How to get the girl? (if I should bother)

[chrisdobro]

I am a gay dude. Never have I done stuff with a girl, other than your typical making out.... in 9th grade at middle school.

I have occasionally been curious about doing oral sex on a girl. But ... I have no tools what so ever on how to get a girl. I posted 2-3 times on craigslist unsuccessfully. More so I picked up a couple of spamming bots more than anything else and my ad was flagged as well.

Then there is all the propaganda that girls are harder to pick up than guys. i.e. if a guy wants have sex with a guy, that's easy. But for a guy to find a good girl it's nearly impossible unless there is some sort of marriage involved. And I am not particularly interested in looking for a whole or finding someone who sleeps with everyone.

Well, for me, I just want to experience a girl sexually. Do I give it up and stay 100% or is there something I could do? Maybe ask another bisexual guy if they can hook me up?

What is your advice, Bi-forum guys?

 

[SmileForMe]

If you're looking for a one night stand with a chick I say go to a gay bar act gay and flirt with girls. They're most likely faghags anyway so they'll love it. Makeout and dance then go to her place and bam, done.

 

[MissAnne]

If you're looking for a one night stand with a chick I say go to a gay bar act gay and flirt with girls. They're most likely faghags anyway so they'll love it. Makeout and dance then go to her place and bam, done.

I think that "fag-hags" are usually interesting in dancing, grabbing and perhaps making out with cute gay guys (at the most). Ive never had any gay male friends that I was sexually attracted to or even wanted to kiss, however, I suppose that it could happen.

Are you telling these girls that you are gay ? If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well. If you dont mind leaving your sexuality out of it, you will probably get more responses.

 

[eggsel]

Oh god this "topic" again, no!

 

[Hot4Latinos]

Are you telling these girls that you are gay ? If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well. If you dont mind leaving your sexuality out of it, you will probably get more responses.

I've been trying for over a year a no luck at all. I had hoped I could be honest but I guess I'll take MissAnne's advice because honesty sure the hell isn't working.

 

[umjreon88]

I've been trying for over a year a no luck at all. I had hoped I could be honest but I guess I'll take MissAnne's advice because honesty sure the hell isn't working.

Then again, those who reply are bots right?

Why don't you just go to a straight bar and pick one up?

 

[str8guy]

Just be confident and fun chicks don't need to know if your gay or whatever that shouldn't even be on your mind go to a bar w a few buddies and flirt she who you hit it off with its pretty easy actually... Just remeber be confident and fun good luck man

 

[chrisdobro]

Are you telling these girls that you are gay ? If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well. If you dont mind leaving your sexuality out of it, you will probably get more responses.

Just wanted to comment on that when straight guys post saying "straight guy seeks male .. " they get swamped over with responses. "Straight" in the gay world is a valued commodity. I wonder why for girls it is the opposite.

Just be confident and fun chicks don't need to know if your gay or whatever that shouldn't even be on your mind go to a bar w a few buddies and flirt she who you hit it off with its pretty easy actually... Just remeber be confident and fun good luck man

I guess it's all that matters ... don't talk about sexuality, just act and have fun. For me though not naturally being attracted to girls it may have to be forced flirting. I normally lose attention pretty fast with girls, like immediately haha.

I used to pay them more attention when I was 18 and coming out but since then, I don't.

 

[Str8Top14701]

Find an adult dating site like alt or aff, even CL, and post what you said here: "Gay guy wants to try giving oral to a woman. (Etc)" There are a lot of women out there that will line up to be the first. Just stay away from ones that refer to trying to convert you and fag hags.