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How open to an open relationship are you?

How open are you to an open relationship

  • Never in a million years

    Votes: 21 46.7%

  • I'd give it a shot, but only with the right guy

    Votes: 16 35.6%

  • I won't be in a relationship unless it's open

    Votes: 7 15.6%

  • I plan to be single for life

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • Total voters
    45
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At this point in my life I can't see myself getting into a relationship in unless it's open. What say you?
 
It's the only type of relationship I can see myself in. That or none.

And I am in one, for the last 10 years.

I see it as the best way to be honest, for the best way to insure the relationship will last.
 
I am in a non open relationship and if he were to stray and told me about it I think I would be fine with it as long as there were no emotional or financial attachments to that person. I don't think monogamy is essential when you love a person. Sometimes part of loving them is to let them be who they are and for some that means sex with more than one person.
 
I'm in an open relationship. I doubt I will ever want to be with someone who would want me to only have sex with him, ever, for the rest of my life.

I think people should keep in mind there are many different approaches and kinds of open relationships.
 
I’d want my partner to be happy. If we talked about it and that is what they would really want I would try it out for them. It would be one sided though. I have no interest in having more than one sex partner at a time on a regular basis.


For the “right” people though I would be willing to enter a poly relationship. I almost did a while back.
 
Not at all. If we're not enough for one another, we're not right one another.
 
I've had a few. It made my last serious relationship difficult though. He was bad in bed and he had a ridiculously small penis, like in the three inch area and I'm a bottom so regular sex just didn't happen and he was god awful at oral. So I eventually just stopped sleeping with him all together and I was getting it else where. The problem was, I was out getting mine and he kept trying and striking out and not getting any at all.
 
saymyname said:
I'm in an open relationship. I doubt I will ever want to be with someone who would want me to only have sex with him, ever, for the rest of my life.

I think people should keep in mind there are many different approaches and kinds of open relationships.
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I think you raise a very valid point in the second sentence, that should be underscored.
 
Open relationships require two people who are thinking on the same wavelength.

Both have to be incredibly open and not jealous...

I couldn't do that.....
 
I might be able to make it work, but I'd have to feel comfortable with the guy.

Lex
 
I would go for it as long as it was an occasional thing.Otherwise,if you need to be dragging home tricks all the time,what's the sense of being in a relationship?

Likewise, I would never expect anyone to be hooked on my dick for the rest of their life.If everyonce in a while, they wanted some strange, go ahead..As long as they come home, and aren't a whore about it,what do I care.It's just sex,and most guys really arent that good at it anyways.Just wrap it before you pack it,don't bring home no critters or drips,and I won't get too hung up on it..

But an all day,everyday,open relationship thing,ahh, probably not..

My sex drive has dropped off considerably from when I was in my 20's. We probably would only get sweaty once or twice a week.The rest of the time,leave me alone,I'm trying to sleep.lol.I really am not interested in spending half my life chasing ass around.I would wanna be with someone who has kinda mellowed too.So,if it happened at all(third party) it would have to be a rare occurance..
 
I just wouldn't understand the point in being in a relationship anyway? Walking around having no strings attached sex does not sit well with me, protected or no.

So I'm not very open to it.
 
No. I really have no interest in casual sex, that's just not the nature of my desires, and I would resent being with a partner who wanted that. I wouldn't think that they were a bad person; we just wouldn't be a match. So, no. I would not be interested in an open relationship. I would say that the right people could interest me in a more poyfidelitous relationship or maybe even a primary/etc. partners model, which would include multiple people, but still be based on emotional intimacy and sexual fidelity. If my guy was going to be involved with someone else, I would want to meet them and at least be friendly with them, rather than have him running around with random tricks - that would bother me. I prefer monogamy though.

I think it's fine that there are people who would only want an open relationship. I think they should be up front about it though, because it would be a huge problem for us.
 
i couldnt be in a purely monogamous relationship. wether its just some nsa sex every once in a while or full blown polyamory, there has to be at least some openness.
 
It makes for some excellent fantasy, so in theory yes I would consider it. But I have yet to encounter any real-world situation that comes close to meeting my requirements, and I'm not expecting to find that.
 
Long ago I was brought home as the extra cog in the gears for a couples 3-way. We hooked up a few times and the result was, I was in he was out. The 3 way became a 2 way.
It wasn't my intention to get involved and fuck them up nor was it my intention to fall in love with one of them. Just some casual fun.
I am not keen on what can happen with open relationships but over time I didn't expect my lover to stay 100% sexually with me, as long as its not over done. I'm hardly a angel myself but I love him dearly so it works for us.
But even if your sex drives are not equal it will still come to ego, jealousy, & trust which will be tested and you never know truly if you will be the next out with a new one in.
Its dangerously thin ice to walk on even for twiggy.
 
Kennylingus said:
...He was bad in bed and he had a ridiculously small penis, like in the three inch area and I'm a bottom so regular sex just didn't happen and he was god awful at oral. So I eventually just stopped sleeping with him all together and I was getting it else where. The problem was, I was out getting mine and he kept trying and striking out and not getting any at all.
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Well, damn! I want to ask several questions about this situation, but I'll resist the temptation.

Gotta type this again, though: Damn!
 
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