How to deal with real life damsel in distress?

[Dominus]

I know this young woman. Never had a job in her life. She is in a relationship with 3 guys. She is legally married to 1. The other 2 guys also sleep with her. The 3 guys tend to her every need. They hate each other so I guess they rotate with each other.

She is extremely emotionally manipulative. Every little problem is an emergency. Every time something doesn't go her way is the end of the world. After all, how can any knight in a shiny armor say no to a hot blond that is so fragile every little effing thing makes her panic and cry?

She even tried that jedi mind trick damsel in distress BS on me once.

Have you encountered such a personality before? How did you deal with it?

 

[rareboy]

Avoid her like the fucking plague.

She is mentally unstable...certainly neurotic and possibly sociopathic.

She is not a damsel in distress.

She is a cup of poison.

 

[unloadonme]

Avoid her like the fucking plague.

Agreed.

 

[Essex Boy]

I've never met one but I can easily imagine it. In the words of the late, great Oliver Reed, "she needs a man to put her over his knee, pull her knickers down and give her a bloody good spanking".

 

[Dominus]

I've never met one but I can easily imagine it. In the words of the late, great Oliver Reed, "she needs a man to put her over his knee, pull her knickers down and give her a bloody good spanking".

Honestly, I had heard of this type of person before and have seen them in TV shows and movies. But this is the first time I've met one in real life. Never thought I'd run into 1 for real in real life. Every little thing is the end of the world and required crying. A fully grown adult crying over something stupid like not enough water pressure in the shower.

Your quote there really doesn't work. As long as there are idiots like the 3 straight guys tending to her every need, she will continue to behave like that.

 

[johaninsc]

...Have you encountered such a personality before? How did you deal with it?

I deal with it quickly...

 

[Essex Boy]

As long as there are idiots like the 3 straight guys tending to her every need, she will continue to behave like that.

Sounds like they deserve each other.

 

[LeicsDom]

She has learnt early that men think with their dicks

 

[Kahaih]

I deal with it quickly...

"Your patch has no power here!"

 

[Peloso]

I know this young woman. Never had a job in her life. She is in a relationship with 3 guys. She is legally married to 1. The other 2 guys also sleep with her. The 3 guys tend to her every need. They hate each other so I guess they rotate with each other.

She is extremely emotionally manipulative. Every little problem is an emergency. Every time something doesn't go her way is the end of the world. After all, how can any knight in a shiny armor say no to a hot blond that is so fragile every little effing thing makes her panic and cry?

I just pitched this to Netflix. Thanks. If they do make a show out of it, I promise to send you some coupons or something.

 

[peeonme]

Sorry, I believe in equality. I will help the elderly or the disabled but but just being xx doesn't merit special treatment.

 

[ShadowCat]

She is extremely emotionally manipulative. Every little problem is an emergency. Every time something doesn't go her way is the end of the world.

I see you've met my narcissistic, dago "princess" mother! Always bitching about something never pitching in to fix it! Will criticize everyone and everything but will never turn the lens on herself! Has danced on the water with Jesus Christ like Ginger Rodgers and Fred Astaire! Can do no wrong due to her papal infallibility! Never wrong (it bore repeating thats how never wrong she is)! Poo poos people, belittles them, et all! How do I deal with it? You learn to filter out the bullshit get to the nuts and bolts of whatever they are blathering on about! When they start their hissy fit walk away drives em nuts! Dont apologize ket them come to you (good luck) but occasionally she has come to me to apologize, of course I let her then dont say anything back! But even if I do say it I dont mean it! Shes treated people lije servants and like shit so long the love is dying! Just a miserably toxic woman!

 

[rareboy]

^ You seem to have the most incredibly toxic co-dependent relationship with your parents...you really would be better off away from them, I think?

 

[Dominus]

I see you've met my narcissistic, dago "princess" mother! Always bitching about something never pitching in to fix it! Will criticize everyone and everything but will never turn the lens on herself! Has danced on the water with Jesus Christ like Ginger Rodgers and Fred Astaire! Can do no wrong due to her papal infallibility! Never wrong (it bore repeating thats how never wrong she is)! Poo poos people, belittles them, et all! How do I deal with it? You learn to filter out the bullshit get to the nuts and bolts of whatever they are blathering on about! When they start their hissy fit walk away drives em nuts! Dont apologize ket them come to you (good luck) but occasionally she has come to me to apologize, of course I let her then dont say anything back! But even if I do say it I dont mean it! Shes treated people lije servants and like shit so long the love is dying! Just a miserably toxic woman!

Actually, this does not sound like the young woman I'm talking about at all. I don't believe at all that she is a narcissist. I've never seen her bitch.

She's always sick. She's always so emotionally fragile that anythingand everything will make her cry. You'd think that her dog died or something when in fact the line at McDonald's is too long (or something stupid like that).

I do believe your mother and this young lady belong to the same class of emotional manipulator. But while your mom is forceful about it, this young lady does it in a much more passive way. Straight guys in particular have the yearning need to be the knight in shiny armor. Especially to the hot blond that is so emotionally fragile she will cry at the sight of a grasshopper, or some other BS.

I told them I'm done dealing with the drama and to get the hell out. I'll give them a couple weeks and then if they're not out I'm filing for eviction.

 

[rareboy]

Evict them.

Get ready for some ugly drama, but as I said, she is a pathological neurotic.

On the other hand, if they are paying their rent on time and are not months in arrears...you will never be able to evict her and her squad of loser men.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

"she needs a man to put her over his knee, pull her knickers down and give her a bloody good spanking".

What a coincidence, so do I