Hi all, I met a guy about a year ago in a bar and he straight out admitted he has a girlfriend who lives in France, we grew very close and his girlfriend knows he's bi and is ok with the whole thing. I've realised that this isn't for me but I can't help but admit I care about him.. The problem is now his girlfriend is staying in our flat and it's difficult to see him spending the night with her... He's behaving totally different around me and it's understandable but it's Putting perspective on my life, what am I doing? I've neglected friends and potential lovers because of him I really don't want to be with him given the circumstances but he's picked her. I don't know what plan of action to take to not feel like I'm in such a weird and awkward situation.. Which I am. It's my fault partially but we get on so well together that's the thing, I love spending all my time with him. I haven't really made any signs to him that I am looking for someone else. Should I just go out there and date guys and not hide the fact to him? I feel now that once his gf is gone I don't want things to be the same , I don't really want to feel used and when she's gone I want to keep some distance.. I'm a little confused about my emotions and the whole situation so any advice would be great, thanks
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Hey Billy118 it sound,s like you are not one of these guy,s that is happy with
a menage et trois .
If it was my flat i am afraid that i would have to put a stop to it my self-respect
would not allow me to do anything else .
In your post you make it obvious that he prefers her , my ansa kick both their
sorry asses out your life buddy . You deserve more respect from a lover not
having him shag some bird in your bed.
I think that it will be as hard as hell to start with but after a while your self-respect will kick in and something tells me that you would not be single for
long just watch out for the re-bound effect . All the best m8.
a menage et trois .
If it was my flat i am afraid that i would have to put a stop to it my self-respect
would not allow me to do anything else .
In your post you make it obvious that he prefers her , my ansa kick both their
sorry asses out your life buddy . You deserve more respect from a lover not
having him shag some bird in your bed.
I think that it will be as hard as hell to start with but after a while your self-respect will kick in and something tells me that you would not be single for
long just watch out for the re-bound effect . All the best m8.
Well to be honest I get on well with him just I want it to turn into a true friendship where I
Couldn't give a shit who he fucks etc. At the end of the day he's not my boyfriend he would be if he wasn't with his girl though that's my dilemma as I know he likes me he can't hide it but because of his cultural upbringing he has a dilemma about gay or bi. Anyway thanks for your advice I won't kick him out but it's so insensitive of him ad he knows I like him, I can hear then kissing and he has a lOvebite!! I am jealous but I shouldn't be thing is I'm single and he is usually the first to initiate sex I've stoppe it completely for a few weeks though
Couldn't give a shit who he fucks etc. At the end of the day he's not my boyfriend he would be if he wasn't with his girl though that's my dilemma as I know he likes me he can't hide it but because of his cultural upbringing he has a dilemma about gay or bi. Anyway thanks for your advice I won't kick him out but it's so insensitive of him ad he knows I like him, I can hear then kissing and he has a lOvebite!! I am jealous but I shouldn't be thing is I'm single and he is usually the first to initiate sex I've stoppe it completely for a few weeks though
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
If you don't want to share him, call it off, ask him to move out soon, and find yourself somebody you can be with alone.
Lex
Lex
TX-Beau
FEAR THE LIBERAL DETENTE!
You know, there’s no way I would be putting a roof over the head of a guy who knew I was interested, would have sex with me – string me along emotionally, for whatever reason valid or not (there is no valid reason) then drop me the moment his GIRLFRIEND arrives.
Not a fucking chance in hell.
Whatever he says he feels about you, whatever you’re thinking you know about what he feels for you, he doesn’t feel enough to respect you as a person.
You are being used. It may not be conscious or deliberate on his part, but it’s the same animal none the less.
Not a fucking chance in hell.
Whatever he says he feels about you, whatever you’re thinking you know about what he feels for you, he doesn’t feel enough to respect you as a person.
You are being used. It may not be conscious or deliberate on his part, but it’s the same animal none the less.
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
^ I don't know about all that. From all accounts, he made it clear that the OP was the "action on the side". I don't see any indication that he strung him along emotionally - it sounds like he made it very clear where his priorities lay. The OP simply got caught up, and chose to ignore it (or perhaps hope that he could woo him over). That said, I do think getting him out of the house is the right move.
Lex
Lex