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I'm quite lonely now my friends all gone abroad to work or study. I met a cute guy like a month ago who i've been looking at in a local club for a long time. I just introduced myself to him because he's the younger brother of a girl I know and I told him I'm his sisters friend.

Since then he's always nice to me and seems to look up to me, he offers me drinks and tries to act cool around me - me and my friends are a bit older than him and quite popular in our town.

The thing is, i only see him on weekends and now summer is coming i guess i wont be seeing him much - everybody leaves town for summer lol. I want to get closer to him, as a friend, because my friends are gone and i like him. But he has his own group of friends. I added him on facebook but i dont know how to take this to another level of friendship, do you understand? Do you have any ideas? Should i text him on facebook? Should i say something next time i see him? I think my summer would be better if i had someone to spend with as friends. I think he's straight, so it's not sexual thing. I'm bisexual btw, but no one knows i'm into guys.

Thanks, sorry for long post and confusion :)
 
The next time you see him, invite him out to have dinner...or to a movie...or to a club...or to do something fun in your town. If you don't want to wait until you see him...message an invitation to him on Facebook.
 
Message him. "Are you up to hanging out some time? My buds all seem to be away this summer and I'm up for whatever."
 
Seasoned said:
Message him. "Are you up to hanging out some time? My buds all seem to be away this summer and I'm up for whatever."
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That sounds like he uses him as a last resort. I´d take out the ¨friends are gone¨ part.
 
Also, based on his hobbies you can propose to organize something once in a while, like going to the beach or whatever you both like. It doesn't sound too hard to get closer, you're starting off from a good position since you say he looks up to you and he is always nice to you.
 
Seasoned said:
Message him. "Are you up to hanging out some time? My buds all seem to be away this summer and I'm up for whatever."
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You are Right. Seasoned is the Nicest, Smartest Guy here. He is so AWESOME.
 
Thank you all for the kind replies. They were very helpful. hopefully i bump into him today!
 
If you still have at least one mutual friend around who didn't leave for the summer, you can say, "Hey, do you wanna hang out/go out to eat/see a movie with me and (insert random friend's name)?" That'll be less awkward if you guys aren't close enough yet to invite him to hang out with ONLY you. That's how I usually break new friends in. I invite them to a group outing, let them get to know my personality, then invite them out alone.
 
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