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How to be happy when you are ugly?

One instance I will relate , though I have not totally worked it into my life . I would say that all my life my looks have been a problem , and coupled with absurdly high standards I have been single most of my life and will remain so . However . Several years ago I came across a guy , was involved with a guy who was in my estimation a stunning beauty , will always be maybe the most striking . This guy was molested by some 55 year old bald fat guy when he was 7 and almost everyone else after that ( including his mother ) became a streetwalker at maybe 14 and was raped a few times . His looks ruined his life .
 
I can totally relate. I know that I am not that ugly and that all the things the guys before me said about beauty mostly having to do with confidence are very true.

still there is something that I just don't like about my appearance. Sport helps boosting my spirits, but it doesn't really change anything for me. I actually love bigger guys, but there's just something about my statue thin or thick that I just can't deal with. which leads to reduce self-confidence and dealing very bad with social situations and so on.

I still haven't found a good way to just get over this, but it really helps if you're at least as self-reflected as possible and at least accept how unnecessary it all is...
 
BlueBalls said:
Most criminals and low lives are unattractive. Their parents were most likely unattractive. It's been proven that unattractive people are not promoted as often and achieve lower overall ranks. Not that it's an excuse to be a lowlife or loser just because you are unattractive..
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Wow, I know many low life's!
 
Also, have sex more often. All men look cute with a cock in their mouth.
 
I will say this. It all comes from within. Everyone would change something about themselves. You are self concious about things. You have to make the best of what u have and not allow people to make you feel less of yourself. If you love you someone will pick up on that confidence and scoop you up. Different people look for different things that they are attracted to.
Hugs Jess
 
Mike68 said:
Dude, I am by no means a looker and I still manage to get some good ones. Of course getting in shape and doing what you can to improve your looks always helps but it really does make a difference having outer confidence. You really need to shake the "Im ugly" mindset first to begin getting better. In time you may be pleasantly surprised with the results..|
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Amen. The toughest part is just doing it. And that's really all it is. JUST doing it. You have to want it, or you'll never just do it.

We've all got our battles, sug'. Let me know if I can help in yours. I'm told I have a pretty sympathetic ear. (*8*) :kiss:
 
Personally I am easily conned in to thinking people are better looking than maybe they technically are. Personality, sense of humour, confidence and a sexy attitude tend to make me edit the way I think about how someone looks.
I don't think I'm the only one.

And if that is you in your avatar then come on, seriously man?!?!
 
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