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How open was your dad with nudity and affection ?

not open at all, in fact i hate the guy, the most closed minded individual on this earth, so i think/thought. I guess im happy he was a closed minded son of a B---- cause im exactly the opposite :P
cheers everyone
 
I never saw my dad naked but when I was small it was bear hugs and kisses all the time until I was a teenager and put a stop to it.

Later, when I came out to him, I was suddenly ok with him hugging me again and it became part of our greeting ritual.
 
My dad was paralyzed so I often saw him naked... bathing, changing, etc... Was never a problem for either of us.

I never came out to him as he was extremely homophobic.
 
My dad was not affectionate. I wish he had been. Still, I know he loved me. I sometimes saw my dad naked, but never thought it was any big deal.
 
I don't want to give my thoughts. But I want you to know that I agree.

We humans these days are really stupid...

Too bad I'm one of them... BUT seriously. I never knew my dad and I would never never never have ever want to be naked with any family member or friend even if its just out of plain friendliness. You know what mean... Actually. I messed up what I mean't tp say. Oh well.
 
My dad was a prude about nudity and sexuality. And he rarely hugged me.

Now that he is older (80's), he takes great pleasure in hugging all of his kids every time he sees us. Its nice. I guess I like it. But sometimes it feels kinda late.
 
It's not so much my dad isn't affectionate with me but I bever am with him... I can't don't know why. And as for seeing him naked I'd rather not... definatly.
 
My dad is very affectionate. Since we were children (my brothers and I) dad always hugged and kissed us. To this day I hug my brothers when we see one another. Dad always thought it important to love one another because as a child and later as an adult, his own father was adverse to such contact. Don't get me wrong, he loved my dad and all of his other children, grandfather just wasn't one to show his affections in that way.
 
when i grew up, my father didnt like me at all, he despised me and I havnt yet found out why, i remember i got the odd one or two hugs every week, but that stopped by the time i was 10, from then on he treated me like dirt, by 14 i was fed up and wanted to die because of him, there was hardly any affection, i got more hugs and kisses off one of my best friends ( shes a girl ) and it was so nice to have someone love me like she did, but i dont talk to my dad now, when we see eachother we dont even say hello, i just ignore him now and still get on with my mum very well.
 
I grew up in the 50-60's. My dad was a commerical fisherman which means the family wouldn't see him days at a time. ususally 7-10. When he came home from the fishing trip it was known he loved us. I can't remember him ever hugging as an olded teenager but there was no doubt he did.

as for being in our birthday suits, never happened, a towel wrapped around was what we would do
 
My dad and I showered together when I was a little kid. Generally, when I was younger, nudity didn't mean much to my folks and I if we were changing or showering.

Of course, now, my parents don't like to be seen by me nor I by them, but whenever I do happen to be naked around them, like I'm coming out of the showering or changing in my room and they knock and I act embrassed or go to cover myself, my dad tells me to stop freaking out because he's seen me naked before.

As for affection, my dad loved me, but he was always one of those stoic/silent types. I just don't think acting all lovey was his thing. But we still had fun, like he'd pick me up so I could 'fly' or he'd tickle me or something. Nowadays, he tells me he loves me a lot more than he did when I was a kid.
 
anallover said:
when i grew up, my father didnt like me at all, he despised me and I havnt yet found out why, i remember i got the odd one or two hugs every week, but that stopped by the time i was 10, from then on he treated me like dirt, by 14 i was fed up and wanted to die because of him, there was hardly any affection, i got more hugs and kisses off one of my best friends ( shes a girl ) and it was so nice to have someone love me like she did, but i dont talk to my dad now, when we see eachother we dont even say hello, i just ignore him now and still get on with my mum very well.
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Sorry to hear that about your father. Whatever his reason was it can't be good enough. Probably his own issues prevent him from seeing what a great son he has.
 
Okay well I'll admit I am probably the worlds worst about this. Hug mom, yes, hug sister, yes, hug brothers or dad? Kinda?

we usually do the shake with the right hand and hug with the left hand. And that's about as much affection as the men in my family show. As a matter of fact, now that I think about it, my rodeo buddies and I do the same thing.

NO FULL FRONTAL HUGS FOR ME PLEASE! thanks for obliging.

Dirk
 
MY parents will never see me naked:) my dad is in his late 30s, If he was like 70, I would have no problem but he's old enough to be a brother.

My father and I chat often about sports, girls and etc. I dont want to hug my father, ewww
 
My Dad's father was very absent emotionally so he never learned how to be affectionate with other men. As a result I get a handshake instead of a hug unless it has been a long time or I did something that made him really proud. I can't recall ever kissing him, even when I was little. The nudity thing was neutral - I stopped showering with him when I was like 4 and since then he has neither taught me to appreciate the male form nor to be embarrassed by it.
 
cuervoazul said:
...VERY IMPORTANT: Not all mexicans have the "Soy-Muy-Macho-And-I-Don't-Care" mentality anymore, gracias a Dios that's changing and going away for good.
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not as fast as i'de like to see it go, but it's better than nothing.

mi apa is the same as yours. to my nephews he's the sweetest old man on the planet. he's not affectionate, but you know he loves you by the way he behaves. he's protective and always there for me or anyone of us whenever we need it. for those two, i think he's a good man.

nudity was also a no. we showered together when i was little, but it was also because we-need-to-hurry or don't-waste-time-thing. if i had to guess, i think that the last time was when i was three or four years old. he was never naked in any other way, ever. not even shirtless.
 
Christopher123 said:
It's funny now that this is brought up, I can't recall one time my father ever hugged me. Then later in life he disowned me altogether.

So there's my answer.
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thats horrible (*8*) (*8*)

my entire family hugs and all that stuff whenever we visit and leave its really annyoying trying to get on the bus
 
its funny how even a simle question can bring out the prudeness of people--

"eww I would not like to see my dad naked ever, thank you"

"I find it weird to be paring these two subjects in one thread"

"nudity around the house...no way"

cmon people! this isnt a incest question, nor does it pertain to incest or anything like it, he wanted to know how open your dad was with nudity and affection...

god I don't know how many times while growing up that I saw my father naked, or that he saw me naked. camping trips, family outings, sure we showered together no big deal. god, my dad even walked in on me countless times jacking off, (should have locked the door). we were brought up to believe that nudity ISNT a bad thing like so many people seem to think nowdays. and affection ran rampant in our house, hugs kisses were a part of everyday life. judging by some of the responses, there must have been alot of unhappy childhoods. god Im glad I was raised in a loving family!

you know, the only thing I do regret seeing.... was the fact that my dad had a uncut cock and I was circumsized!!
 
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