at all. And it is good at all. But it's not fun being getting your heartbroke. But I guess that's just something you have to deal with in life. And maybe we should all just get over the fact that someone we meet might be someone we will never meet again and just be strong and remember the good times.

And it probably is cowardly not to go to something like this in fear that you will meet someone whom you like and never see them again. And being a coward isn't something I don't want to be.

Eh. You have a point.
 
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I haven't had a crush since junior school and even then it only lasted for as long as break time.
 
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yes but i taint telling..... or else everyone else will be jealous
 
Re: how many of you have a crush on other jub memb

>>>any one who's in-shape and not gonna crush me literally, have a "crush" on me?

Oh, and be hot and rich, too. And young.

Lex
 
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>>>Anyways the point is you meet someone at a JUB meet and then you will never see them again.

And sometimes you meet a guy and fall in love, but what's the point in that since it might not work out? And even if it does, one of you is going to die first, leaving the other one alone, and there you are again.

I have friends across this country (and in several others). Some I see on a semi-regular basis. Some I haven't seen in person in years, and maybe never will in the flesh again. But they're still my friends. And I wouldn't have it any other way. Yeah, it'd be better if I could see them more often, but I'd rather have them as a "virtual" friend than not in my life at all.

Lex
 
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Transpogue said:
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Lolo---When they were in town---everyone in this video came by the gym I worked at back in the 80's---so, as for the crush---yes I have several.:cry:
 
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I have a crush on someone now :D

But I have realized that with travel things really are possible. Bus far is the cheapest and with meets and events and concerts all over the country there are excuses to go. "Dad I'm gonna go to Canada for a Pride Weekend and LA for Gay Days K" :D
 
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I find it very hard to form crushes via the comp because you can't see people and to me I mean that physical attraction is the main difference between a friendship and a crush
 
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Kennyworth said:
Something happens, it happens,It don't , it don't.

Have fun just the same though.
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I agree, and the way I see it: If you fancy someone, tell them. You aren't friends beforehand, so you have nothing to lose. If anything, you can get a new friend! When I see a guy I think is cute here, I send a PM. If I don't get a response I just shrug it off, but sometimes I do and we chat. :D

(I had a big thing for Puka-Pride (god he's cute!!), but he didn't answer my PM, so I let it go. :P)
 
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G-Lexington said:
>>>any one who's in-shape and not gonna crush me literally, have a "crush" on me?

Oh, and be hot and rich, too. And young.

Lex
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Oh, and have a very large, preferably circumcised dick. ..|
 
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