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How should I respond to his actions???

FukinSeksi said:
Later on he was feeling extremely horny! All he kept telling me was how horny he was. Once again, I asked "Well what do you wanna do about it??" He said he didn't know.
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#1 Rule when dealing with a closeted guy:
Don't ask if he's gay.
Don't talk about homosexuality
Just do it!

Talking about it is the last thing he wants. Admitting he's gay is also a no-no (at least at this point). He'll only admit it after he's consummated the relationship.
 
Back with just a little update! haven't seen him in a couple days but we talk everyday. He asked why I haven't came over and I told him I've been busy with work [which I have]. He said "Are you fucking somebody?" I said "Nope. The person I wanna have sex with is playing games". He laughed and said "I'm not playing games. You of all people should know I don't play". I said "Well what's taking so long for you to give me what I want?" He said "You don't ask me for it. How am I supposed to know you want it". I kept it at that. Hopefully I'll see him this weekend. I just don't get how he says I don't ask him for sex when I throw it at him all the time.
 
^ Because you're using words. He needs action!

Grab him and hug him. Kiss him. If all goes well, grab his ass & crotch. Show him you want him. You must take the lead. He is too chicken. He may grow out of it, but how long do you want to wait? (It took me over 40 years. I hope no one was waiting on me! Although, come to think of it, I think a couple of guys in HS & grad school were. :( )
 
OH MY GOD.

Reading your updates is so frustrating!

He's a closet case, plain and simple. This is new territory for him - he's scared shitless, and needs YOU to make the move.

The ball's not in his court, it's in yours. In fact, I don't care whose court it's in, since the balls should've been in your mouths 5 posts ago.

Just take the advice everyone's given you: Kiss him, undress him, make sweet, sweet, jackrabbit lovin' to him. And use protection.

I swear, the next update better be JUICY... ](*,)
 
Back with another update. Please don't kill me for this! lol. I finally saw him yesterday after a 2 week hiatus. He called me saying that he missed me and wanted to see me. I told him that I'll come over later. I get to his house and everything is going good for the time being until he asks me "so why haven't I seen you?" I told him I was busy with work and everything. He gives me this "yea right!" face and goes to get him something to drink. He came back and sat on the bed watching his nephew and brother play a game. I took his phone and started listening to the music on it and all of a sudden I see a text message from a girl scroll across the screen saying how much she loves him and wants to be with him. I'm reading their conversation and I see that he's saying the same shit to her. Naturally I got pissed the fuck off. His brother and nephew were kind of walking in and out the room so when they left I said "Who is this girl right here?" He got speechless and said it was "Nobody" and that it "Wasn't even like that". I said "You gonna play me for this female?" He closed his door because he knew we were about to argue. He said "Well if you wasn't busy all the fuckin time maybe I wouldn't have to go be with somebody else!" I told him I'm never busy, besides working. Then he said "Well I'm not fucking her! I don't even know her like that!" Right when I was about to say something his nephew walked back in the room to finish playing the game. I'm sitting on his bed mad as fuck! He was laying on the other side trying to explain how it wasn't what it seemed and that I see one thing I don't like and flip out. I said "If you wanna be with her you could. I'm not gonna trip off you anymore. She can have you". He says "I'm not with her. Stop assuming shit all the time. Do you want me to fuck her?!" I told him it wasn't in my control to say anything and that it was up to him. He says "It is up to you! You can have me but you don't have time for me but you have time for these other dudes out here." I told him the only person I was talking to was him. I started getting mad because he's trying to turn the tables so I grabbed my shit and was headed out the door. He go to the door saying "You not leaving until we finish this! Go put your stuff back in the room" Here we are going back and forth again. I told him that I wasn't about to chase him because he's playing too many games right now. He said "I'm not playing games". I left it at that and went home mad. Haven't heard from him yet, but it's only 8:30am. I'm starting to just wanna be friends with him now but I think my emotions is too deep into him now. What am I doing wrong here?! I'm taking advice and trying to do what you guys are saying but when I get the courage, he does a complete fucking turnaround.
 
.... a complete turn around saying its your move? Dude, seriously, you're both jealous, you're both bitching at each other for not doing anything and you're both angry because of it! I'll say, DO SOMETHING! Right now, it's the ONLY thing you have to do! DO IT! Stop over-thinking stuff around him, stop questioning it. He's obviously not going to do it, and he's been flatout honest to you about it... not everyone has that privilege. I don't know why he's holding back though... maybe he's afraid you might not really want it, or perhaps just scared of himself? But its clear he wants you... be more eloquent, speak complete sentences, tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about it. Heck, throw the love word on him "Do you love me?" just do something for gods sake! Stop running around the dead horse for once! It's ridiculous! You've mustered enough courage to actually fight about the girls... I don't see why you wouldn't have it to finally do something other than talk...

Next time, receive him with a kiss on the lips... he'll greatly appreciate it... and trust me, YOU will too. :gogirl: What's the worst that could happen? STUPID HOT STEAMY SENSELESS GRINDING MAN SEX? heehee.... yeah.... DO IT ALREADY! You'll thank yourself for it later! lol
 
OK. It's time to break the ice already. You want him and he wants you. The next time you are alone, playfight and make sure it ends in a kiss! Maybe you could just say "Give me a kiss". Go for it already!
 
My god. Why can't I meet guys like this!

Look. In the most respectable way I can put this. You both are having a pissing contest. Time to end it. Time to grow some balls and make a move.

He's new to this. He has these feelings for you but he doesn't know how to act upon them for a lack of better words. He's like a pot boiling on the stove. YOUR going to have to get in there and safe him. YOUR going to have to make the first move.

There is no doubt anymore. There is nothing to be afraid off anymore. If this guy is 100% straight and you think he's playing head games or whatever with you...then I'm the freaking KING OF ENGLAND!!

Don't call him. Here is what your going to do.

1. Obtain a box of condoms (yes a box....I think you two are going to do it more then just once...you've both built up so much sexual frustrations over these last few weeks that you could power New York for a day!)

2. March over to his house

3. Grab him right there and do something that would make rabbits look at you in envy!

Come on. He's right. He's not playing games...you are! Your playing hard to get and your blowing away the chance of a lifetime here kiddo!

So as they say up here in Canada. GRAB A HELMET AND GET IN THE GAME!! :D

Now go for the good of the country and finish your mission soldier!!
 
There is too much left unsaid. One's waiting for the other to make the first move. Either just make the move, or have a heart to heart chat and tell him how much me means to you.
 
72 more posts, 30 days of more drama and you're still on the short leash.
 
If I were you, I would jumped on his ass a looooooong time ago! What you need to do is go see him, make amends with him over the fights, kiss him as deep as you can, then haul his ass into the bedroom and fuck him so hard that he can't walk the next morning! Just get it over with. Oh and tell us how it goes.
 
I think you're the one playing the games, too. When he's begging you to believe he's NOT with a girl, and saying you can have him if you want him, it really is up to you to decide whether or now to seize him or not seize him.
 
Update. Not much to say. Haven't seen him in about a week. We got into an argument yet again. He basically told me how he hates the fact that I don't call him or text him and I made those attempts to do so. Now everytime I try to be with him, he's always out with someone else because he says I'm too busy to be with him, which is not true because I always have time for him. I told him the other day I was hanging with some friends and he asked me which dude was I fucking! I told him I only wanted to have sex with him and he said "I wish I could believe you." So I just stopped calling and texting because it seems as if he's starting to not care about the "relationship" anymore. I'm kind of depressed about it but at the same time, I'm doing what I can to keep my mind off of him. Not an easy task
 
FukinSeksi said:
Update. Not much to say. Haven't seen him in about a week. We got into an argument yet again. He basically told me how he hates the fact that I don't call him or text him and I made those attempts to do so. Now everytime I try to be with him, he's always out with someone else because he says I'm too busy to be with him, which is not true because I always have time for him. I told him the other day I was hanging with some friends and he asked me which dude was I fucking! I told him I only wanted to have sex with him and he said "I wish I could believe you." So I just stopped calling and texting because it seems as if he's starting to not care about the "relationship" anymore. I'm kind of depressed about it but at the same time, I'm doing what I can to keep my mind off of him. Not an easy task
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That totally sucks. It is hard to get over someone you love and care about...do you really ever get over that person though?
 
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