How old is too old?

[Willie Boy]

And what the hell is a "chilf?"

I was wondering the same thing myself! Maybe its just that I'm not into the whole gay clubbing scene (and never have been), but I don't get many of these freakish labels that gays seem to have for each other.

 

[bmwducatirider]

A lot of young guys are looking for maturity and stability. At 61, I finally gave up on trying to make my marriage work. My lawyer told me I either deserved a medal or a dunce hat.

For some reason most of the guys that hit on me are in their 30's. Oldest was 42 and his previous longtime partner was 35 years older than him. Youngest was 24. That did not work. Currently building a relationship with a 33 year old guy.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Uh, I just looked up what "chilf" meant and it came up with:

Child I'd Like To Fuck

And son1fan, the OP, wrote this:

i used to be all twiinks and chilfs

WTF?

 

[DonSade]

As old as your desires fancy... provided they're not non-consenting aged teenagers or children... if you like the latter I strongly suggest you seek psychiatric treatment: YOU ARE SICK!

 

[Willie Boy]

Uh, I just looked up what "chilf" meant and it came up with:

Child I'd Like To Fuck

And son1fan, the OP, wrote this:



WTF?

The thing to remember is that the original poster is not yet 21 years of age. He said he used to be into chilfs. I would take this to mean (as would any rational, thinking individual) that back when he was into chilfs he was still a ch himself. When you put it into context (a child wanting to have sex with a child) it isn't quite so evil. If my reasoning is incorrect and the OP meant that at 19 he wanted children, then yes it is way creepy.

 

[BAMA32]

Still, a ch screwing a ch is pretty messed up. I guess if ch=16 or something along those lines, maybe its not that creepy. Reminds me of a time when this gal I knew was babysitting these two kids, both under 10. And they were simulating sex on the sofa because that is what they saw on TV. Disturbing. This whole thread has some disturbing imagery. :/

 

[Lube]

^ Kids mimicking adult sex is like 2 gays mimicking lesbian sex: it means nothing to them. Simply mimicry.

Sex is a totally normal human experience, and the American way of shielding kids from it is ridiculous.

Now if the babysitter was trying to have sex with the kids, that's totally different.

 

[Willie Boy]

In the term chilf the ch stands for child. Technically by the age of 16, one is no longer a child but a teen. Therefore a child fucking a child would be between two preteens (like a 12 year old fucking an 11 year old). A teen fucking a child would be messed up. Most children look up to teens and want to emulate them, much like they do with adults. Thus a teen/child relationship would carry a similar feel of coersion (intended or not) that an adult/child relationship does. Even if the child believes he/she is willing, there is no way to be certain.

 

[Just_Believe18]

My impression is if he meant teens when he was a teen himself, he would stick with the terminology of twink. Chilf sounds way too creepy, and I hope son1fan is one of the few that has adopted that word to their lingo.

 

[BAMA32]

^ Kids mimicking adult sex is like 2 gays mimicking lesbian sex: it means nothing to them. Simply mimicry.

Perhaps. They were a bit young to be exploring sexuality in that manner, or be exposed to it. At least in my opinion. There are differing views on this, and I'll admit that the conception of waiting till they at least enter puberty versus wide open exposure doesn't have a right answer at this time.

 

[Willie Boy]

My impression is if he meant teens when he was a teen himself, he would stick with the terminology of twink. Chilf sounds way too creepy, and I hope son1fan is one of the few that has adopted that word to their lingo.

You have to remember he said when he was younger. When someone uses that phrase they aren't talking weeks or even months, they mean years. As he is only twenty now, he was most likely talking about his early to mid teens.

 

[tallguy297]

Guys, I agree that this sounds a little strange... but given the age of the OP and the context he used - "used to be" I suspect he means younger guys like himself...

Until son1fan comes back in and clarifies this a little - and it would be greatly appreciated that you did mate - lets not let our imaginations get too far ahead of reality here hey... After all a MILF or a DILF can mean almost anything... these terms are pretty loosely used...