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how often to hang out?

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met another nice young man, both attracted to each other, hung out a few times and became friends - similar interests and personality, flirted majorly, eventually he made move, we had fun.

i've been initiating the getting together but hes made every other move, and has always been receptive to my social invitations. (perhaps likes being pursued)

how often is good to extend social invitations to have friendly sex in that sort of situation? i know it varies, but some input is useful. both of us are busy but flexible.
 
Ah. I thought you meant, "How often should we hang out?", but I see it's just the sex you're concerned about.

Maybe once every 3 days? Sounds like a plan to me!

You could hump, store it up for 2 days, and then get back at it!

Good Luck!

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Oh I was referring to the same thing... hang out and have sex too. but latter is more important :)

what I'm asking is what's an apporpriate amount to contact somebody in this circumstnace.. i know people in relationships try to see each other everyday but that gets smothering...thanks for the advice, twice a week sounds reasonable and still spacey.
 
at the bigging you may find out everyday is to much for one of you. You can feel that out. but a call to him, invite for lunch, every other day I think would be cool, make some plans for the weekend, schedules permitting. maybe a arrange a overnighter some where that you can plan out. Asked him if its ok to call him if you start seeing excuses back off a bit.

but this varys ALOT with everyone. I met my b/f hitchhiking on a rainy day after getting kicked out of house at 18. He picked me up and gave me place to dry off , eat a warm meal and a warm dry bed. NO SEX REQUIRED

next day we went out to eat and partied a bit and came home and just slept together no sex .

next night we just got nasty in bed. But I never left ater I fallen head over heals for him and I still am.

been together 24yrs now. My first b/f and my last. so it can happen.
 
If you are always initiating the "getting together" I would just do that once a week. Try to see if he wants to initiate sometimes. If he just doesn't like to be the one to initiate, but still wants to meet more than once per week, then you can initiate more often.

My point is give him a chance to initiate things, he might want to.
 
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