how to have my first gay experience

[1091MAC]

Create a profile on gay.com. You can post both public and private pics, so you are able to select who sees what pics of you. You could post just regular body pics for everyone to see and private pics of your face if you wanted to be discreet. You have the ability to chat with guys to find out if you are compatible.

I would not ask your gf about having a threesome and especially with another guy. Threesomes tend to be a better fantasy than reality, however, I am sure some guys on here will testify that they are wonderful.

 

[Jasson67]

And what's wrong with a hairy 50-year old?

 

[hothunk222]

where are you from? message me

 

[evanrick]

well whats not important is how you see yourself, but what makes you happy.
you could try craigslist, gay dating sites, etc

 

[biguy732]

just hit your local ABS - always some cock to be found there.

 

[AsianDream]

I'm a long time reader of these forums, and sometimes contributor haha and i often jack off to the stories and porn i find on here, although i do class myself as straight.

But last night I had an epithany and thought, what if im bi? so ive decided i want to try it all, suck a guy off, fuck a guy, get fucked etc. all of it! just to see if i am in fact bi.

But i want it to be safe and so dont want to just pick up a randomer in a bar. I also dont want to end up with some fat, hairy 50 year old. I want someone of roughly my age (so anywhere from legal -28 really) and if possible with little experience and also curious like myself.

Does anyone have any ideas where i can find this man? Or am i being too picky? I was also considering asking my gf if she wanted a threesome with another man, so i could try it in even more safety, although im worried that if i do this and i dont like it then all of my gfs mates will think im gay for asking!

Any advice from your expert brains is much appreciated, cheers x

First advice I’d give is not to try to do everything at once.

Go to a local Gay Sauna – try not to cum for at least a week before – also only let a guy touch you if you think he’s really hot. Plus be prepared to try it a few times without doing anything – even if you don’t have any sex – seeing other guys do it is hot.

I’d class myself as very experienced (probably a total gay slut) – but never try Internet hookups – these have always been a disaster for me – mostly really embarrassing – also sometimes rather threatening (though maybe work for some).

Also – the first time I was fucked I’d already had loads of practice with dildos and butt plugs. Unless you practice relaxing your anus muscles before you try it for real there’s a good chance you’ll end up as a “Top Only” guy (SAD) – and probably miss out on half the fun of gay sex. Also unless you know how to relax your ass – there is some risk of damage.

Actually I love sex with older guys – they’re normally really experienced and really know what they’re doing – but maybe that’s also just the different Asian attitude to age and sexuality.

 

[Flexuality]

A common and safe place to meet guys is in a gym, especially a city gym where you might have a higher concentration of single, gay or curious guys. It's not hard to express interest with eye contact and smiles in the lockerroom or sauna. But don't fool around in the gym itself or you risk getting thrown out or arrested.

 

[Autolycus]

What is the legal age in UK? Here in the USA,the legal age is 18, with the exception of the State of Hawaii which is 16 as far as I know. You do not want to be with a minor who is under the legal age of your Country.

Sixteen is the legal age of consent in the UK but that does not give everyone the right to pursue sixteen year olds - circumstances can render it illegal.

For the record, I have made a slight change to the original post in this thread to avoid any possible confusion with laws outside the UK.

No prizes for spotting the difference!

 

[emancipado]

And what's wrong with a hairy 50-year old?

nothing!!!

 

[AsianDream]

A common and safe place to meet guys is in a gym, especially a city gym where you might have a higher concentration of single, gay or curious guys. It's not hard to express interest with eye contact and smiles in the lockerroom or sauna. But don't fool around in the gym itself or you risk getting thrown out or arrested.

I'd still say that a Gay Sauna (Bathouse) is the best and safest place.

Almost all the guys are there for sex - so they're all "pre-qualified" as Gay/BI and also probably feeling horny and in the mood anyway. The worst that can happen in any sexual approach to another guy is a polite no thanks.

A friend of mine had a very awkward situation at a Gym - just from eyeing up and smiling at a Guy. Some STR8 guys can react quite badly to any sign of a sexual advance from another guy.

I know there are various theories that it's guys that are insecure about their own sexuality who are likely to be the most homophobic. In my friends case the very public "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKING AT YOU LITTLE FAGGOT" style remark didn't do much for his self esteem.

Also he was on an annual membership plan with the Gym - luckily they have several sites in the city - but now he has to go to one further away from where he works.

 

[Flexuality]

Good point. Cruising is always risk, and a gym carries it's own risks.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

try adam4adam.com but i'm not sure if they have a a UK site.

 

[hotatlboi]

What is the legal age in UK? Here in the USA,the legal age is 18, with the exception of the State of Hawaii which is 16 as far as I know.

Actually the age of consent laws in the US vary widely between 16 and 18 for differing states.