How many sexual partners have you had in 2013, lifetime?

[dereperez]

I don't kiss and tell.

 

[Pickwick]

For you guys that put up the big numbers-How often do you see the same guy twice or for a long while? It seems the excitement is in the new hook-up. Do you you talk to the people much or have an objective of finding a regular partner. Not being judgmental, just curious about the psychology involved because it is so different from mine. I could keep a shrink busy myself My criteria are too limiting to find many guys.

I can see the same guy for a while if I feel good with him but as long as their are no real feelings involved that doesn't provide me to see other random meaningless guys and I can be in love with guys I don't fuck with so I just keep my body in shape with other random meaningless guys. I'm not an animal so I'm basically able to speak... but it depends I had relations with guys that I didn't even know the name neither before nor after... But I cant say that I'm not looking for more than that (meaning "regular partner" or better simply a boyfriend)

 

[Pickwick]

I can see the same guy for a while if I feel good with him but as long as their are no real feelings involved that doesn't provide me to see other random meaningless guys and I can be in love with guys I don't fuck with so I just keep my body in shape with other random meaningless guys. I'm not an animal so I'm basically able to speak... but it depends I had relations with guys that I didn't even know the name neither before nor after... But I cant say that I'm not looking for more than that (meaning "regular partner" or better simply a boyfriend)

I meant prevent....

 

[gulfer]

2013: 9
Lifetime: 10

I have had only one serious boyfriend, thus the small gap. After breaking up last year, it took a few months until I was ready to start having sex with other people.

 

[eastofeden]

56, Gay

This year...One...Last Year...One...going 20 + years back....One...

Lifetime...500-750 men...hard to count the exact amount.

 

[eastofeden]

An old fart like me?
This year...zero
Lifetime...Believe me....you DON"T want to know.....

I do!

 

[bruce379]

I can see the same guy for a while if I feel good with him but as long as their are no real feelings involved that doesn't provide me to see other random meaningless guys and I can be in love with guys I don't fuck with so I just keep my body in shape with other random meaningless guys. I'm not an animal so I'm basically able to speak... but it depends I had relations with guys that I didn't even know the name neither before nor after... But I cant say that I'm not looking for more than that (meaning "regular partner" or better simply a boyfriend)

There are repeat offenders and I like them better of course. But even with the repeat offenders, I've accounted for them. That's why I said conservatively. If I was living in Williamsburg, the numbers would be much higher

 

[bruce379]

I don't kiss and tell.

I bet you're one of those guys who've hit the 1000 mark. Hey, you can do BOTH guys and girls, right?

 

[bruce379]

This year: Zero
Lifetime: Zero

I checked out CO on Craigslist. It seems you guys are busy there too. You should join in

 

[bruce379]

Thank you ! That's surely what people call "French Humor"...
You should have know that you are not alone a long time ago living in Brooklyn ! Between us, it's full of guys like us in Paris... One last thing, I've seen so many dicks that past 15 years, I believe I can stop having sex right now and in forty years I would still have an average above the average.....

That's for sure. A straight guy would have a hard time coming up with that number.

 

[jmadaf]

three men and two shemales 2013. Lifetime more men or girls with cock at least two a year, I'm fifty, women 5 lifetime.

 

[ravenstar]

For you guys that put up the big numbers-How often do you see the same guy twice or for a long while? It seems the excitement is in the new hook-up. Do you you talk to the people much or have an objective of finding a regular partner. Not being judgmental, just curious about the psychology involved because it is so different from mine. I could keep a shrink busy myself My criteria are too limiting to find many guys.

Given that most of my sexual activity was one nighters during my clubbing days I rarely if ever saw the same guy twice. It's not something I'm either proud of or ashamed of. It just is. My criteria back then was "oh you're drunk and horny and it's last call and you're paying me attention, sure, let's go play."

I guess I could go off on some "low self esteem/depression" bullshit and to be honest once that was sorted the 1 nighters stopped but that's a cop out.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

Geez. I feel like a slut seeing such low numbers If I'm not mistaken, according to one scientific study reported by Time, for straight people: women have 9 sexual partners in their entire lifetime while men have 17 on average (Do correct me if I'm wrong, I can't recall the issue anymore. It was posted either early this year or last year, I can't remember exactly anymore.) I don't know what the averages are for gay guys because there has never been a scientific survey to determine it thus far.

When I considered myself straight, I had only 1 partner.

In 2013: 90 conservatively
lifetime: close to 300 (past 10 years)

Maybe because I'm in NYC? I know some guys here who hit 100/year and has clocked 500+ already and they're less than 30y.o. never mind the 30+ y.o.

We need a bigger sample size. Five people is not enough to draw statistical trend lines.

100 sexual partners in one year? There are only 365 days a year, 52 weeks a year. I mean this with no offense at all but 100 a year is a slut

How many of your 90 are different people?

 

[Pickwick]

three men and two shemales 2013. Lifetime more men or girls with cock at least two a year, I'm fifty, women 5 lifetime.

3 men+ 2 shemales= 5men sorry no offense... and "girls with cock" are men too....

 

[bruce379]

100 sexual partners in one year? There are only 365 days a year, 52 weeks a year. I mean this with no offense at all but 100 a year is a slut

Sorry. It's been a productive year for me this year I've had some years where I only average 20 guys/year but ever since I've had a little more time away from work meant I had more time to spend at sex parties and such.

Look up "Hunting Season" and watch it. It gives a more or less realistic view of the gay subculture in NYC. I hope they come out with a second season.
http://www.pornhub.com/gay/video/search?search=hunting+season
Start with Hunting Season 1 obviously. I hope the links still work - they were, as of this writing.
To give you an idea, I think H.S.8 shows a production set that is similar to one of the locations of the sex party I last went to.

It's unbelievable for most people, but there are some guys who hook up more often than me. Consider the many apps at gay/bi/curious/straight guys' disposal: Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, BoyAhoy... but wait! There's more!

I gave up Grindr early this year, but damn, if spider-sense was anything like gaydar, Spiderman would have a permanent hard-on. You can't walk the streets of Manhattan without some gay/bi guy appearing on your Grindr (or whatever gay finding app you might have) that's <20 ft. away.

There's a weekly lunchtime sex party for businessmen on their lunchbreak somewhere in Manhattan (I'm not making this up). There's a monthly sex party (actually several sex parties) somewhere in Brooklyn. Not to mention horny guys posting on craigslist and adam4adam. These are places where Jews and Muslims actually coexist very very enjoyably in such close proximity, they suck and fuck each other to orgasm Love your fellow men is followed here to the letter If all men in the Middle East were only gay, there would be no conflict in that part of the world.

How many of your 90 are different people?

I'd say they are different people. I tried eliminating the double count/repeats.

 

[Pickwick]

Sorry. It's been a productive year for me this year I've had some years where I only average 20 guys/year but ever since I've had a little more time away from work meant I had more time to spend at sex parties and such.

Look up "Hunting Season" and watch it. It gives a more or less realistic view of the gay subculture in NYC. I hope they come out with a second season.
http://www.pornhub.com/gay/video/search?search=hunting+season
Start with Hunting Season 1 obviously. I hope the links still work - they were, as of this writing.
To give you an idea, I think H.S.8 shows a production set that is similar to one of the locations of the sex party I last went to.

It's unbelievable for most people, but there are some guys who hook up more often than me. Consider the many apps at gay/bi/curious/straight guys' disposal: Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, BoyAhoy... but wait! There's more!

I gave up Grindr early this year, but damn, if spider-sense was anything like gaydar, Spiderman would have a permanent hard-on. You can't walk the streets of Manhattan without some gay/bi guy appearing on your Grindr (or whatever gay finding app you might have) that's <20 ft. away.

There's a weekly lunchtime sex party for businessmen on their lunchbreak somewhere in Manhattan (I'm not making this up). There's a monthly sex party (actually several sex parties) somewhere in Brooklyn. Not to mention horny guys posting on craigslist and adam4adam. These are places where Jews and Muslims actually coexist very very enjoyably in such close proximity, they suck and fuck each other to orgasm Love your fellow men is followed here to the letter If all men in the Middle East were only gay, there would be no conflict in that part of the world.



I'd say they are different people. I tried eliminating the double count/repeats.

It's like in Paris, Straight guys are on extinction process, now I understand why the Jew area in Paris has come the Gay area tday thanks !! ... By the way this year was the most quite as I moved back in Mauritius and it is not that easy to find guys here given that sodomy is illegal and homosexuality is "not welcome" everywhere...

 

[bruce379]

It's like in Paris, Straight guys are on extinction process, now I understand why the Jew area in Paris has come the Gay area tday thanks !! ... By the way this year was the most quite as I moved back in Mauritius and it is not that easy to find guys here given that sodomy is illegal and homosexuality is "not welcome" everywhere...

Omg. Those Algerian and Moroccan guys are so hot! Such beautiful cocks and bubble butts!

Quick! Haul your ass back to Paris! I bet you'd have to milk your own cock 5 times a day because of the lack of a sexual outlet

 

[Pickwick]

Omg. Those Algerian and Moroccan guys are so hot! Such beautiful cocks and bubble butts!

Quick! Haul your ass back to Paris! I bet you'd have to milk your own cock 5 times a day because of the lack of a sexual outlet

Well I surely muscle my right hand... But "illegal" doesn't mean "impossible" and I'm for more better here than in Paris so even if it takes some sacrifices it's ok I had plenty of very very very good times already... And I'm gonna go back to Europe for holiday soon so I'm not scared...
I remember one of my best fuck buddy (I can even say that he was the best) is Moroccan... My Goodness he has one of the most beautiful cock I've ever seen, we used to have sex five time in a row each times wee would see each other and he fucked like a god !! He lives in California now............

 

[sweet_taboo]

Lifetime: most certainly less than 50...but almost all have been repeat offenders.
This year: only one (1).

 

[LuckysRevenge]

I lived the last 2 years in bushwick and the previous 6 in manhattan.
I know how many opportunities there are.
Doesn't mean I had the time or desire to fuck 2 different guys every week but hey, that's impressive!

U go girl