How to know someone is avoiding you

[FloridaBoi]

Okay, I have this friend shes a girl lol, anyway... We were really good friends up until about a month ago she stopped answering my calls and wouldnt return any of my calls. I called and left her a message saying I had my old phone cut off and if she wanted my new cell number to call my house and I would give it to her, okay I called her cell from my cell today and a few minutes ago she called me back and said Who is this? I said DUH! who do you think it is and she got real quiet so I asked her why she hadnt called me in so long and she said," I dont know just some things well I gotta go ill call you later on next break" so im gonna wait and see if it happens....

Do you think I should keep trying to call her or just drop it and move on?

 

[Ohiospeedo]

Maybe call her again in a few days and leave a message. If she doesn't respond, then I wouldn't waste any more of your time. If she does call later down the road, then act cold and ask her what her deal is.

 

[FREDDIE187]

Did you tell her you were gay? If not, maybe she figured it out and now her hopes are dashed.

If she wants to play games don't bother with her. Phone a happy handsome gay dude.

 

[gotdimples77]

did you piss on her cornflakes?

 

[SuperQueer]

Wait a few days and call her again. She might be one of those people who are better face to face than on the phone. Subsequently, her phone manners maybe lacking.

If she does't call you back then maybe she's avoiding you.

If so, don't let if bother you - there are plenty of other friends that would love to have you call on them.

 

[FloridaBoi]

I used to work with her at the place she is still working, its a fairly easy job but I got a better paying job so I had to leave. We still talked for a long time, we were best friends but all of a sudden she stopped talking to me I know shes avoiding me because of the way she acted when I got her on the phone.

Id be lieing if I said it didnt bother me because she was my best friend but I guess things work out for the best in the end anyway right? Shes supposed to call me at 4 aclock which is only 20 minutes from now, honestly I dont look for it. Anyways guys on another note I finally took a picture of myself but im kinda scared to post it here so if any of u wanna PM me ill email it to you and you can tell me what you think...

 

[backpacker]

Time to move on. For whatever reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore. If you want to give it one last try, leave her a message asking her why she doesn't to be friends anymore. Tell her you would just like to know why. It may open the door to working out whatever the issue is, but a seriously doubt that she will respond. My best guess is that was interested in you romantically and she finally figured out it was going to happen. If she doesn't know you are gay, telling her may explain a lot to her and save the friendship.

 

[FloridaBoi]

Well Im over her im not gonna call her anymore, Whats funny is she was all great and fine while I was buying her little girl birthday gifts and when I wasnt in town to buy her a christmas gift is when it went down hill so now I know what kind of person she is. well thanks guys for your help..

 

[hermanding]

usually when someone continues to evade and evade, that's what's happening
ding

 

[KennyD]

Sounds like a Fish who wanted your "Pole" and realized that she wasn't going to get "It" .... so she is avoiding you.

 

[Jeimuzu]

Happened to me, actually... A guy, though. We'd been best friends for years, and then he moved to london and didn't bother to tell me. Ever since then, he's basically blanked me. We met up once, and he was just... I dunno. He has also made friends with the biggest most arrogant prick on the planet, so if he's gonna hang around with him, I'm not gonna bother. Even the arrogant prick - who'd known Scott for about a tenth of the time I'd known Scott - knew he'd moved.

So, just ignore her. If she comes crawling back, response, but don't try to get in touch with her. Let her do it to you.