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how to handle nervous?

MrGlamorous

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needs advice and help!
I have my eye on this guy and he is uber sexy! but i get all nervous around him and i can't make a sensable sentence and i just blabber and he kissed me the other day and i freaked because im 19 never been kissed or done anything with a guy before and now he won't reply to my messages to met up..


i feel like a total loser because something like that freaked me out and i don't know if i should go out and conquer my fear by sleeping with him or just forget and move on...


has anything like this happened to you?

please i need help getting over my fears and nervous

help xxoo
 
No. I was drunk for my first kiss, but I was also older than you, so don't feel bad.

Have you explained to this uber sexy guy that it was your first kiss and that you just freaked out a little bit. If he knew and isn't willing to have a bit of patience then he's not worth your time. And if you haven't told him yet and he still won't talk to you after you tell him, then again, he's not worth your time.

If you're still feeling bad about what happened my first kiss happened after a visit to the emergency vet interrupted things, so I have you beat their.
 
Then sadly, he's not worth your time. But try not to worry about it. You're young and parts of you not obscured by a phone look pretty cute, there will be others.

And don't worry about being 19 and not having kissed a guy. There are some people who don't realize they're gay until they're much older than you...sometimes much much older than you and they too have to go through their first kiss, first time, first boyfriend and everything else, so you have a great head start on them.
 
You need to look at yourself in the mirror take a few deep breaths and realize that you are pretty damn sexy yourself. Everyone has their own view of sex so I am not going to tell you whether to jump in bed with this guy or not. You can't tell much about someone's personality over the internet, but speaking only with regard to your avatar, you have nothing to be nervous about. If this guy doesn't wanna play then go find someone else. I know I would not care how inexperienced you are. That would just be a reason for us to share a few laughs together while we got naked. And that means I'd be laughing with you.....not at you. Loosen up and enjoy.
 
Has it occurred to you that he may be just as nervous as you are? Just because he may not show it doesn't mean that he's not nervous. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.
 
Hun he has been with loads of guys and has a child who is so beautiful why he should be
 
He doesn't seem interested anymore to be honest. But you're beautiful and young trust me the situation will arise again :)

Nerves are normal. Just tell the guy you're nervous and new to this. If he doesnt understand that then dump him like hot shit.
 
but this guy really confuses me like one second we are like getting on really well than he won't talk to me for a few days than he just randomly comes back.. like just as soon as i forget him he walks right back in ><
 
He can only walk back in if you open the door. This is a bad combination because he knows his power and he's playing with you. You have it bad for him and he seems like he has his pick of people. Doing more with him is going to mean a whole lot more for you than it will for him. It would be better to let go of him now.
 
I would just ignore him. He has a kid. Do you really want to be involved with that at 19?
 
MrGlamorous said:
but this guy really confuses me like one second we are like getting on really well than he won't talk to me for a few days than he just randomly comes back.. like just as soon as i forget him he walks right back in ><
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Maybe he's playing a bit with you and he finds adorable seeing you all confused. Or perhaps he wants you to know that he knows and everybody knows, like a welcome, like "you are one of the guys, stop looking at me that way"

My advice: be ready for a next time. Don't let him fool you, if he once kisses you again, put your choreography on scene to ease yourself, what makes you feel comfortable. Grab his neck or his chin, caress his cheeks and moan very low. But don't freeze.

And till then, lots of suffering while he's around and while he's not around. You'll find out by yourself.
 
in dont know anymore he keeps giving me hot and cold signs one sec he is like all sweet than he just becomes a prick ><
 
Drop his ass. There are better people than him out there and finding them is half the fun ;)
 
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in dont know anymore he keeps giving me hot and cold signs one sec he is like all sweet than he just becomes a prick ><
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you just described who he is. by the way, how old is he?. does he live with or take care of the said child?

eM/
 
The guys likes to play headgames... ignore the shit out of him and one of two things will happen: he'll back off for good or come crawling back like a wuss. Here's the thing though, the moment you show any interest again he'll back off again and continue the cycle because he likes the whole power over you thing... the key is to never relinquish enough power for him to believe he's in full control so to speak. It could prove intense if you both know how to go at it, otherwise, one will end up messed up in this whole ordeal (I'm guessing that would be you in this case...).

My advice? The guy could be too much to handle for you so, I'd stay away from this sort of mess to keep your head in proper place. In time you will find that like this guy, they will come to you with little effort.

This guy doesn't deserve this much attention. Bag the dude and look elsewhere. Judging by your avatar, you're extremely young and I'm pretty sure you won't have any issues finding more fertile grounds. :)
 
thanks Don and my friend suggested the same thing but here is the thing he went off at me cause i said i didn't want him to kiss me in public (because the city/town i live in is very close minded) and he said fine.. and then all he asked for was me deep in side of him.. so i decided not to go see him that night and went out with a friend.. which i was planning to do before go see him and he went off at me and he knew i planned this :(
 
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