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How many times have you been in love?

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Boredd

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I've fallen in love once during my senior year in high school. It didn't work out because we went different paths after graduation. Its been five years since and I haven't fallen in love with anyone else. I've gone on dates and met new people but theres just no connection. I feel like I'm still hung up over him and I don't know what to do.

I'm getting a little worried I'll probably never fall in love again because I'm might be still in love with him. Has anyone ever been in this situation? And how do you get out of it? If not, just share your stories, I'm quite curious.

When I talk about falling in love, I mean head over heels in love, not just a mild attraction or a crush.
 
Oh, EVERY SINGLE DAY...looking in the mirror! ;)

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The first time I thought I was in love, but in was one sided and I was being used.

So once and it is with the man I am with today.

Time heals, but 5 years seems to be quite some time. For me it is hard to make a suggestion on how to get over someone because people are different and I feel like no matter how many suggestions people make in the end you're the one who has to move on. You just have to find way to not fixate on those feelings so much. If it was your first love, maybe that is why you're fiixated on it? Either way you're going to have to kick yourself in the ass and force yourself to enjoy other people because that relationship is done and it didn't work out. That isn't changing.

By the time frame given, it seems like you're in your early 20's, with all the years ahead of you and the people you'll meet it will be such a waste if you let feelings of someone from high school to get in the way of the possibility of another great relationship.
 
rrr 24/7
_but is no orchestra music in sky or disney toons singin ans stuff_
just case a folk ask Q do a disney toons ans orches tra play wen ya a love

thankyou
 
Eh...I thought I was in love a lot of times in my life but now that I have been with the man I truly love now for a long time...I understand that I didn't have much of a clue what love was before....
 
Once.

the first time was a farce.

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eastofeden said:
Eh...I thought I was in love a lot of times in my life but now that I have been with the man I truly love now for a long time...I understand that I didn't have much of a clue what love was before....
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exactly.
 
Three times...

First time was Vincent, my first love..
Second time was Dave, my now-ex .
Third time is PreTTy PeTe! :D
 
Twice. Not exactly looking for a third right now, other things to look forward to.
 
Once, from 17 until present, even though he's no longer here.
 
Twice, and I have never stopped loving them either. Our relationships are different but my first lover is now my closest friend for whom I would lay down my life. The second may have harmed me emotionally beyond repair but he was pardoned the day he parted and the occasions that we do see each other have become exceptionally special.
 
Once and it will only ever be once.
 
Boredd said:
I've fallen in love once during my senior year in high school. It didn't work out because we went different paths after graduation. Its been five years since and I haven't fallen in love with anyone else. I've gone on dates and met new people but theres just no connection. I feel like I'm still hung up over him and I don't know what to do.

I'm getting a little worried I'll probably never fall in love again because I'm might be still in love with him. Has anyone ever been in this situation? And how do you get out of it? If not, just share your stories, I'm quite curious.

When I talk about falling in love, I mean head over heels in love, not just a mild attraction or a crush.
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Sounds to me like you're trying to control when, and with whom, you fall in love. But love doesn't work that way. And yes, it does seem you might not be over your high school sweetheart, try to look him up and start a convo..... he may not be over you either.

Your only other real option is to just live your life and let the cards fall where they may.
 
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