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How to know if a guy was interested in me...

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Hi guys... I had a date Friday night (which is MAJOR for me!) This guy sent me a really nice email on Bigger City, last week.
Friday night he drove from San Diego to my city which is about an hour North.
He got to my house at 8pm, and we hugged each other, and then went to diner.
Dinner was fun... good conversation. We then went to the bar inside this restaurant. I paid for everything considering he drove all the way up here.
We kinda flirted, and then went back to my house, and watched Heroes. Within a few minutes, we started making out hard-core, and then he said 'let's go upstairs'
So, we went up to my bedroom and started having sex. I told him before hand that I wasn't really into anal, but he insisted I fuck him.
I tried... but it was kinda awkward. Prob not the best.
I sucked him off and visa versa.

So anyways, he slept over, and I just couldn't believe that I had someone SO BEAUTIFUL in my bed.
The next morning I tried to cuddle with him, but he didn't seem into it... so he turned over on his side, and I gave him his space. BUT THEN, he started to cuddle with me for a minute. Then stopped.
at 9am on Saturday we took a shower, and he told me that he had to go to take care of some stuff at his school.
He kissed me, and said that we should do this again.

Well... after he left my house, I sent him an email saying this:
Hey James,
I just wanted to thank you for driving up here. I had a really good time with you, and hope that we can see each other again:)

-Brad

The email was sent Saturday morning at 11am... but I have not heard back from him. It is now Sunday afternoon.

My question: How long should I wait for him to email/call/txt me back?
I read that if I guy is not interested in you, he will ignore you.
BUT, if a guy IS interested in you... he will get back to you ASAP.

I really like this guy, and I have never felt this way before. My friend Tara told me NOT TO CALL/TXT/or Email at all, until he responds back to my email.

I just want this to work so bad.

Any imput will help!

thank you!!!
 
Sadly you have probably been introduced to one night stands, hold off next time on sex if you are at all interested in the guy, be patient , maybe you will still hear from him, but, if nothing else use this as a learning experience.
 
1big14me said:
well, Brad, what can I say, sex on the first date. I haven't had sex with the one I have been seeing the last three months and Our friendship is blossoming and getting stronger. You might have been a one night stand for that guy. Go much slower next time, it will work out better.
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damn... this really sucks. i will go slower next time.... i wish there wasn't a next time... because I think this guy was so special... thanks for the reply.
 
Fiorino said:
Sadly you have probably been introduced to one night stands, hold off next time on sex if you are at all interested in the guy, be patient , maybe you will still hear from him, but, if nothing else use this as a learning experience.
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I HOPE that i will still hear from him. i will be crushed, if I don't. I feel used now. :(
I will use this as a learning expierence. Thank you VERY MUCH for your reply.
 
1big14me said:
Gin&Tonic, don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes. If you do see or hear from him again, or meet someone new, take it slow, look below the skin, find out his likes and dislikes, what movies he likes. see if the two of you have much in common. see if you have mental and emotional connections that is due to your personality. See if you and him are on the same page. These are just suggestions but it worked for me and my friend. There are vast inner resources to work with, use it, we all have those resources.
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this may have been a huge fucking mistake... I don't have guys lined up for me... and this guy was beyond beautiful... so I feel like crap when I think about not being with him... but I will follow your advise and take things slow in the future..
:)
 
If you're at all interested in a serious relationship, don't have sex on the first date. That's what your mother and your grandmother learned and it holds true for all relationships straight and gay.
 
LoveIsNow said:
If you're at all interested in a serious relationship, don't have sex on the first date. That's what your mother and your grandmother learned and it holds true for all relationships straight and gay.
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I guess my mom was right. haha

She told me off for having sex on the 1st date.

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