How soon do you let a guy into your place / go to his place?

[Harke the Boeotarch]

It was always immediately.

Whoever's place was closest.

Often we had it on the spot. Saves a lot of hassle.

 

[aaggii]

It was always immediately.

Whoever's place was closest.

Same here.

 

[KölnElch]

Okay some questions to you guys, as some things are a mystery for me regarding this topic. Hence starting this poll.

Don't you have personal stuff laying around in your places? Like.. bank account papers, family photos, stuffed animals, medicine, embarrassing CDs or books, other things that you wouldn't want your guy to see?

Where do you put your wallet, keys and phones when you're getting naked?

(I always thought everyone is careless, but I just might be paranoid!)

And how do you get rid of him again if you're feeling unwell for some reason?

 

[JohnnyAnger]

Okay some questions to you guys, as some things are a mystery for me regarding this topic. Hence starting this poll.

Don't you have personal stuff laying around in your places? Like.. bank account papers, family photos, stuffed animals, medicine, embarrassing CDs or books, other things that you wouldn't want your guy to see?

Where do you put your wallet, keys and phones when you're getting naked?

(I always thought everyone is careless, but I just might be paranoid!)

And how do you get rid of him again if you're feeling unwell for some reason?

I don't have bank account stuff, as I manage my money all online. Paper statements seem a waste of paper these days. I also don't take medicine, and if I did I wouldnt care if they saw it. It is just medicine. As for books and music being embarrassing - just own that shut and don't let yourself get embarrassed/im so cool so nothing I own is embarrassing.


I just put my phone etc with my clothes. Normally it is in my pocket, so where ever my trousers or coat go they go with them. Sometimes I put them on a bedside table but normally just wallet left pocket, phone right pocket. I'm normally pretty tight on where I always keep my stuff as my dyslexia means I always forget where I put things.

 

[dpnice]

You are paranoid I am afraid.

Taking a guy back to your place for sex already assumes that you have some form of confidence in him. Then you take the normal precaution such as being aware of where he is and what he is doing; ie you are basically together the whole time he is there.

Of course things happen sometimes but they are rare and don't happen to everyone.

If you feel the risk is too great then don't invite a stranger back to your place. Mind you if I had done that I would of missed out on some great sex with great guys.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Where do you put your wallet, keys and phones when you're getting naked?

You put 'm in your ass when you're fucking them and you put them in your mouth where they're fucking you.