How to Cruise a Guy on the Street?

[daydreamer27]

I have found following 10 steps guide to successfully cruise a random guy on the street at gaywired.com:

1. Go to a place where you're likely to find other gay men.

2. Start walking.

3. When an attractive guy passes by you, attempt to make eye contact.

4. If you make eye contact, don't stop. Walk three more steps.

5. Turn and look over your shoulder. If he's interested, he'll do the same.

6. Face forward a walk three more steps.

7. Turn and look again. If he's looking at you too -- bingo!

8. Go up and introduce yourself.

9. Repeat as necessary.

10. This technique can also be used in shopping malls, airports, or anywhere there are large numbers of people and room to walk

Is cruising really that easy? What techniques would you recommend?

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Nope, dude. It ain't that simple.

And, nope, I do not see this as a reasonably safe mode of cruising.

Sure, eye contact is fine. Assuming that everyone in that street is gay, is plainly all wrong.

Introducing yourself? Will possibly work out in the US. Certainly not in Europe. So, what do you say?

'My name is Dave. Can I suck on your dick?' or 'Do you want to go and have couple of drinks?'

No matter what, when taking such risks, you want to have a good exit strategy and some sort of a rational justification for addressing the dude in the first place.

(A big front bulge IS NOT a proper rational justification...)

---

Years ago, a guy cruised me in an elevator of a major Chicago hotel. I came back from the windy cold out there and he barely made it with me into the elevator. He commented on the weather. I agreed and he invited me to his suite for drinks.

Gee, what a night...

...
But the play was good, simple and smart, too.

SC

 

[daydreamer27]

I've been cruised in public by couples, by single men in gay neighborhoods, or in places where it's obvious that the men aren't hetero.

But I don't try to have sex with them and I just smile back or I'll say hi since well, it's public and in some cases they're taken and it's obvious that they're exclusive.

The only places I have cruised/flirted with men and picked them up for sex are guaranteed safe spaces like queer bars/clubs.

Can you get arrested for cruising in your country?Here in Switzerland you can find places where the cops won't intervene in public sex/cruising.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Here's a question: if a guy is standing in the shower opposite yours at the gym, and is stroking his hard cock while staring at you, he IS cruising you, right?

Then why do they always turn away and act casual like they weren't doing it when you try to make a move??

This has happened to me twice in the last week at my gym - they start, and then bail. I don't really see where it's all going wrong. I'm assuming it's not me, because as I said, they start...

But then they stop.

-d-

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Here's a question: if a guy is standing in the shower opposite yours at the gym, and is stroking his hard cock while staring at you, he IS cruising you, right?

Then why do they always turn away and act casual like they weren't doing it when you try to make a move??

This has happened to me twice in the last week at my gym - they start, and then bail. I don't really see where it's all going wrong. I'm assuming it's not me, because as I said, they start...

But then they stop.

-d-

Dude,

They are testing the waters. If they see you responding, they conclude, yeah, I could have this dude... It may or may not be true in real life but it gives some guys a huge ego boost...

No harm in trying, rite?

SC

 

[blackbeltninja]

Dude,

They are testing the waters. If they see you responding, they conclude, yeah, I could have this dude... It may or may not be true in real life but it gives some guys a huge ego boost...

No harm in trying, rite?

SC

Well, fair enough... but why try if you plan to bail as soon as you succeed? Kinda "Is he interested? Is he? Is... wait! He is! He definitely is! Success! Let me run like hell!"

I'm more than puzzled by it.

-d-

 

[bulge]

The only thing I know about cruising is it sometimes is so damn easy and sometimes so damn difficult. Can one give any advice about it? I once "cruised" a guy in a "non-gay" area without any difficulty with eye contact only. It worked beyond any hope. Another time I watched a guy in Rome (I wasn't cruising at all). We were both drinking cofee in a shop. Finally the guy approached me and asked me in a very aggressive way whether I wanted his pic. I said yes as I thought he was beautiful, I said. I also said I was gay. Well, he said, I am str8 and I think you have guts. He also said it was a pity I wasn't a woman because he would have accepted immediately. We finished our cofee together. It is one of my great "cruising" souvenirs.

 

[Piquechampion]

The only thing I know about cruising is it sometimes is so damn easy and sometimes so damn difficult. Can one give any advice about it? I once "cruised" a guy in a "non-gay" area without any difficulty with eye contact only. It worked beyond any hope. Another time I watched a guy in Rome (I wasn't cruising at all). We were both drinking cofee in a shop. Finally the guy approached me and asked me in a very aggressive way whether I wanted his pic. I said yes as I thought he was beautiful, I said. I also said I was gay. Well, he said, I am str8 and I think you have guts. He also said it was a pity I wasn't a woman because he would have accepted immediately. We finished our cofee together. It is one of my great "cruising" souvenirs.

Yeah those Roman ¨straight¨ guys are big ole closeted homos.

 

[nightmarez]

The only thing I know about cruising is it sometimes is so damn easy and sometimes so damn difficult. Can one give any advice about it? I once "cruised" a guy in a "non-gay" area without any difficulty with eye contact only. It worked beyond any hope. Another time I watched a guy in Rome (I wasn't cruising at all). We were both drinking cofee in a shop. Finally the guy approached me and asked me in a very aggressive way whether I wanted his pic. I said yes as I thought he was beautiful, I said. I also said I was gay. Well, he said, I am str8 and I think you have guts. He also said it was a pity I wasn't a woman because he would have accepted immediately. We finished our cofee together. It is one of my great "cruising" souvenirs.

oh it's a good story...

btw someone explained this matter so long in a few posts before. I totally agree with him...

 

[dgstud2002]

This totally works,
I was walking on 4th ave in Seattle last summer. This guy, about 23 ro 24 was walking the other way and as he got closer I could see he had a huge bulge. I totally stared at it as he passed and when he got past me, I turned and he was looking back to see if I was looking. He then does a 180 and follows me into the Ranier squar shopping plaza. I kinda take my time and window shop while he is watching me and he starts playing with his cock through his pockets. We end up in this bathroom on the second floor where he stands at the stall next me and whips out the biggest uncut dick I have ever seen. It is half hard and he starts jackin while he looking at my dick that is already rock hard! he reached over and jacked me off where I shot all over the floor. Then I jacked his cock where he shot a load in the urinal. Oh, I forgot, while he was jacking me, he started fingering my butt, it was so freaking hot! Then we just cleaned off our dicks and left, never saw him again.