how to get my bf to hit that spot

[blonderocker]

right me and bf have great sex life, but when he tops me i only feel pleasure if i am wanking i dont feel any pleasure while he is thrusting he never hit the spot what ever position we do yeah the orgasam is great better than a wank but i yeah lay there moan out just for him is there anyway i get get the pleasure he dose when i top him as he is buck writhing under me never touches his self to cum

any help would be great

 

[racer2438]

As 1 who receives great fucking from my honey of 27 yrs, what we do is when i am on my back legs str8t up ankles together, he then pushes them forward to my head and really aims his cock to hit the upper wall behind my cock. he then rocks back/forth and side to side. This always makes me cum w/o touching my cock and is a amazing feeling.

Also works for us w/me laying face down flat, but my favorite is me laying flat face down and he lays on top backwards w/his face by my feet. his cock enters at a good angle for me and he hits my button so good. I also squeeze and relax my ass like milking his cock which he loves by the way.

But from these 3 positions I can guaranty I will cum w/o touching my cock and the orgasm is very intense for me. Then I either cum by b/j - j/o again. By then I'm tired as he fucking my ass for last 30-45 min.

 

[blonderocker]

done the one lying face still nothing but will try the others thanks for the help i just want to enjoy it everyone say how good it is but for i am like whats all the hype about

 

[blonderocker]

any help will be great the only thing that has been near succese was useing ribbid or dotted condoms but they just makes the thrusts more pleasurable. but i never have that full body orgasam people go on about

 

[Aymotin]

but i never have that full body orgasam people go on about

You don´t get that every time, in fact I didn´t have one so far, just "normal" ones with wanking while getting fucked.

I achieved some handsfree-orgasms for the passiv guy though when I topped

If those ripped and dotted condoms worked for you, use them. Also racers first position usually stimulates very good.

 

[Yves Grey]

Cock like a corkscrew. I'm surprised you haven't seen one, they're really, really common... 15.6 in 17 men have one. True story.

Sorry... I got nada.

 

[KaraBulut]

right me and bf have great sex life, but when he tops me i only feel pleasure if i am wanking i dont feel any pleasure while he is thrusting he never hit the spot what ever position we do yeah the orgasam is great better than a wank but i yeah lay there moan out just for him is there anyway i get get the pleasure he dose when i top him as he is buck writhing under me never touches his self to cum

any help would be great

Some guys were born to bottom. It sounds like your boyfriend was.

The rest of the guys either have to find someone who is an good top. Or they have to turn an mediocre top into a good top.

First, you have to know your body and you have know where your own hot spots are.

Second, you have to show your boyfriend where those spots are. He's not a mind-reader. It's up to you to say, "It feels good when you..."

 

[blonderocker]

well we recently broke up so now no sex. but we did comunicate all the time i am just wondering if the little bit extra wait is the problem but could it just be that my spot is just not that close to be rubbed or or slightly further away
thanks for the comments

 

[Aymotin]

Anal sex is not about one tiny little spot you have to stimulated.

It is about the whole sensation of a dick in your ass, the feeling and thoughts of getting taken by another man.....and so on.

Some like it from the start, some learn to like it, lot´s of guys don´t like it.

And even a lot of total bottoms don´t always cum without touching themselfs.

So if you don´t get any pleasure of it: Maybe it´s not your thing? Keep on topping?