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How open to an open relationship are you?

How open are you to an open relationship

  • Never in a million years

    Votes: 21 46.7%

  • I'd give it a shot, but only with the right guy

    Votes: 16 35.6%

  • I won't be in a relationship unless it's open

    Votes: 7 15.6%

  • I plan to be single for life

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • Total voters
    45
huntneo said:
I'm no open to it at all. And I've not dated or been in a relationship with anyone who liked the idea either.

I used to be severely opposed to it, but after talking to others and getting a good viewpoint on it, I just say to each their own. If it works for YOU, and you enjoy it. Have fun!
It would take some long hard thinking for me to try it with my boyfriend. And even then, he doesn't want anything like that.



damn. That's fucked up.

Just thought I'd quote you so others can see the reality of some issues that can arise from open relationships.
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Hey huntneo, have you never had a fantasy where you're just surrounded by naked men on every side, with you in the middle enjoying their lust?

I don't think it is a shameful fantasy, and I wouldn't think less of my guy if he saw his place in the same fantasy. I would be happy to leave it at that, leave it in the imagination, but I would not think less of either of us if the right situation presented itself. Not looking for it to happen but hell it is a good fantasy...

(PS - not calling you out or starting a debate, just wondering)
 
huntneo said:
I've had fantasies...but none quite like that.

I mean I still see hot guys that I think...it would be nice to do (insert random sex act) to him, but I leave it at that. In the end, it wouldn't do much for me because that guy isn't my boyfriend. The initial thought can be hot, but it doesn't go much further than that.
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Actually, I said that a little too casually. I would not think less of either of us for having the fantasy, but I would be very skeptical of the reality.. I see too many ways for it to end up going very badly.

However, at least in principle, I don't deny that some situation could possibly appeal to me to actually try. In theory...in theory....
 
I would prefer monogamy, but wouldn't completely shut the door to an open relationship.
 
I'd like to be able to mess around with a guy in my relationship, but I don't want my gf to. This is a double standard I know. I am open to it, but it'll never happen or work. I'm too jealous.
 
My partner and I would't still be together if the relationship weren't open. It's one of the many things that makes the relationship work.
 
As long as I know that they are coming home to me, then I think I would be OK about it.

That being said, I wouldn't want to be with someone who was slutting themselves around 24/7, but every now and then I wouldn't mind it.... its all about mixing it up and having fun. If that means fucking around with someone else then thats A-OK.
 
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